So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....
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Kenny West
Veteran
A person that probably hates you convinces himself he's entitled to a large sum of money you came upon by chance.
A lot of idiots telling him to rob/kill the man.
Sounds like the beginning of a iD channel murder mystery to me.
HopeKillCure
Banned
God just continues to bless this nikkah
he ain't talking no loses
Were the winning numbers your birthday 
Bledswole
Slappin and clowning chumps for fun.
You are telling a 28 year old man to go holla at his mom about looking into unpaid child support when he was a kid
This is why no one takes women's advice serious. They are so selfish and only want to hear themselves speak so they won't see the simple holes in the advice they are giving
Some straight rats in this thread
You a 28 year old man breh, you made this far without a handout so have some fukkin pride
If he looks out, good and if he doesn't you still good but to sit here and count somebody else money at your age is some thot shyt
Thank you nikka
Bunch of no moral soft ass bytches in here
He's knocking on 30 he should have his own shyt going on
Your pops denied his DNA why would you even want a hand out from him
Where are y'all nikkas balls
nikkas ain't got no pride or self respect talking about suckin another straight fukk nikka off for some bread.
Be a grown ass man tryin to take another man to court for child supportfam about to be sittin in court with a :'( face at 28 years old tryin to get some sympathy from a judge for peanuts. Might as well just go and get on your hands and knees then beg
These some baller alert ass nikkas here I swear to god
Self respect is the difference between you suckin a dikk for dollars or whatever it is you're doin now, if that isn't the case. Princess mentality at its finest, get out there and get your own as a grown ass man.
Then you nikkas sound dumb as hell. Child support would only backpay what he owed then based on his earnings then if he was even working and that's split up between what he owed for his other kids. They don't pay you for money somebody got after you were already grown, are y'all retarded
nikka about pay for the best child support lawyer in the country on op ass and end up sending him a check for a few pennies then peel off on him in court in some new luxury shyt like
Thank you
OP been accepted the situation for what it is and was living his life. But now when he catch wind his old man fell into some money now all of a sudden OP in his feelings on some austin powers shyt
like you care about a relationship....foh. You sound like a groupie. nikkas wanna curse his name in one corner of they mouth then use the other corner to beg when they on they knees with their hand out. If you was over it then you should be over it now. fukk his money, hold your own nuts.
His single momma was supposed to get the child support y'all want him to sue for. Whether she should or not is another debate but even if this lawsuit did go through, that's her money
He's 28 and has been supported up to this point to make it where he is now. You clowns tryin to hypin him up "go get that bag" like it's his money.
And even if his ma did get some bread, what type of grown ass nikka would be tryin to get some of her shyt especially if she did her job and more as a parent?
Y'all all idiots fareal
was going to ask the same question, but i have a feeling they all view it as unearned handouts
I'm willing to bet they wouldn't see reparations as handouts.
The root cause of what we're seeing in this thread is hatred for women.
nikkas see this situation and look at the father as a winner because he was able to ditch his family and not end up on the wrong side of the court system. They would be furious if the thread is updated by the OP with info that the mother was able to successfully sue for 18 years of back child support even though she rightfully deserves every penny.
i agree but reparation threads have shown me black folks dont even feel they're owed reparations. i've gotten the same "handout" rhetoric in those threads as well
FukyourFort
All Star
Y'all all idiots fareal
Every single one of those dudes is remedial. One of those nikkas needs to put his shirt back on
Y'all all idiots fareal
You went through all of this trouble quoting everyone you didn't agree with for what exactly...?
Like I said before, a lot of you morons operate mentally like teenage girls that just let emotions dictate how you react to things. Nobody has answered why someone is owed their parent's child support money yet or why a fully functioning adult would you even accept even it if that was the case
And now these clowns have switched the topic to a convo amongst themselves about reparations instead of answering a simple question
Then I did a simple google search for some legal precedent for this type of situation just for shyts and giggles and this was the second result:
I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emo - Q&A - Avvo
I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emotional abuse, fraud and back child support.
Charlotte, NC | March 6, 2013
I know most would say that statue of limitations have passed but I have just found out evidence that would prove my case, my dad was lying to the state of Ohio and my mom about not having a job and was working under the table and have proof of this. I was homeless during my childhood my mom even got negligence charges against her but my dad got away Scott free ( Yes we had a support order) He has never paid a dime. while he was telling authorities in Ohio he had no money he was buying houses and cars in Louisiana. He ha s mentally abused me by calling me names having his girlfriend threaten me and call me names, and telling me he only wanted to take care of his son, that I wasn't his, and wish I was never born. He recently got a $200000 lump sum. and has been getting this since 1992.
Answer from a family law attorney:
"You haven't asked a question here, so it's hard to give an answer. (Please see this Guide: www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/five-tips-for-how-to-ask-for-legal-advice-on-avvocom ) Though I am not licensed to practice in North Carolina (or Ohio, where your support order was entered) and so can't give certain advice about its laws, I find it extremely unlikely that you can successfully sue someone under these circumstances.
For one thing, child support is generally owed to a child's custodial parent, not to the child themselves. Your mother might be able to sue for back child support, if she could prove that your father had defrauded the child support process.
