So I was just confronted at work by my friend's husband.. EDIT!! WIFE resigned, Husband Charged....
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Deep_Black_Conscious
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Don't listen to this advice
NEVER underestimate what people can do
I can’t stand insecure cats.
OP handled it the correct way. Told homie nothing was going on, and told the female coworker to stay away from him.
Now if old buddy comes back again, you might have to get busy...
OP handled it the correct way. Told homie nothing was going on, and told the female coworker to stay away from him.
Now if old buddy comes back again, you might have to get busy...
Organic Trees
Go Cavs! #LetEmKnow
Glad you made it out of that situation safe and sound. I’m not sure why these dudes always having smoke for the nikka instead of they woman.
You bring harm to me then possibly get smoked or locked up guess what happens.. another nikka going to be all up in shorty while you crying like a bytch behind bars or on your way to heavens gates
You bring harm to me then possibly get smoked or locked up guess what happens.. another nikka going to be all up in shorty while you crying like a bytch behind bars or on your way to heavens gates
Yeah these dudes weirdos. If a bytch gonna cheat they gon cheat no reason to run around like an unhinged idiot trying to kill every man who says a word to her.
He not I got a broad who is married at utsw literally right beside the hospital he’s atfor anyone who hasn't realized by now, op is full of shyt
n she is married.. niggga always in the studio n no music .. he have her car she get it back some broad done scratched it up or left a thumb drive in it with videos of the dude n her
met her back in August
n she did somethin I do .. air dropped her number n said by the vending machine
she text me on the clock when she at work or when she on holidays
she put me on true kitchen n other
soon as she is on the clock she textin me
memes n outfits from them thick hoe ig stores
I went to whiskey cake .. n they was there .. she spotted me n I copped a squat
he lookin the whole time I’m like hey I ain’t got no problem if u wanna watch this yo hoe .. looks
then one of my pieces came the sigh he let out after he saw what I was sittin next too
Kuz when I used Ashley fork to eat their fried green tomatoe the nikka was
I said hey bro iono if u suckin dikk or not I kno she don’t
I’m with the fukkery .. even if it’s not a issue .. I can feel the energy .. I play the cutty role with perfection
I heard u be in the studio all the time .. send me a single I’ll cash app ya
If ya broad can cupcake with a nihga she jus met n she see the other dude In traffic n brings them to the table where it supposed to private and all giddy
2 things I like to do free appetizer n talkin shyt
The fact that dude is in his 40s and 50s tells you he isn't one of these new school dudes that let their women get into an open relationship and have a million and one homeboys and male cousins and play brothers. A lot of older men already know the game, and even though in your mind, you didn't have any intent to get with his wife, his perception of you is you are probably one of these play-brothers waiting until the time is right to strike... and its not your intent, but rather his perception that will control his actions... so all a man has to do is perceive you are coming to break up his household and he'll be ready to tap you out.
Now that you know it's real, set it straight with ol girl and let her know that you got love for her as a friend, but it's best for both of yall to cease contact outside of work hours, especially via the phone.
The thing is, when a man's family, children and finances are taken from him and especially if he's older and he feels like he doesn't have time to start over and he has nothing to lose, he's going to lash out at the parties he feel is involved, which includes his woman and the guy that is talking to his woman. Even though that wasn't personally your intent, it's his perception that matters. He sees a guy that his wife works with in her phone and sending pics of himself with her. That might be friendly to you, but in his mind that could be a man planting a seed to 'revive old memories'.
Now that you know it's real, set it straight with ol girl and let her know that you got love for her as a friend, but it's best for both of yall to cease contact outside of work hours, especially via the phone.
The thing is, when a man's family, children and finances are taken from him and especially if he's older and he feels like he doesn't have time to start over and he has nothing to lose, he's going to lash out at the parties he feel is involved, which includes his woman and the guy that is talking to his woman. Even though that wasn't personally your intent, it's his perception that matters. He sees a guy that his wife works with in her phone and sending pics of himself with her. That might be friendly to you, but in his mind that could be a man planting a seed to 'revive old memories'.
