Man is only 27, working 85 hours a week, for kids that aren't even his. A single mom's kids.
What if she wants to rekindle with the baby daddy/ex? Then he's gone and all that hard work meant nothing because you know he wasn't there long enough for the kids to consider him their real dad.
If they divorce, he now he has to pay child support and spousal support, taking out money from a job that was basically all going towards that family anyway. a family he wasn't even with that long, and again, whose kids aren't his.
And for what? A single mom, who - let's be real - still has to put her kids first. Because no matter how much he plays daddy, 1 fight is all it takes for him to be reduced to just a glorified provider. You know when the kids are upset, they'll say "you aren't my real dad

". And you know that when she was dating him, she scouted him out because she knew he'd take care. And lastly, the part no one talks about - women in desperate situations like these, who call on a "real man" to save them,
never truly respect that man deep down inside. They still think less of him inside, or think some type of way about him, for willing to be with them. Especially a 27 year old.
I get why many dudes be militant as fukk about not dating single moms.
