So Men Are Supposed To Support A Lifestyle A Woman Created For Herself?

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

How many miles is your commute

it's like 10 miles one way but i might go in the office like 2-3 times a month.
i be at home for the most part

 

[Phitz]

I've dates 6 figure earning women before who still made me breakfast lunch and dinner. But they weren't waisting money like the OP. Most women aust money like that don't really have it. If they like you they don't care how much you make.

As long as you're not dependent on them. They might try every now and then to overstep and try to cover costs for stuff you don't need but don't let them do it, thats how you maintain control.

 

[Phitz]

Exactly. They are lying. They for the most part are not making money like that. A lot of them front but they are living paycheck to paycheck and are looking for a sponsor to save them

If They really make money like that they're not overspending. Most ones I know can be cheap(or still bargain hunt) with their spending, that's part of the reason they have ALOT of money.

 

[Scaaar]

Here's my thing...she is doing you a favor in that vid so why be mad? Why would you want to be involved with a woman you cannot afford? Leave her alone and find someone who fits what you want and have.

But this applies to successful men too. My girlfriend makes less than me but we both make six figures. She has a nicer car than me, she likes nice things but OVERALL is not an expensive woman. I notice a lot of women online seem to think that being hyper consumerist is a character trait instead of a personality flaw. Most women like that have shytty taste. Their definition of quality revolves around how much it costs, which is why they love shytty expensive restaurants that put gold flakes on steak lol...

I don't want to be with a woman who can't appreciate tacos at a hole in the wall Mexican restaurant, or a family owned soul food restaurant. Not saying I don't go to expensive restaurants...I do. But if you can't understand that price doesn't equal quality for everything, you are CULTURALLY bankrupt and I want nothing to do with you. These are the people who go overseas and eat at shytty tourist trap restaurants because they're expensive, instead of just finding the best places local people actually eat at.

That's my POV. But it's brehs that let the message fly completely over their heads. But that's their own personal insecurities. Like why prove to a chick that you either can't or don't want to afford that you have the bread to. We gotta stop dating with our egos and just know when it's best to move around.

 

[3rdWorld]

A man shouldn't care for what a woman possesses

..step up no matter how broke you are, and it's up to her to reject you

This is some sort of bird babble..

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I'm pretty low maintenance, but I always have been.
As I got older and really got to puttin' my finances together, I notice I am more attracted to women whom complement my lifestyle as a homebody.
A woman that knows how to function within her financial means and delay gratification for long-term success is more important to me now.
Having quiet money 'cause money ain't the main feature of the relationship.

That gets harder to achieve the older I get I been seein' though...

This deserves 100 reps.

Most relationships end because of Money so get with someone with the same financial literacy as you.

So many things are tolerable in marriage except financial mismanagement. Women will stay with a cheating, abusive husband as long as they can maintain the lifestyle.

 

[Neuromancer]

She's not pretty enough to have a life style.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I will NEVER be a trick.

And the weird shít is that dudes be gettin' peer pressured by other dudes to be a trick.

"What you won't provide for her, another man will"

"Your woman shouldnt have to pay ANY bills"


I'm like "get yo bítch àss out my face"


I'll beat my díck to a bank statement before I ever trick and worry about if I can get some overtime hrs at my job to support some grown ass adult other than myself

 

[ThrobbingHood]

We’re literally in a fascist regime right now and people come to the internet talking about broke nikkas, living an expensive lifestyle while driving an Altima. I just can’t. We are some unserious people. We are some delusional people. All of these rich bytches, but the stats not matching.

Thread should’ve really ended after this. The median black wealth is projected to be zero by 2050… but this is the kind of nonsense people choose to indulge in. Like I said, such an unserious “community”.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

Ok cool!

But it supersedes the whole reason of getting together…. To build something better


Pull resources to build something sustainable, foundational, generational. When will this become the standard?

You want a sponser and if whoever is willing, as men, you’re doing us a big big disservice

Whatever bro, I’m out the game. I know what it is

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

I will NEVER be a trick.

And the weird shít is that dudes be gettin' peer pressured by other dudes to be a trick.

"What you won't provide for her, another man will"

"Your woman shouldnt have to pay ANY bills"


I'm like "get yo bítch àss out my face"


I'll beat my díck to a bank statement before I ever trick and worry about if I can get some overtime hrs at my job to support some grown ass adult other than myself

“I’ll beat my dikk to a bank statement” is one of the hardest bars I’ve heard all year


I’m using that expeditiously

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

This is the exact reason I cut my 46 year old Philly bird off yesterday morning.


All she talked about is going out, trips, etc etc…

But when it came to little shyt I asked her for, she didn’t do it and I had to remind her. AND THE BIITCH STILL didn’t do it.

It really came down to her being extremely selfish and self centered. I’m noticing these older hoes be mad delusional about their value in the game as well.

a broad thats 46 has spent the last 20 years being corrupted by reality tv and later by social media

those house wives shows started it all.....

that 40-50 age bracket is full of tatted....dinner and trip picture taking....out of shape.... socialite wannabes....

im in that bracket and its a minefield breh.....

if this shyt im in now goes left....im getting a dog....and riding this shyt out dolo

 

[Apollo Creed]

I mean, she's kinda right at the end of the day. I just think she said it wrong.

The way i see it, some women expect you to trick on them. And then some dudes try to date these women but don't want to trick. And then the dudes complain. What she's saying is, find a woman that aligns with your values and lifestyle. That's hardly controversial.

Y'all don't see anything wrong with prostitution taking over social relationships with black people huh

 

[Shadow King]

Statistically speaking she’s right. Most divorces are money related. If you ain’t got just move on.

Money is the face value reason given for divorce.

 

[AllHolosEve]

i was partly trolling dude.....

and also, what your folks did have nothing to do with me. i also know folks who got far seayts. like the lady in the OP, i politely excused myself from joining them and did my own thing because this is something i enjoy better doing my way. people like what they like, and sometimes what they like has nothing to do with materialism even if it cost a lot which was my whole point.
like.... do yall understand the concept of paying the price for doing/having something you enjoy? it's not a novel concept.
as far as the concepts role in a relationship.... idk, i don't really be asking dudes for anything. i see women doing that and it seems like a big headache. i don't want anything that someone doesn't really want to give me.
but there are some guys that lead with their pockets. people just need to stay in their lane and link with like minded people which is what i thought was the bottom line of what she was saying.y

-I'm just speaking from the basis of materialism itself. Materialism isn't a subjective thing like people try to pretend it is, it's literally a thing with a clear definition.

-Saying shyt like it's not about materialism but the root is materialism is stupid & contradictory. If it's rooted in materialism it's about materialism.
-Getting more expensive tickets because you wanna be closer for the view or something isn't materialistic. Getting more expensive tickets cause you can't fathom being in the broke section is blatantly materialistic. But you said you were trolling so it's whatever. The price of something you enjoy isn't the issue, the issue is the motivation behind these things.
-While I get her point she was indeed describing dealing with materialistic women. If you're judging the person by what they can do financially that literally being materialistic.

-Keep in mind I don't really care if a woman wants to be materialistic, that's her business & I'll just avoid her. My issue is materialistic woman having the nerve to get upset when you call them exactly what they are.