So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....

[FSP]

the nikka didnt give a fukk broke.....
a rich deadbeat really aint giving a fukk.

*the phone rings*

pops: hello....who is this?
you: it's me dad.
pops: it's been a long time junior
you: yeah 12 years
pops: if youre calling for money it's tied up in investments
you: just reaching out.
pops: it's rough at the top son......everybody after your hard earned money.
you: you hit the lotto.
pops: the lord always bless his favorites.
you:
pops: I wanted to be there for all of my children
you: so why did you leave?
pops: children stood in the way of my dreams son.
you: wow......just wow.
pops: i knew you'd understand.
you: I dont even know what to say man
pops: look son.....work hard and always look out for family
you:
pops: gotta go man the champagne is breathing.
you: damn so that's it?
pops: tell yo mama i said hello and dont give her my number
*click*

lol this was piff

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Fuk outta here with this weak shyt

 

[Tom Foolery]

The only thing the government cant touch is someone's SSI or Disability. If you owe a debt to the government(child support,, court tickets, hell even parking tickets) oh yes, they can and will come for you.

I agree with this, or at least look into it.
nikkas here will call you ratchet, but won't say shyt about the deadbeat. It's a dirty game and a dirty world.

My co-worker's boyfriend got hit with back child support by one of his BM. The girl is in her 20's now and the BM is looking for another grab. He fukked up because he paid cash all those years. If there is no documentation, it's fair game legally.

Also I wouldn't wait for him to die and gamble if you will be the beneficiary. You can and most likely will got fukked over.

Don't lie to yourself and say your not salty over the money. Just shoot your shot.

 

[HopeKillCure]

the nikka didnt give a fukk broke.....
a rich deadbeat really aint giving a fukk.

*the phone rings*

pops: hello....who is this?
you: it's me dad.
pops: it's been a long time junior
you: yeah 12 years
pops: if youre calling for money it's tied up in investments
you: just reaching out.
pops: it's rough at the top son......everybody after your hard earned money.
you: you hit the lotto.
pops: the lord always bless his favorites.
you:
pops: I wanted to be there for all of my children
you: so why did you leave?
pops: children stood in the way of my dreams son.
you: wow......just wow.
pops: i knew you'd understand.
you: I dont even know what to say man
pops: look son.....work hard and always look out for family
you:
pops: gotta go man the champagne is breathing.
you: damn so that's it?
pops: tell yo mama i said hello and dont give her my number
*click*

:Deadtrumper:

 

[prince_peoples]

u better go rob that nikka.

hog tie his as up, and tell him to come off that bread

 

[#1 pick]

Your situation is weird, your mother could get CS from him still, the main reason I do like to pay cause the later they come, the worse it is for you.

 

[#1 pick]

Some straight rats in this thread

You a 28 year old man breh, you made this far without a handout so have some fukkin pride


If he looks out, good and if he doesn't you still good but to sit here and count somebody else money at your age is some thot shyt

Too many nikkas who broke got too much pride is an issue in the Black community. His dad was suppose to pass down wealth to his son. Wealth of knowledge, business options, etc. This man literally gave him nothing.

I can't say I would be going at the OP but the OP gotta think deep about this.

 

[#1 pick]

I swear black children are the most unloved children. I'm a banker and I use to double as a pb, I encountered white "kids" at the tender age of 35 still using accounts linked to their parents, total beneficiary, meaning when shyt gets rough for their 35 year old ass they can just swipe mommy/daddy card and keep it moving. But with black families there's this sense of "grow the fukk up!" That the community pushes on us from as early as I'd say 15 years old maybe. Get a job and start saving cause ur ass will be kicked out at 18 sharp so u can never save any money and u will surely be doomed to live pay check to pay check until ur dead only to leave behind debt and more broke kids.

It's like what's the point of parents? Why don't we just birth our children then leave them out in the wild, make them fend for themeselves? How the fukk is Asking or even demanding that ur parent who abandoned u to give u money? Money run the world tf Take his ass to court, that's not tryna suck him dry thats his SEED making a better life for himself and thus a better life for his grandchildren! Like ok maybe we could've said he was broke before and genuinely couldn't help but nah that's just his who he is. He's a fukked up person with no morals he feels nothing about what he's done OP.

I still ask my dad for cash. shyt, and I make more than him but when it comes to gifts, I will spend several gs on them . But I have sent, he don't. Wise man, he wants me to do the same and pay him in the future. I'll build just to make sure my parents and children and grandchildren are good.

Man, nothing can compare to having a great dad. Nothing. I talked to him this morning

 

[Luck]

Too many nikkas who broke got too much pride is an issue in the Black community. His dad was suppose to pass down wealth to his son. Wealth of knowledge, business options, etc. This man literally gave him nothing.

I can't say I would be going at the OP but the OP gotta think deep about this.

And his dad didn't, so it's time too move on and figure out what he can do for himself at this point. In a perfect world his dad wouldn't be a scumbag and nobody is gonna argue that but last time I checked, this wasn't a perfect world

Should've, would've, could've and supposeds don't pay the bills or put food on anyone's plate. Dealing with unrealities is where a lot you nikkas lost at, focus on what you can do for yourself instead of worrying about what somebody else "should" do for you. Waiting for someone else to do something that they clearly showed you isn't in their nature is the definition of blatant stupidity.

