So Men Are Supposed To Support A Lifestyle A Woman Created For Herself?

Amo Husserl

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Most relationships end because of Money so get with someone with the same financial literacy as you.
I check for those things based on what we're spending and the type of activities we do before getting serious, ask questions about where she's been and where she's trying to go. Open-ended questions so I can subtly shift the conversation to see where her head is really at. From the start, I don't seriously date women in debt. She gotta be debt free, have her own car and be ambitious on the job even if she only maxin' out at 60K.

What's important for me is if she know how to hold down the fort and make the right moves at the right time with what she's got and if we get together on a serious note if we can make the most out of what we got without it being an issue and if can hustle together without problems.

I been getting into homesteading lately, so I would want to be with a woman who sees the importance of that. Don't really want a city girl or a hot girl.

:manny::manny::manny:
Be great to get with a level-headed woman and raise some grounded children who go on to do great things.
 

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I check for those things based on what we're spending and the type of activities we do before getting serious, ask questions about where she's been and where she's trying to go. Open-ended questions so I can subtly shift the conversation to see where her head is really at. From the start, I don't seriously date women in debt. She gotta be debt free, have her own car and be ambitious on the job even if she only maxin' out at 60K.

What's important for me is if she know how to hold down the fort and make the right moves at the right time with what she's got and if we get together on a serious note if we can make the most out of what we got without it being an issue and if can hustle together without problems.

I been getting into homesteading lately, so I would want to be with a woman who sees the importance of that. Don't really want a city girl or a hot girl.

:manny::manny::manny:
Be great to get with a level-headed woman and raise some grounded children who go on to do great things.
I broke up with my ex because we weren’t on the same page financially even though she’s a good girl and we have love for each other. I think I’m headed for another break up from a girl who also cant stay out of the Mall.
 

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I broke up with my ex because we weren’t on the same page financially even though she’s a good girl and we have love for each other. I think I’m headed for another break up from a girl who also cant stay out of the Mall.
Yeah, I try to get an understanding about that before I talk about getting serious. I spent a good amount of time blowing money and now I'm at the place where I don't have a reason to blow money. I learned how to work within my budget and be resourceful with what I had, and it's been a night and day change in not only how I approach money, but approach life. If I'm with a woman who can't understand that, I fall back and let her move on.

Was messin' with a woman years ago who I could have been in a serious thing with, but that kind of commitment takes time and money and I'm not at the place now or then to teach that lesson 'cause it's going to hurt the relationship, waste time and money.

I like seeing women on the grind with life experience goin' back to school to get into a new field, working or starting school after years of working. A woman that has a strong work ethic, family-oriented and is goal driven is important to me now that I'm older.

...glad I fell back from the dating scene 'cause I woulda came to this understanding about myself later I'm sure about it.
 

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Yeah, I try to get an understanding about that before I talk about getting serious. I spent a good amount of time blowing money and now I'm at the place where I don't have a reason to blow money. I learned how to work within my budget and be resourceful with what I had, and it's been a night and day change in not only how I approach money, but approach life. If I'm with a woman who can't understand that, I fall back and let her move on.

Was messin' with a woman years ago who I could have been in a serious thing with, but that kind of commitment takes time and money and I'm not at the place now or then to teach that lesson 'cause it's going to hurt the relationship, waste time and money.

I like seeing women on the grind with life experience goin' back to school to get into a new field, working or starting school after years of working. A woman that has a strong work ethic, family-oriented and is goal driven is important to me now that I'm older.

...glad I fell back from the dating scene 'cause I woulda came to this understanding about myself later I'm sure about it.
I be falling for the It’s her money shyt but rarely does a woman really both have it spend like crazy and have rainy day savings

That’s the problem hoes may have it and spend it but do they have a good emergency Fund? Do they have sinking funds for a big purchase.

If a woman works hard it’s unlikely she’ll be in a villa in Turks dropping 10K on a weekend regardless it be thes city girls with cool jobs living off their credit cards that move like this.
 

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I be falling for the It’s her money shyt but rarely does a woman really both have it spend like crazy and have rainy day savings

That’s the problem hoes may have it and spend it but do they have a good emergency Fund? Do they have sinking funds for a big purchase.

If a woman works hard it’s unlikely she’ll be in a villa in Turks dropping 10K on a weekend regardless it be thes city girls with cool jobs living off their credit cards that move like this.
That's me being a homebody and wanting a homebody. Know how to stay in the house and stack some money.
It's not that we can't splurge, we just do it on a conservative schedule 'cause it's other things goin' on that are more important.
I also like a woman who's capable to do things on her own, like for the most part she don't need a middle man.
Any time I dealt with a woman who had to go through too many people to get things done, I was the one hearing about it.
 

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That's me being a homebody and wanting a homebody. Know how to stay in the house and stack some money.
It's not that we can't splurge, we just do it on a conservative schedule 'cause it's other things goin' on that are more important.
I also like a woman who's capable to do things on her own, like for the most part she don't need a middle man.
Any time I dealt with a woman who had to go through too many people to get things done, I was the one hearing about it.
That’s the problem finding a chick who has the bag and doesn’t feel the need to buy shyt Just Because But the whole credit system runs on women’s spending so it’s a double edged sword.
 

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I be falling for the It’s her money shyt but rarely does a woman really both have it spend like crazy and have rainy day savings

That’s the problem hoes may have it and spend it but do they have a good emergency Fund? Do they have sinking funds for a big purchase.

If a woman works hard it’s unlikely she’ll be in a villa in Turks dropping 10K on a weekend regardless it be thes city girls with cool jobs living off their credit cards that move like this.

Exactly but many women who work hard get jealous of that city girl lifestyle and it muddys the waters.
 

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The gas analogy was straight BIRD math. If YOU can fill up your tank as a single woman each week for $200. Then there is no reason for a man to fill up YOUR tank for $200 because you have been doing it yourself….

the vacation one I get. If you don’t have it and she does it’s going to cause problems. But as long as everyone pays their share equally then it’s a solid plan. But most of these hoes are living like. Your money is my money and my money is my money.

so they want you to pay the 10k for you and the 10k for her. BIRD math
 

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We’re literally in a fascist regime right now and people come to the internet talking about broke nikkas, living an expensive lifestyle while driving an Altima. I just can’t. We are some unserious people. We are some delusional people. All of these rich bytches, but the stats not matching.
 

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We’re literally in a fascist regime right now and people come to the internet talking about broke nikkas, living an expensive lifestyle while driving an Altima. I just can’t. We are some unserious people. We are some delusional people. All of these rich bytches, but the stats not matching.
She didn’t seem like she was driving foreigns so she isn’t talking about herself.

Following the 70/30 blowing 10 racks on a vacay means that person has to be a multi millionaire.

Doing it off recurring credit card debt is still making like 400K a year if we’re talking bultered Villas in Turks.
 

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That’s the problem finding a chick who has the bag and doesn’t feel the need to buy shyt Just Because But the whole credit system runs on women’s spending so it’s a double edged sword.
And that's what stops me from getting serious. I don't take a woman serious if she has debt.
I heard some OGs say growin' up they don't fukk with women who got credit scores below 740.
Now I see what they meant.
 
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