So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....

[marcuz]

Don't even worry about it. He didn't care about you all these years before he became a millionaire so that won't change because he's a millionaire now.

How you look like seeking a handout from a breh don't doesn't give a damn about you?

You made it this far without him you'll be fine.

it was his financial obligation to provide and he neglected those duties. htf is it a handout yall nikkas are wicked

 

[Yehuda]

At least you learned karma doesn't exist.

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

Just move on and forget about him...

/thread

 

[Matt504]

it was his financial obligation to provide and he neglected those duties. htf is it a handout yall nikkas are wicked

we're learning more and more every day how worthless a lot of these nikkas are.

 

[Luck]

single baby momma mindset? what does that have to do with neglecting your financial responsibilities as a father?

His single momma was supposed to get the child support y'all want him to sue for. Whether she should or not is another debate but even if this lawsuit did go through, that's her money

He's 28 and has been supported up to this point to make it where he is now. You clowns tryin to hypin him up "go get that bag " like it's his money.

And even if his ma did get some bread, what type of grown ass nikka would be tryin to get some of her shyt especially if she did her job and more as a parent?

 

[Matt504]

His single momma was supposed to get the child support y'all want him to sue for. Whether she should or not is another debate but even if this lawsuit did go through, that's her money

He's 28 and has been supported up to this point to make it where he is now. You clowns tryin to hypin him up "go get that bag " like it's his money.

And even if his ma did get some bread, what type of grown ass nikka would be tryin to get some of her shyt especially if she did her job and more as a parent?

His dad abandoned his responsibilities as a father and he's indebted to both his son and the mother, I hope they take him for everything because he's trifling.

 

[Luck]

His dad abandoned his responsibilities as a father and he's indebted to both his son and the mother, I hope they take him for everything because he's trifling.

We're talking about him suing for child support, stay on topic. Unless he supported himself as a child...?

And luckily we stay in a world where @Matt504's "hope" is absolutely irrelevant

 

[CoochieMane]

That nikka won the lottery twice then actually won the lottery

 

[street heat]

just call him tell him happy birthday, but dont mention the money, and maybe he will.

you shouldnt feel bad even you do mention the money. hes your father and was never there.the MF owes you.
no shame in guiltin' that b*stard out of a check IMO. you have nothing to lose

 

[Kenny West]

no its "fukk him, now cut my check."

Hoe logic.

Smile in a nikka face to ask for bread when 110% of your thoughts are "fukk him".... If it's fukk him then stick to that and live your truth my man. I can't advocate living like a snake

You gets no respect talking that rah rah "fukk that nikka, he never did shyt for me I made it without that deadbeat! " one moment then turning around like "daddy.....daaaaaaddy i wub youuu" when he get some money. Mind you OP doesn't even NEED to do this, he just wants to because now he thinks pops caked up. Thats a real life whore move. Sounding like one of them "no black men" pro black prostitutes.

Even worse deciding your entitlement to other folks money on your owngo on and try that white girl magic if you want to. my dad would shut the door in my face off gp talking that shyt

 

[marcuz]

Hoe logic.

Smile in a nikka face to ask for bread when 110% of your thoughts are "fukk him".... If it's fukk him then stick to that and live your truth my man. I can't advocate living like a snake

You gets no respect talking that rah rah "fukk that nikka, he never did shyt for me I made it without that deadbeat! " one moment then turning around like "daddy.....daaaaaaddy i wub youuu" when he get some money. Mind you OP doesn't even NEED to do this, he just wants to because now he thinks pops caked up. Thats a real life whore move. Sounding like one of them "no black men" pro black prostitutes.

Even worse deciding your entitlement to other folks money on your owngo on and try that white girl magic if you want to. my dad would shut the door in my face off gp talking that shyt

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Did your mom get childsupport, that he never paid? If so, you better tell her to go to court and secure that bag. Child support debt doesnt get erased. My aunt is getting child support she's owed and shes a GRANDMA now.

Yooo this would be an ill movie plot...

A deadbeat dad wins the lottery right? Now the son is indifferent but his mother keeps urging him to pursue it. He finally agrees and the mother files the paperwork only to come up dead mysteriously. They can't prove it was the father but the son becomes determined to keep the proceedings going but there's a catch...the deadbeat daddies kids from his other family he actually raised are trying to kill him!!!!! Starring Susan Sarandon, Leon & Tony Yayo

 

[Illuminatos]

Did your mom get childsupport, that he never paid? If so, you better tell her to go to court and secure that bag. Child support debt doesnt get erased. My aunt is getting child support she's owed and shes a GRANDMA now.

Please tell me your mother had him on child support. If he owes she will get all of the money he should have contributed to your life.
My friends mother got 90k a few years ago since her ex never paid.

 

[Matt504]

I wonder how some of the people in this thread who are against the father giving the OP any money feel about reparations.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

So, my deadbeat dad won the lottery a couple of days ago. He has, for the most part, ignored me since me and my mom divorced when I was 6. I even became close with my little brother over my dad neglecting him as well after my dad and my little brother's mom separated.

My first thought was "meh, good for him". However, now I am starting to feel depressed because friends and family up north keeps reminding me over and over that he won.

"You know your dad is a millionaire now, right?" I'm almost 28 years old, and we haven't spoken in years, that has nothing to do with me.
"You need to reach out to him" up until 2013, I would call him once a year to tell him happy birthday (which is today), and I would never hear back from him, so I stopped.

"He might be looking for you" he knows where my family is, if he had any interest in talking to me, he would know how to find me.

I think I may be suffering from this for a while. Yes, I work for myself, and I feel like I am on my way myself, but I still resent him for him not being there. Not being there to give advice. It makes me not believe in Karma anymore. It makes me not believe in anything anymore.

One of the things that drove me the most was so he can see who I have become, and feel bad that he wasn't there to help. Now, that will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too prideful to just reach out? I need some help on this one.

Edit:
My mom never put him on child support.

I don't have any of his contact info. I would just call him for his birthday, but have to get his number through other people because he changed it so often.

I never badmouthed him to my little brother.

The root of this isn't the money, it's my anger that he was never there for his children, and spent the money he did have on friends and girls using him (they would even brag about it).

I was just hoping that there would be one time in his life where he would say "I wish I was there for my kids" more, and reach out or something. Now that he won the money, he probably never will feel that way. That's what bothers me.

Sounds like your dad is one of them nikkas thats in it for the woman and not so much the children. Peep how he abandoned you and your lil bro when it was over with your mother's. fukk that nikka. I hate when I see dudes be more about they woman then they seeds. I'm still married mostly because I can't leave my kid. Your dad is going to be embarrassed as fukk when people find out he's a millionaire and not reaching out to his kids. It's his loss. fukk em. Call him to congratulate him. That will either be the last conversation you have with him or the beginning of a new chapter in your life. God is testing him