Like I said, if it happens cool but to expect anything else out of this...

 

[PinotNoir]

Then I did a simple google search for some legal precedent for this type of situation just for shyts and giggles and this was the second result:

I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emo - Q&A - Avvo

I want to sue my dad for negligence, mental/emotional abuse, fraud and back child support.
Charlotte, NC | March 6, 2013

I know most would say that statue of limitations have passed but I have just found out evidence that would prove my case, my dad was lying to the state of Ohio and my mom about not having a job and was working under the table and have proof of this. I was homeless during my childhood my mom even got negligence charges against her but my dad got away Scott free ( Yes we had a support order) He has never paid a dime. while he was telling authorities in Ohio he had no money he was buying houses and cars in Louisiana. He ha s mentally abused me by calling me names having his girlfriend threaten me and call me names, and telling me he only wanted to take care of his son, that I wasn't his, and wish I was never born. He recently got a $200000 lump sum. and has been getting this since 1992.

Answer from a family law attorney:

"You haven't asked a question here, so it's hard to give an answer. (Please see this Guide: www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/five-tips-for-how-to-ask-for-legal-advice-on-avvocom ) Though I am not licensed to practice in North Carolina (or Ohio, where your support order was entered) and so can't give certain advice about its laws, I find it extremely unlikely that you can successfully sue someone under these circumstances.

For one thing, child support is generally owed to a child's custodial parent, not to the child themselves. Your mother might be able to sue for back child support, if she could prove that your father had defrauded the child support process.

For another thing, as you say, the statute of limitations may well have passed. A statute of limitations generally is tolled by failing to discover the original injury, but not by failing to discover evidence to prove fault.

For another, I'm puzzled by your statement that your father "recently got a $200,000 lump sum," but that "has been getting this" for 21 years. If it's been recurring, it's not a lump sum. It's also not at all clear what this payment was for.

For another, you generally cannot sue someone for "mental/emotional abuse," unless you can show that you've suffered serious lasting injury to your mental health. You have to prove that you have permanently lost critical mental functioning, or that you will require ongoing mental health care. And you must also show that this injury was directly caused by the actions of the defendant (the person you're suing), and was not the result of any other cause, which might include your own innate instability. Trying to prove such an injury requires that you abandon all your therapist/patient privilege, essentially making your mental health a matter of public record. You will have to endure endless questioning about the matter, from people who have every right and every motivation to question your integrity, your veracity, and your memory.

People have this idea that a lawsuit will be this glorious, redemptive process, where all their injuries will be healed and all their outrage vindicated, and they'll be made rich and carefree. This belief is staggeringly wrong. Lawsuits are intensely unpleasant. They compel you to relive the original injury, whatever it was, for months. They rarely work out perfectly, so you will constantly feel that you are the victim of injustice. And the suits that actually result in fortunes being made (or lost) are incredibly rare - we just hear about them, because they make the news."

A lot of you nikkas are so fukkin stupid it's embarrassing, on some real shyt

You're stupid for posting that article....every case is not the same obviously. There's nothing wrong with OP looking into legal options. I'm willing to bet, you (and others against OP) are jealous that he/she could potentially benefit financially. To OP, don't let the crabs in a barrel on here hold you back.

 

[dem bath salts]

Damn thats an L bruh.
You can either work hard and get ur money up. Or you honestly have to kill him just for peace of mind. Id be sick working a 9-5 while my dad was in turk caicos with exxotical thots

 

[Luck]

You're stupid for posting that article....every case is not the same obviously. There's nothing wrong with OP looking into legal options. I'm willing to bet, you (and others against OP) are jealous that he/she could potentially benefit financially. To OP, don't let the crabs in a barrel on here hold you back.

I'll take a lawyer's opinion over yours but thanks

Im good and make my own money clown, no reason for me to be jealous but I understand that's the default cop out for simple minds. Plus I had my father in my life, all the money in the world couldn't replace that judging by the opinions in this thread its apparent a lot of you don't know this feelin

 

[PinotNoir]

I'll take a lawyer's opinion over yours but thanks

Im good and make my own money clown, no reason for me to be jealous but I understand that's the default cop out for simple minds. Plus I had my father in my life, all the money in the world couldn't replace that judging by the opinions in this thread its apparent a lot of you don't know this feelin

Uh huh sure......BTW I definitely had and still have my dad in my life...try again.

 

[Luck]

Uh huh sure......BTW I definitely had and still have my dad in my life...try again.

I'm sure you did, too bad he failed you with those terrible reasoning skills. You'll be okay, truth hurts

Now either find some logic and examples to back up this nonsense you're spewing outside of calling me a hater like a 12 year old or find you a toy or somethin to play with, adults are talking

 

[PinotNoir]

I'm sure you did, too bad he failed you with those terrible reasoning skills. You'll be okay, truth hurts

Now either find some logic and examples to back up this nonsense you're spewing outside of calling me a hater like a 12 year old or find you a toy or somethin to play with, adults are talking

You're definitely lacking in the logic department. Carry on, ole hating ass.