So Men Are Supposed To Support A Lifestyle A Woman Created For Herself?

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Age Range Black Female Black Male
20 - 29 $21,000 $25,000
30 - 39 $34,600 $41,000
40 - 49 $41,000 $51,000
50 - 59 $45,000 $47,000

Now, why did I post those charts and spent the time to write out the median incomes? Well, because you guys are focused on BS talking points. Black Women on avarage have a lower median income than Black Men in 2021 Dollars. Stop listening to birds talk and lie to you, because the majority of them are not making money like that. They are infact making less money than the men they are thumbing their noses at.
Exactly. They are lying. They for the most part are not making money like that. A lot of them front but they are living paycheck to paycheck and are looking for a sponsor to save them
 

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earnings-men-age-race-ethnicity.svg





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Age Range Black Female Black Male
20 - 29 $21,000 $25,000
30 - 39 $34,600 $41,000
40 - 49 $41,000 $51,000
50 - 59 $45,000 $47,000

Now, why did I post those charts and spent the time to write out the median incomes? Well, because you guys are focused on BS talking points. Black Women on avarage have a lower median income than Black Men in 2021 Dollars. Stop listening to birds talk and lie to you, because the majority of them are not making money like that. They are infact making less money than the men they are thumbing their noses at.
this is exactly why I said they want you to take on there debt and bad decisions

they struuuuugling. keep holding out and get your passport brehs.
 

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I'm pretty low maintenance, but I always have been.
As I got older and really got to puttin' my finances together, I notice I am more attracted to women whom complement my lifestyle as a homebody.
A woman that knows how to function within her financial means and delay gratification for long-term success is more important to me now.
Having quiet money 'cause money ain't the main feature of the relationship.

That gets harder to achieve the older I get I been seein' though...
 

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some people do the same thing but they go to the local spots or do something more adventurous. they still need the money to do it.
i just paid for pit tickets at the gnx tour. yeah it's luxurious but i fukkin loved it and i'll never forget it and been watching my videos for days lol. it's not black and white

I said I wouldn't debate you, and it wasn't out of malice but for my own peace of mind, but I will engage you one last time in response to what you just said:

Yes, pit tickets to the GNX Tour might cost a lot, but both you and I can afford those things. The price of those things isn't the discussion.

I'm happy you created a memory.

But if you complete the logic of hers (and now your) analogy, you are assigning a financial bar or a financial threshold to what constitutes a "memory".

That is by very definiton, materialism.

"If it doesn't cost as much as X, it cannot hold emotional value to me."

In her example, she said, quite plainly, that a certain level of vacation, and the cost of that vacation, is the level she expects in order to consider that something that creates a "memory" for her, or this fictional woman.

And in your example, you used GNX pit tickets as an example.

So, to borrow your own words of it not being "black and white", paint the gray for me in this example?

GNX pit tickets created a memory for you, but if a man you liked took you to a bar and you line danced and had a great time, you wouldn't remember it because it was cheaper?

Once again, and for real this time, I'll see myself out.

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I'm pretty low maintenance, but I always have been.
As I got older and really got to puttin' my finances together, I notice I am more attracted to women whom complement my lifestyle as a homebody.
A woman that knows how to function within her financial means and delay gratification for long-term success is more important to me now.
Having quiet money 'cause money ain't the main feature of the relationship.

That gets harder to achieve the older I get I been seein' though...
Most relationships end because of Money so get with someone with the same financial literacy as you.
 

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I'm pretty low maintenance, but I always have been.
As I got older and really got to puttin' my finances together, I notice I am more attracted to women whom complement my lifestyle as a homebody.
A woman that knows how to function within her financial means and delay gratification for long-term success is more important to me now.
Having quiet money 'cause money ain't the main feature of the relationship.

That gets harder to achieve the older I get I been seein' though...
Exactly the type of time I'm on too
 

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She's not really wrong...like at all.

