So She Wants To Go On A Family Vacation With Her Baby Daddy

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

LOL so you're going to a vacation to get a reaction?

its the mirror technique, works every time.

she knows what she is doing.

now, i am really gonna go on my vacation, with an ex, at the bar, in the hotel rooms, reminence on old times...in the same bed room.

see, its jump-off situation, homie thaught it was a relationship

 

[BedRoomI'z]

If she does that every year with her baby daddy, she needs to not be dating and patch things up on that front.

Real fukking talk

 

[up in here]

My dude, shut the fukk up.

wow, what a great response. i especially like the way you avoided actually having to come up with an adequate response to my comment. keep up the good work

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

I'd just say if they were actually committed he'd have more right to be tight about it and be in a better position to influence her. The fact that she even told him about shows mad respect to me. She could have hidden it...just been out of town for a few days and he didn't know why.

bytch you're an idiot

 

[Rawtid]

bytch you're an idiot

Thank you.

Tell me all about your relationship.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The title says it all. No explanation needed. NO, under any circumstances NO. It's not okay. I don't give a fukk if it's your aunt, NO.

 

[Wildin]

Yeah, she didn't ask me. She was pretty much telling me that she was going on vacation with dude.

She made her choice and I made mine. But I did get irritated at the fact that she called me insecure. In my mind I'm thinking "no woman in her right mind would think this is okay"

But more importantly, what would have transpired if I would have said nothing and been okay with it?

+rep coming soon. You laid down boundaries and stuck to it. That's real man shyt. The situation is awkward but not fukked up. The dad is in his seeds life, that's a good thing. Just like you're with your kids, Iono the situation but perhaps if your baby's mother wanted to go on a family vacay with the kids or wanted you and the kids to go outta town for the weekend for her mom's funeral you would oblige, I could be wrong but unless you hate each other the core family dynamics are still going to be there.

If the dad was cool with you and is cool with his kids perhaps ya'll could be cool with each other he might not turn into your best homie but if he knows your straight around his seed (as you would want ur baby's moms dude to be straight around ur seeds) ya'll might be cool, maybe watch a football game or who knows maybe he has a new girl and will actually not fukk you over.

Let's be honest nikkas who have baby moms ain't clamorin to get back with them, they are usually bytches, cheaters and ain't shyt. An even if the baby dad ain't shyt it pretty much is guaranteed p*ssy for life but unless he's in a drought or a super simple he aint gonna climb back into that.

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

Thank you.

Tell me all about your relationship.

go eat out your mother u worthless,stupid c.unt

 

[FaTaL]

Peep this...

I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.

Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.

So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.

I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)

She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.

Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.

But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?

shes just using u dog, he must be laughing at you when he spends your bread

 

[#StarkSet]

i dont care if this was just a jumpoff 4 months is a long ass time for some bytch to be pullin this shyt

think how many times u took her to applebees

 

[Methodical]

Peep this...

I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.

Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.

So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.

I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)

She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.

Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.

But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?

You did the right thing. If this was turn around and you ask her that you're going on a trip with your ex-wife and she's def not going like it and would have said something like you just did.

 

[AsAboveSoBelow]

If she does that every year with her baby daddy, she needs to not be dating and patch things up on that front.

Exactly, she sounds like she's just weathering the storm of that relationship until things get better.

I just feel like 9/10 times, in that type of situation, the female is just waiting it out until the father of their child "comes around".

There ARE females out there who will eternally wait around for certain nikkas to "come around", i.e their child's father.

Something in me just can't take a single mom that still has a "great relationship" with their child's father seriously. Especially in this specific scenario where they're taking this type of trip.

 

[rapdonttweet]

The female responses in here surprise me. lol at saying she shouldn't have told dude and been on some shady shyt. Thought y'all were more mature than that.

There's something wrong with this situation. First its a weird arrangement to go on vacation with an ex every year. And if there was really nothing going on she would've had no problem inviting dude. She has the right to do that but any sensible guy also has the right to give her a pass.

 

[Soundbwoy]

you dodge a bullet

 

[Panther]

Op made the right move... Im tripping tho because some of you are c/s this chicks nonsense. Her agreeing for the bd to come makes me think she still has feelings for dude... Situations like this is why i personally cant mess with single mothers