So NOW God can fix our relationship....

[Steve Piffler]

"God only blesses babies and fools." You are neither brotha, stick to the protocol and live your life. No disrespect to you or the lady but she seems too erratic mentally. Keep it moving like the laws of inertia.........

now i'm afraid she's gonna stab me in my sleep. i don't wanna be the subject in an episode of snapped... i'm moving tonight. fukk that. i'm going to my parents crib. they said that i could come anytime i needed to and stay as long as i want to. i'm gonna take them up on that. i get tired of walking around my house like all day trying to avoid awkward conversations. i don't even want to go home after work. it's terrible....

 

[Strapped]

Move on piff ,no good will comeabout on you staying in a toxic situation & take blvdbrawlers advice

 

[Steve Piffler]

This thread reminds me of "Not Easily Broken"

At the end, Taraji P. Henson was on that tip.

After her & her momma had been huge bytches for 10 odd years.

If married life is anything like that movie, Id commit that.

Damn! it's JUST like that. treat me like shyt, and as soon as i say and walk away and talk to some new chicks, NOW i'm everything and God needs to work on our marriage. fukk outta here. i believe in God, but i also know what i need as well. she keeps saying that i feel disconnected right now, but with prayer and dedication of our marriage to God, my heart can change.

i disagree wholeheartedly....

 

[Ohene]

Remember when she had no interest in anything you had to say? Remember when all of your advances were rebuffed and she didn't give a fukk about you, and how painful that was? What's changed? I'm guessing her dude on the side kicked her to the curb, and now she's running back to you.

I'd feign interest in this whole "god / working it out" thing, get her to a church and record her to admitting her infidelity (Because God forgives all, right?) and then take it to the judge and get off without paying her a penny.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

If her pleading and such was that big of a deal to you, you'd have moved out already. I'd have to say you partially want her back, it's just an ego thing for you for the moment.

 

[Steve Piffler]

Move on piff ,no good will comeabout on you staying in a toxic situation & take blvdbrawlers advice

i am leaving. i'm just trying to avoid the Glenn Close treatment while i'm there

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Damn! it's JUST like that. treat me like shyt, and as soon as i say and walk away and talk to some new chicks, NOW i'm everything and God needs to work on our marriage. fukk outta here. i believe in God, but i also know what i need as well. she keeps saying that i feel disconnected right now, but with prayer and dedication of our marriage to God, my heart can change.

i disagree wholeheartedly....

you in the state of Texas


no other "State" is better for a single black man to eat good

Atlanta may be the best "city" for a single black man but Texas you can eat well in multiple cities

Stay single my friend

 

[Steve Piffler]

If her pleading and such was that big of a deal to you, you'd have moved out already. I'd have to say you partially want her back, it's just an ego thing for you for the moment.

nah son. not at ALLLLLL! if you have ever been married, you'd know that it's not as simple as just packing my shyt and bouncing. i have a kid and responsibilities to the household that i need to take care of and make a CLEAN break. but on some real shyt, i just may have to go to my parents house until Feb. i can't live in that house like this. ain't nothing fun about this situation, and i can find better ways to get my ego stroked than this shyt...

 

[Ohene]

say Steve,

can we get a picture of this delicate lady?

 

[YBE]

Damn! it's JUST like that. treat me like shyt, and as soon as i say and walk away and talk to some new chicks, NOW i'm everything and God needs to work on our marriage. fukk outta here. i believe in God, but i also know what i need as well. she keeps saying that i feel disconnected right now, but with prayer and dedication of our marriage to God, my heart can change.

i disagree wholeheartedly....

I gotta ask, are yall still living together?

Because if yall are, i know that gotta be awkward as hell

 

[↓R↑LYB]

i live there still because i'm trying to make the transition easier for everyone. NOT to be harrassed about some shyt that SHE said that she wanted, and now she is like "i didn't say that, YOU MISUNDERSTOOD! I said i was scared, not that i wanted a divorce...." yeah, like "i'm scared" could ever be mistaken for "i don't want to be with you anymore" i just don't feel anything anymore, and she can't get it through her skull. last night, she ran into the kitchen while i was sitting on the couch, grabbed 2 pill bottles, and ran into the bathroom and closed the door. i ran behind her and unlocked the door, and she was sitting on the toilet with a handful of pills about to put them in her mouth. i slapped them out of her hand like

i don't know what to do brehs.

So God gave you a way out and you spit in his face?

I hope that bytch stab you in your sleep

 

[Steve Piffler]

I gotta ask, are yall still living together?

Because if yall are, i know that gotta be awkward as hell

yes and it is VERY awkward....

 

[Arcavian]

So God gave you a way out and you spit in his face?

I hope that bytch stab you in your sleep

but moving out is the best thing you can do

 

[Steve Piffler]

So God gave you a way out and you spit in his face?

I hope that bytch stab you in your sleep

too soon, breh....

 

[↓R↑LYB]

nah son. not at ALLLLLL! if you have ever been married, you'd know that it's not as simple as just packing my shyt and bouncing. i have a kid and responsibilities to the household that i need to take care of and make a CLEAN break. but on some real shyt, i just may have to go to my parents house until Feb. i can't live in that house like this. ain't nothing fun about this situation, and i can find better ways to get my ego stroked than this shyt...

So you can't move out because of all these responsibilities, but you can move in with your parents?

nikka just say you still there cuz u don't wanna pay a 2nd rent and stop fronting