So She Wants To Go On A Family Vacation With Her Baby Daddy

[JLova]

So you would have been okay with her going to Disney with her baby father?

Well, 1st of all I wouldn't have dated a woman with a kid. Secondly, you are cool with her ex and you are aware of what a big part of the kid's life he is. This should really come to no suprrise. Yall are just "dating". I see no issue here with what she did.... If you were her MAN then that would be a different story and she should have invited you. This is an annual vacation that is more about the kid than it is about them. Why should she cancel it for some dude she been dating for 4 months and is unwilling to commit? Not saying you're in the wrong, but I completely see where she's coming from.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Peep this...

I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.

Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.

So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.

I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)

She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.

Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.

But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?

She needs to get back with the father of her child. Shes an adulterer.

 

[Dirk Diggler]

If me and my wife separated there is NOTHING that will keep me away from my child/children or doing things with them. Any woman that doenst understand that can kick rocks.....

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I'd just say if they were actually committed he'd have more right to be tight about it and be in a better position to influence her. The fact that she even told him about shows mad respect to me. She could have hidden it...just been out of town for a few days and he didn't know why.

so if you were in this situation...you would be cool with it?

 

[shopthatwrecks]

 

[Urbanmiracle]

She hasn't stopped fukking him. Even while she as dating you, she was still opening her thighs.

 

[Demonic Jenkins]

Peep this...

I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.

Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.

So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.

I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)

She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.

Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.

But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?

Ain't read shut in this thread by you did the right thing breh..that shyt ain't cool and she knows it. Hoes try shyt like this to see how far they can talk it and if you do...they know they can throw that shyt in your face later on on some "when you met me I was like this" lol.

Its funny she tried to make you feel like you're rare for feeling that way...females always wanna use that "you're insecure" card just to get away with shyt they know damn well aint right.

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[Rominati]

Smooth move, gotta cut that bullshyt out at the bud b. You dodged a bullet. If I ever get a girl pregenant best believe imma have a full access 24/7 pass to the p*ssy. So you already kno her baby daddy had it too.