For another thing, as you say, the statute of limitations may well have passed. A statute of limitations generally is tolled by failing to discover the original injury, but not by failing to discover evidence to prove fault.
For another, I'm puzzled by your statement that your father "recently got a $200,000 lump sum," but that "has been getting this" for 21 years. If it's been recurring, it's not a lump sum. It's also not at all clear what this payment was for.
For another, you generally cannot sue someone for "mental/emotional abuse," unless you can show that you've suffered serious lasting injury to your mental health. You have to prove that you have permanently lost critical mental functioning, or that you will require ongoing mental health care. And you must also show that this injury was directly caused by the actions of the defendant (the person you're suing), and was not the result of any other cause, which might include your own innate instability. Trying to prove such an injury requires that you abandon all your therapist/patient privilege, essentially making your mental health a matter of public record. You will have to endure endless questioning about the matter, from people who have every right and every motivation to question your integrity, your veracity, and your memory.
People have this idea that a lawsuit will be this glorious, redemptive process, where all their injuries will be healed and all their outrage vindicated, and they'll be made rich and carefree. This belief is staggeringly wrong. Lawsuits are intensely unpleasant. They compel you to relive the original injury, whatever it was, for months. They rarely work out perfectly, so you will constantly feel that you are the victim of injustice. And the suits that actually result in fortunes being made (or lost) are incredibly rare - we just hear about them, because they make the news."
A lot of you nikkas are so fukkin stupid it's embarrassing, on some real shyt
I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emo - Q&A - Avvo
I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emotional abuse, fraud and back child support.
Charlotte, NC | March 6, 2013
I know most would say that statue of limitations have passed but I have just found out evidence that would prove my case, my dad was lying to the state of Ohio and my mom about not having a job and was working under the table and have proof of this. I was homeless during my childhood my mom even got negligence charges against her but my dad got away Scott free ( Yes we had a support order) He has never paid a dime. while he was telling authorities in Ohio he had no money he was buying houses and cars in Louisiana. He ha s mentally abused me by calling me names having his girlfriend threaten me and call me names, and telling me he only wanted to take care of his son, that I wasn't his, and wish I was never born. He recently got a $200000 lump sum. and has been getting this since 1992.
Answer from a family law attorney:
"You haven't asked a question here, so it's hard to give an answer. (Please see this Guide: www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/five-tips-for-how-to-ask-for-legal-advice-on-avvocom ) Though I am not licensed to practice in North Carolina (or Ohio, where your support order was entered) and so can't give certain advice about its laws, I find it extremely unlikely that you can successfully sue someone under these circumstances.
For one thing, child support is generally owed to a child's custodial parent, not to the child themselves. Your mother might be able to sue for back child support, if she could prove that your father had defrauded the child support process.
For another thing, as you say, the statute of limitations may well have passed. A statute of limitations generally is tolled by failing to discover the original injury, but not by failing to discover evidence to prove fault.
For another, I'm puzzled by your statement that your father "recently got a $200,000 lump sum," but that "has been getting this" for 21 years. If it's been recurring, it's not a lump sum. It's also not at all clear what this payment was for.
For another, you generally cannot sue someone for "mental/emotional abuse," unless you can show that you've suffered serious lasting injury to your mental health. You have to prove that you have permanently lost critical mental functioning, or that you will require ongoing mental health care. And you must also show that this injury was directly caused by the actions of the defendant (the person you're suing), and was not the result of any other cause, which might include your own innate instability. Trying to prove such an injury requires that you abandon all your therapist/patient privilege, essentially making your mental health a matter of public record. You will have to endure endless questioning about the matter, from people who have every right and every motivation to question your integrity, your veracity, and your memory.
People have this idea that a lawsuit will be this glorious, redemptive process, where all their injuries will be healed and all their outrage vindicated, and they'll be made rich and carefree. This belief is staggeringly wrong. Lawsuits are intensely unpleasant. They compel you to relive the original injury, whatever it was, for months. They rarely work out perfectly, so you will constantly feel that you are the victim of injustice. And the suits that actually result in fortunes being made (or lost) are incredibly rare - we just hear about them, because they make the news."
A lot of you nikkas are so fukkin stupid it's embarrassing, on some real shyt
MalikX
Superstar
Your dad been dipped out on you bruh.
Was it right? No.
Is he a piece of shyt? Yes.
Why do you even want his money? It would sorta erase all the shytty things he's done to you because he can always say he gave you money. And if it was me I wouldn't feel right spending money from a man that basically threw you in the trash as a kid.
Move on, as I said earlier. Throw his number in the trash. Have your own family. Tell them their grandfather died. When he gets old and wants to reconnect to clear his conscience, don't. When he dies don't go to his funeral. Be just as grimy back.
You 28...you're a man now. You don't need shyt from that dude anymore bruh.
Was it right? No.
Is he a piece of shyt? Yes.
Why do you even want his money? It would sorta erase all the shytty things he's done to you because he can always say he gave you money. And if it was me I wouldn't feel right spending money from a man that basically threw you in the trash as a kid.
Move on, as I said earlier. Throw his number in the trash. Have your own family. Tell them their grandfather died. When he gets old and wants to reconnect to clear his conscience, don't. When he dies don't go to his funeral. Be just as grimy back.
You 28...you're a man now. You don't need shyt from that dude anymore bruh.