So Men Are Supposed To Support A Lifestyle A Woman Created For Herself?

[Turbulent]

Y'all don't see anything wrong with prostitution taking over social relationships with black people huh

I do see something wrong with it. I just happen to think that the solution is for men to lead by not getting into pseudo relationships with women who engage in soft prostitution.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Never take the advice of someone sitting in the front seat of an Altima

who still doesn't know the difference in use between "to" and "too".....

 

[fscballin]

Y'all don't see anything wrong with prostitution taking over social relationships with black people huh

Prostitution has taken over modern black entertainment the past 35 years.

 

[daemonova]

These hoes are looking for sponsors and regular good dikk…



You paying for my haircut hoe…?

You paying for this oil & lube change…?


Yea, shut the fuuck up…

When it's all said and done they end up with the same ashy lames that told a good lie. And even when they found out about it, they still with them.

If them niccas was all that, they wouldn't be barefoot and pregnant now, looking like Lauren Hill, waiting for you to pick up the pieces.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Do y’all really think every black man in a relationship with a black woman is doing these things? Women post things like this online, but tolerate way less from men they like and are attracted to.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Crazy seeing repeated divide and conquer videos called "Relationship advice". Dunno why y'all nıggas like pouring jelly on yourselves with this kinda content though. @CouldntBeMeTho

babble.

Spoiler: The Reality

This terrible superficial bird babble consistently being regurgitated in the media is to divide black men and black women in America.

Some rich cac is probably sponsoring some of these hoes and pimping them out while living 50/50, 60/40 or 70/30 with a homely white wife at home.

Trust, I've seen rich cacs cheating on an ugly white wife tricking on black women and teaching them how to hate black men.

The bread they're tricking on these dumb bum bıtches comes from a joint account with their wives.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

-I'm just speaking from the basis of materialism itself. Materialism isn't a subjective thing like people try to pretend it is, it's literally a thing with a clear definition.

-Saying shyt like it's not about materialism but the root is materialism is stupid & contradictory. If it's rooted in materialism it's about materialism.
-Getting more expensive tickets because you wanna be closer for the view or something isn't materialistic. Getting more expensive tickets cause you can't fathom being in the broke section is blatantly materialistic. But you said you were trolling so it's whatever. The price of something you enjoy isn't the issue, the issue is the motivation behind these things.
-While I get her point she was indeed describing dealing with materialistic women. If you're judging the person by what they can do financially that literally being materialistic.

-Keep in mind I don't really care if a woman wants to be materialistic, that's her business & I'll just avoid her. My issue is materialistic woman having the nerve to get upset when you call them exactly what they are.

yeah there are different levels to it... look at a lot of posters saying they have the money but want to keep it for themselves or do something else with it. or them judging others for the things they have or like to buy and what they rather see them have or invest in which are other material things. so who is right and who is wrong?

may as well just mind your damn business, stop pocket watching and get with someone who shares your budget values.

 

[Grifter]

I was watching MTV yesterday and Bills, Bills, Bills, came on. And I was reminded that even damn near 30 years ago as a pre-teen I knew how outlandish these bytches were for having the audacity to make an anthem for spoiled ho's dismissing men for either not being able or not willing to pay all their debt for them.

 

[AllHolosEve]

yeah there are different levels to it... look at a lot of posters saying they have the money but want to keep it for themselves or do something else with it. or them judging others for the things they have or like to buy and what they rather see them have or invest in which are other material things. so who is right and who is wrong?

may as well just mind your damn business, stop pocket watching and get with someone who shares your budget values.

-Yeah I don't believe in judging people for what they decide to do with their money as long as they're not hurting anybody. People are full of shyt anyways so there's really no point trying to figure out who's right or wrong.

-My woman makes more than me but I made it clear from the beginning if she wants a certain kinda lifestyle she needs to go find that guy. I have extra money but it's not getting wasted on random bullshyt.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I was watching MTV yesterday and Bills, Bills, Bills, came on. And I was reminded that even damn near 30 years ago as a pre-teen I knew how outlandish these bytches were for having the audacity to make an anthem for spoiled ho's dismissing men for either not being able or not willing to pay all their debt for them.

so you only listened to the chorus

 

[Grifter]

so you only lisened to the chorus

yup.

 

[Yaboysix]

Oh ok, i see...Y'all Nyggas post these random Bytche's hot takes just to get Nyggas to Rant, huh.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

some other parts of the song before people try to incel out on destiny's child...

Now you've been maxing out my card (card)
Gave me bad credit, buyin' me gifts with my own ends
Haven't paid the first bill
But you're steady headin' to the mall
Goin' on shopping sprees
Perpetrating to your friends like you be ballin'
And then you use my cellphone (phone)
Callin' whoever that you think's at home
And then when the bill comes
All of a sudden you be acting dumb
Don't know where none of these calls come from
When your momma's number's here more than once

 

[Shadow King]

She's not really wrong...like at all.

If a woman really has it like THAT, where she can burn a few grand a month while still increasing her accounts and paying her bills, if you come in and you're not there(don't worry, most people aren't) it's probably not gonna work out longterm.

You might feel the pressure to try n keep up, n that's only gonna breed resentment.

She might feel the pressure to dumb it down, n that might be a net aid to where she feels she's doing better by not spending so much, but if she's been doing it for a good long while n honestly prefers that, it will only breed resentment.

Equally yoked is a thing for a reason and it's not just two 7/10 physicals matching.

Why get sassy n snippy when she's right?

Looks/mouthpiece/sex game/emotional connections can do some heavy lifting but nothing kills love like fighting over money.

The only exception to this rule is a dude that's ok with basically being kept, and the woman who wants to keep him.

The social pressures they'd have to face and overcome make that the uphill battle, talking about real longterm life-planning relationships.

It's not about being "sassy and sissy". She's not right this is bird talk.

The majority of women talking like this aren't doing the bolded which is why come with these front loaded requirements, they need the man to handle her responsibilities so she can use her money for play and student debt.

 

[Shadow King]

The only reason black women are constantly talking about this is because men with resources by and large are not choosing black women for relationships.

If they were, they wouldn’t feel the need to lecture about it all day, every day.

Obviously, the men looking to date them make the same as them, less than them, or nothing at all.

Now if you’re a serious person you’d ask WHY THAT IS THE CASE instead of shaming the only men who are even considering taking you seriously.

You’d also ask why black women feel the need to brag about their lifestyles and advertise THAT instead of advertising the qualities that would make them more attractive like being nice, caring, loving, nurturing, a good listener, physically fit, patient, etc.

It’s always HERE IS WHAT I GOT nikka CAN YOU MAKE IT EVEN BETTER FOR ME!

Honestly, black women don’t realize how they look to everyone that isn’t a black woman. Most people know why black women struggle with dating but black women think it’s everyone else’s fault. It’s sad really.

If speaking on black men specifically this is statistically false