Sadbrownsfan
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It doesn’t matter what your relationship was before. Completely platonic, flirty, or a straight up affair. You HAVE to fukk her now.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Man, just leave the chick alone. Reading between the lines, she's playing you both up against each other and loving it.
I wrote that pimp post because a lot of negroes got real life misconstrued based off some rapper/blogger/whoever ear hustling some pimping and taking something that doesn't apply to them and spreading a completely wrong understanding to the masses. You can't take rules from one game and apply it to a completely different arena.
These rappers will tell you that you should be able to sleep with another man's woman and that man is only supposed to check the woman. That's something they misconstrued from the pimp game and even in that sense, that's completely wrong. In the pimp game, the other woman has to CHOOSE you and give you a CHOOSING FEE to make it official and then one pimp gives the other pimp a courtesy call and the other pimp is supposed to let that woman go without any problems. In that game if another pimp just goes off and sleep with another pimp's woman without getting a choosing fee, that's called chipping and he will lose respect or possibly get killed. There is no such thing as doing what you want as a man and then pushing all the repercussions on the woman, even in the pimp game. The pimp game is where these rappers took a faulty understanding from ear hustling and tried to apply that to a completely different arena.
These rappers talking about check the woman only are the same ones that will call a prostitute a trick in a song when prostitutes DEAL WITH tricks, letting you know they have no idea what they are talking about... so I'm saying all of this to say that dealing with a committed man's woman isn't going to be nothing but problems. You think you gonna go up to him and say 'Don't hate the playa, hate the game' and he's going to be cool, but in many cases he's going to be telling you, 'don't hate the shooter, hate the bullet' when he unloads that full clip on you because his emotions have risen to such a level that all logic and thought of repercussions has gone out of the window.
You can't go onto a football field with basketball rules and call traveling on the running back because he's running with the ball in his hand without bouncing it. Just like that, you can't expect a husband or boyfriend to respond to you like some stomp down pimp or a playa who has no emotional attachment to a girl, especially when you have no mutual understanding between the parties and by sleeping with his woman, you aren't following any protocol in the first place. Only in fantasy land can you just go sleep with all kinds of guys' women and they are gonna be cool with you.
The average husband or boyfriend is NOT a player and in order for rules to be respected and adhered to, you have to be a player in that particular game where all parties know the rules. Husbands and boyfriends don't owe you any kind of courtesy for spitting game at their woman. Most of them will NOT let you into their households, knock their woman down or plant your seeds to try to do so and then give you dap. This is a fantasy perpetuated by rappers emulating REAL pimp game, taking it out of context and giving the youth a formula to get killed by... which is what a real simp is... a sucker impersonating a pimp. These guys trying to apply pimping to the square world and putting themselves in situations to get killed are the real simps.
When you deal with a married woman, not only are you messing with his woman, you're messing with his money because of the court fees, alimony, child support, and you're messing with his kids because those kids won't have that unified household any more. At a minimum, you're hitting him with a triple threat, so if he goes over the edge, all those irrelevant slogans about 'don't check the playa, check the ho' gonna go out the window.
The best solution is to not deal with committed women, whether they are married or in a relationship, and if you absolutely must deal with them, deal with them in a very limited, controlled context and beware of how you may be perceived by their man in order to keep problems to a minimum. When it comes to these situations, you don't even have to have the intent. All that has to happen is the other guy has a weapon, a heart full of rage and the wrong perception of what you are doing with his woman for you to lose your life.
Proverbs 6 tells you what you need to know
These rappers will tell you that you should be able to sleep with another man's woman and that man is only supposed to check the woman. That's something they misconstrued from the pimp game and even in that sense, that's completely wrong. In the pimp game, the other woman has to CHOOSE you and give you a CHOOSING FEE to make it official and then one pimp gives the other pimp a courtesy call and the other pimp is supposed to let that woman go without any problems. In that game if another pimp just goes off and sleep with another pimp's woman without getting a choosing fee, that's called chipping and he will lose respect or possibly get killed. There is no such thing as doing what you want as a man and then pushing all the repercussions on the woman, even in the pimp game. The pimp game is where these rappers took a faulty understanding from ear hustling and tried to apply that to a completely different arena.