If a woman really has it like THAT, where she can burn a few grand a month while still increasing her accounts and paying her bills, if you come in and you're not there(don't worry, most people aren't) it's probably not gonna work out longterm.

You might feel the pressure to try n keep up, n that's only gonna breed resentment.

She might feel the pressure to dumb it down, n that might be a net aid to where she feels she's doing better by not spending so much, but if she's been doing it for a good long while n honestly prefers that, it will only breed resentment.

Equally yoked is a thing for a reason and it's not just two 7/10 physicals matching.

Why get sassy n snippy when she's right?

Looks/mouthpiece/sex game/emotional connections can do some heavy lifting but nothing kills love like fighting over money.

The only exception to this rule is a dude that's ok with basically being kept, and the woman who wants to keep him.

The social pressures they'd have to face and overcome make that the uphill battle, talking about real longterm life-planning relationships.
 

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I said I wouldn't debate you, and it wasn't out of malice but for my own peace of mind, but I will engage you one last time in response to what you just said:

Yes, pit tickets to the GNX Tour might cost a lot, but both you and I can afford those things. The price of those things isn't the discussion.

I'm happy you created a memory.

But if you complete the logic of hers (and now your) analogy, you are assigning a financial bar or a financial threshold to what constitutes a "memory".

That is by very definiton, materialism.

"If it doesn't cost as much as X, it cannot hold emotional value to me."

In her example, she said, quite plainly, that a certain level of vacation, and the cost of that vacation, is the level she expects in order to consider that something that creates a "memory" for her, or this fictional woman.

And in your example, you used GNX pit tickets as an example.

So, to borrow your own words of it not being "black and white", paint the gray for me in this example?

GNX pit tickets created a memory for you, but if a man you liked took you to a bar and you line danced and had a great time, you wouldn't remember it because it was cheaper?

Once again, and for real this time, I'll see myself out.

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As long as you waste your time arguing in the realm of the subjective, you will never win and you will always leave an opening for the opposition to slip through. Unfortunately, I have noticed a lot of you really do like to argue subjective points, instead of going straight towards putting up objective facts. Trying to convince the person of the validity of your subjective take seems to be very important to some of you.

You are not going to change her mind on her position. Her position is based on her feelings not facts. There is nothing you can counter subjectively. All you can do is put up what the truth is about all of these idiotic takes, and leave it at that. The objective truth is that their median income is less than the men they claim are too broke to be with them. The rest is just noise.
 
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I said I wouldn't debate you, and it wasn't out of malice but for my own peace of mind, but I will engage you one last time in response to what you just said:

Yes, pit tickets to the GNX Tour might cost a lot, but both you and I can afford those things. The price of those things isn't the discussion.

I'm happy you created a memory.

But if you complete the logic of hers (and now your) analogy, you are assigning a financial bar or a financial threshold to what constitutes a "memory".

That is by very definiton, materialism.

"If it doesn't cost as much as X, it cannot hold emotional value to me."

In her example, she said, quite plainly, that a certain level of vacation, and the cost of that vacation, is the level she expects in order to consider that something that creates a "memory" for her, or this fictional woman.

And in your example, you used GNX pit tickets as an example.

So, to borrow your own words of it not being "black and white", paint the gray for me in this example?

GNX pit tickets created a memory for you, but if a man you liked took you to a bar and you line danced and had a great time, you wouldn't remember it because it was cheaper?

Once again, and for real this time, I'll see myself out.

VY2wmdR.png

be in the cheap seats at the gnx tour brehs :mjlol:
 

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These women who talk that tax bracket shyt arent making no money.

They're working average jobs, making average salaries, getting into debt going on trips and brunches, and then blaming men for not wanting to be ATMs

The women who are truly making good money and approach life/dating/men from a decent vantage point aren't making these videos.

There's couples who make good money and they're focused on investing, putting kids in private school, etc. Not nonstop reality show/podcast convos about pay to play concepts
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