So I'm Going to Be a Father..

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Tbh I see a lot of people talking about don't trust her, but trust is the first step to having a healthy relationship and since I plan on being with her until the day I die I need to trust her.


I'm starting to pick out names tho.
If it's a boy or a girl I think Miles would be a good name.
 

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18 YEARS !!!!!


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You nutted in a random at a party ?!
:wow:

And now you and her are going to try and make things work for the babies sake

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Judd apatow couldn't have made this one up. Good luck.

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She's 3 weeks. Well if it's mine then yes, I don't want to be like my father and his father and abandon their kids so the coli can talk shyt about him like they do me.
Man up. Most of these Coli nikkas don't even like women don't listen to them. y'all aint gotta be together but GET A DNA TEST FIRST THING. Don't be a fool and assume the kid is yours cuz depending on where you live if you act like the father and its determined not your lil mans/mamma then you STILL have to pay child support. be smart and don't be another bytch nikka letting another man step up and be called 'dad' by your seed.
 

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She's 3 weeks. Well if it's mine then yes, I don't want to be like my father and his father and abandon their kids so the coli can talk shyt about him like they do me.

Good for you. But if she is three weeks then you need to sit down and really think are you ready for this. There are still options. If you haven't experienced all life has to offer, finishing college, getting a steady career, think about it seriously. You can still do all these things with a kid but once the kid is born your life takes a backseat. Your money, your time, your emotions will go into raising someone who needs you. Think on it. The shyt is just not a phase people go through. Kiss your sleep goodbye and watch how your fam changes on you. It's a serious life change. And these coli nikkas ain't gonna be there when you gotta change diapers, work two jobs, and have to deal with your baby momma's mom.

This is a YOU decision. Kids are great but if you are not ready the shyt is shocking. I had a homeboy who was too young to have kids and this nikka tried sellin dope to feed his daughter. Got caught by the police three weeks ago, now he is locked up and his daughter is calling another man dad (cause his baby momma wasn't shyt) Baby momma's are the scourge of the earth. Really think about this shyt.
 
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Damn breh, and you were telling me in that other thread how you're only 22 and won't be wifing anyone while you're in your prime, now you got a seed ont he way :banderas:
I know, but my game plan has changed. Iont wanna be a playa no more
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Good for you. But if she is three weeks then you need to sit down and really think are you ready for this. There are still options. If you haven't experienced all life has to offer, finishing college, getting a steady career, think about it seriously. You can still do all these things with a kid but once the kid is born your life takes a backseat. Your money, your time, your emotions will go into raising someone who needs you. Think on it. The shyt is just not a phase people go through. Kiss your sleep goodbye and watch how your fam changes on you. It's a serious life change. And these coli nikkas ain't gonna be there when you gotta change diapers, work two jobs, and have to deal with your baby momma's mom.

This is a YOU decision. Kids are great but if you are not ready the shyt is shocking. I had a homeboy who was too young to have kids and this nikka tried sellin dope to feed his daughter. Got caught by the police three weeks ago, now he is locked up and his daughter is calling another man dad (cause his baby momma wasn't shyt) Baby momma's are the scourge of the earth. Really think about this shyt.
Thanks for the wise words and I'm sorry about your homeboy. These b's ain't s
 
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