These rappers talking about check the woman only are the same ones that will call a prostitute a trick in a song when prostitutes DEAL WITH tricks, letting you know they have no idea what they are talking about... so I'm saying all of this to say that dealing with a committed man's woman isn't going to be nothing but problems. You think you gonna go up to him and say 'Don't hate the playa, hate the game' and he's going to be cool, but in many cases he's going to be telling you, 'don't hate the shooter, hate the bullet' when he unloads that full clip on you because his emotions have risen to such a level that all logic and thought of repercussions has gone out of the window.
You can't go onto a football field with basketball rules and call traveling on the running back because he's running with the ball in his hand without bouncing it. Just like that, you can't expect a husband or boyfriend to respond to you like some stomp down pimp or a playa who has no emotional attachment to a girl, especially when you have no mutual understanding between the parties and by sleeping with his woman, you aren't following any protocol in the first place. Only in fantasy land can you just go sleep with all kinds of guys' women and they are gonna be cool with you.
The average husband or boyfriend is NOT a player and in order for rules to be respected and adhered to, you have to be a player in that particular game where all parties know the rules. Husbands and boyfriends don't owe you any kind of courtesy for spitting game at their woman. Most of them will NOT let you into their households, knock their woman down or plant your seeds to try to do so and then give you dap. This is a fantasy perpetuated by rappers emulating REAL pimp game, taking it out of context and giving the youth a formula to get killed by... which is what a real simp is... a sucker impersonating a pimp. These guys trying to apply pimping to the square world and putting themselves in situations to get killed are the real simps.
When you deal with a married woman, not only are you messing with his woman, you're messing with his money because of the court fees, alimony, child support, and you're messing with his kids because those kids won't have that unified household any more. At a minimum, you're hitting him with a triple threat, so if he goes over the edge, all those irrelevant slogans about 'don't check the playa, check the ho' gonna go out the window.
The best solution is to not deal with committed women, whether they are married or in a relationship, and if you absolutely must deal with them, deal with them in a very limited, controlled context and beware of how you may be perceived by their man in order to keep problems to a minimum. When it comes to these situations, you don't even have to have the intent. All that has to happen is the other guy has a weapon, a heart full of rage and the wrong perception of what you are doing with his woman for you to lose your life.
Proverbs 6 tells you what you need to know
1LurkerChick9
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It's not the fact that the woman is leaving... Women rarely just leave, they stick around and start cheating first and then if they're certain they have a sure place to land, they leave. During this time, they start playing games with their husband and he notices and starts snooping. He confirms his suspicions and then that's when he snaps.
It's okay to leave, relationships don't work out
If another man marks a ni99a out in a large group, you just played with his pride and ego. He will leave you there in front of everyone and go to prison for decades.
You sound crazy , just like ole boy in the OP
I have nothing more to say to someone justifying murder
MoveForward
Veteran
I'm far from crazy, you're just using the shaming language that women use to justify their nature.
This is real life, play with people and their emotions... Suffer the consequences.
I have had this happen to me personally and I took it on the chin. Guess what happened when I started dating? I had three different men call my phone asking about my dealings with their woman. Then it hit me, women play games and then start playing the victim when they get a reaction.
Oh, he's abusive and controlling... That's why I left. When in reality she got caught monkey branching and the ni99a beat her ass.
What's next?... I hate women? You're hurt?
Why the fukk are you "friends" with a married woman.... Cmon bro, women arent interesting enough to be "text message" buddies with...
SnowflakesByTheOZ
Sorry, that's another B
Red the OP earlier but didn't get to respond. I suggest you purchase a firearm and let the girl know not to contact you again. You should get a restraining order as well