Born2BKing
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Wait, don't ya'll nikkas diss fatherless men?


YikesSomeone needs to be there to pat him on shoulder when the biological dad says "Thanks but I got it from here".

We need to stop normalizing “hard work” as honorable for black folk. Don’t get me wrong, it’s definitely pushed on “minorities” and groups from lower socioeconomic backgrounds that working yourself into the ground for your family is something to be proud of. Whilst the “elite” of the world are taught to work smart not hard.I mean...what we really talkin about? I wouldn't be in that situation, but he's more honorable than me.
I'm surprised the Kevin samuels smileys haven't been posted yet.
This man needs help ASAP. 27 years old and taking care of someone else's kids? Naaaaaaah that ain't it homie. That ain't it.
I wish I could take the collective of all black men who have low self esteem and teach them to want better. So many of us (not me) are raised around people who didn’t make shyt of their lives and so they expect that’s the best they can do.Imagine if he loved himself enough to leave that broad and use that money to invest in himself. He has great work ethic and character that could be applied elsewhere. Bro could finance himself a home and pay it off rather quickly. Take the equity and purchase a rental property and find a cleaner woman with no kids to build his own empire.

Working far above your limits for far below your worth is what is considered our natural state.We need to stop normalizing “hard work” as honorable for black folk. Don’t get me wrong, it’s definitely pushed on “minorities” and groups from lower socioeconomic backgrounds that working yourself into the ground for your family is something to be proud of. Whilst the “elite” of the world are taught to work smart not hard.
Im tired of this narrative of black man only showing their worth by “slaving” Away for the man whilst cleaning up someone else’s mistakes. “Stepping up and being a real man.” Funny how I don’t see this pushed in the Jewish, Arab or Asian community. They’re instilled to be owners and have families, not baby daddies working crazy shifts. Only us.
We need to stop normalizing “hard work” as honorable for black folk. Don’t get me wrong, it’s definitely pushed on “minorities” and groups from lower socioeconomic backgrounds that working yourself into the ground for your family is something to be proud of. Whilst the “elite” of the world are taught to work smart not hard.
Im tired of this narrative of black man only showing their worth by “slaving” Away for the man whilst cleaning up someone else’s mistakes. “Stepping up and being a real man.” Funny how I don’t see this pushed in the Jewish, Arab or Asian community. They’re instilled to be owners and have families, not baby daddies working crazy shifts. Only us.