Couldn't have stated it better myself
So Men Are Supposed To Support A Lifestyle A Woman Created For Herself?
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bourgeoisie tall freak
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i was partly trolling dude for excusing himself then coming back with paragraphs lol then excusing himself again. if he don't want to read it then im not gonna waste time reading all that and responding thoughtfully
it's nothing more cringe than someone you don't care to interact with following you around the forum which is one of the main reasons why i block fonts lol. so i get it!and also, what your folks did have nothing to do with me. i also know folks who got far seats. like the lady in the OP, i politely excused myself from joining them and did my own thing because this is something i enjoy better doing my way. people like what they like, and sometimes what they like has nothing to do with materialism even if it cost a lot which was my whole point.
like.... do yall understand the concept of paying the price for doing/having something you enjoy? it's not a novel concept.
as far as the concepts role in a relationship.... idk, i don't really be asking dudes for anything. i see women doing that and it seems like a big headache. i don't want anything that someone doesn't really want to give me.
but there are some guys that lead with their pockets. people just need to stay in their lane and link with like minded people which is what i thought was the bottom line of what she was saying.
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Does not include hand outs, transfers of income, or money from sexwork either. The numbers are from actual income gained by legal work. The same can be said about the underground economy not being included for Black men, drugs, scamming, etc.
Alone and broke cause while they talking about lifestyle and trips and dining today, they know nothing about setting themselves up for when they old and can't rely on goofys they can use to "supplement" their lifestyles anymore.
richaveli83
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Majority of Americans, except us on the coli because we're making six figures, don't have $1000 for an emergency and make like 50k a year.
These folks be saying anything on tiktok and Instagram.
These folks be saying anything on tiktok and Instagram.
O.T.I.S.
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You wanna know whats crazy…
Men in the tax bracket she’s talking about and above, when they see this what do they think those men think?
Any man that has ever made over 120k after taxes is not looking for any kind of woman who gets on sm like this or thinks like this.
“Bags, trips, dinners…she out here being a boss, etc.,” that nikka not gonna give af or is going to want to sit down and break bread with you. I do agree to date within your paygrade though. Females just not realistic with their own paygrade or try to shoot above.. You not building with no chick with this mindset
Men in the tax bracket she’s talking about and above, when they see this what do they think those men think?
Any man that has ever made over 120k after taxes is not looking for any kind of woman who gets on sm like this or thinks like this.
“Bags, trips, dinners…she out here being a boss, etc.,” that nikka not gonna give af or is going to want to sit down and break bread with you. I do agree to date within your paygrade though. Females just not realistic with their own paygrade or try to shoot above.. You not building with no chick with this mindset
Did she talk about wealth building?
A lot of these women are going to crash out in their 40s. The problem is they can't actually afford to live the life they present on social media and eventually the repayment plans add up.
Most people can't afford to just splash 10k on holiday or spend $300 every weekend. If they're doing that shyt, they're dipping into money that should go towards a house or their retirement fund.
A lot of these women are going to crash out in their 40s. The problem is they can't actually afford to live the life they present on social media and eventually the repayment plans add up.
Most people can't afford to just splash 10k on holiday or spend $300 every weekend. If they're doing that shyt, they're dipping into money that should go towards a house or their retirement fund.
They don't run on logic, but emotions. If you lack control over your emotions, you will perform many actions that are longterm detrimental to you, but feel good in the short term.
This happens for both sexes, I try to get young males to not allow themselves to fall into the emotional traps. This is also why vetting is so important, because women who are like how you mentioned will cause a man to bankrupt himself, if he is intent on meeting the wants of a delusional woman who thinks wants are the same as needs.
So, yea any man with his head on straight will see them for what they are, and place them in the "for fun only" bin if they are attractive women.
That just means she didn't like you or don't see you as someone worth doing those small things for. Just charge it to the game and move forward.
Tribal Outkast
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I don’t know man…
There are six figgy earners right now that could lose everything with the stroke of Donald Trump’s pen. Like people doing and living well saying they’ll be worried about their careers and lives if the government makes this one decision that could hurt them. I don’t know how many people that can just drop 3 and 400 dollars like it’s 10 bucks unless it’s on bills lol. People I know save money to do shyt lol. I can see the truth in what she’s saying but I don’t want to be with a person who’s just burning through money on random shyt. Vacations have been the most important thing for me these days, could’ve gone to many concerts but I just can’t justify paying money to see these people anymore. It’s time to be smart with money in 2025
There are six figgy earners right now that could lose everything with the stroke of Donald Trump’s pen. Like people doing and living well saying they’ll be worried about their careers and lives if the government makes this one decision that could hurt them. I don’t know how many people that can just drop 3 and 400 dollars like it’s 10 bucks unless it’s on bills lol. People I know save money to do shyt lol. I can see the truth in what she’s saying but I don’t want to be with a person who’s just burning through money on random shyt. Vacations have been the most important thing for me these days, could’ve gone to many concerts but I just can’t justify paying money to see these people anymore. It’s time to be smart with money in 2025
Yeah I didn't hear anything wrong either. She said if the chick is portraying a certain lifestyle rather it's real or not and you can't maintain it don't even make the attempt. Too many dudes get themselves into a jam trying to even give off the image that they can do it just to hit. J
I mean, she's kinda right at the end of the day. I just think she said it wrong.
The way i see it, some women expect you to trick on them. And then some dudes try to date these women but don't want to trick. And then the dudes complain. What she's saying is, find a woman that aligns with your values and lifestyle. That's hardly controversial.
The way i see it, some women expect you to trick on them. And then some dudes try to date these women but don't want to trick. And then the dudes complain. What she's saying is, find a woman that aligns with your values and lifestyle. That's hardly controversial.
Rarely, because we need to show off excessively.