So talking on the phone with broads is gay now?

[killacal]

My point isn't that you shouldn't text, just that calling is better when hollering. Whats not to get? I'm sure texting works too, I use it when hollering but it has failed me some time, they may get flaky, they have more time to think and second guess what ifs. Talking is more instinctual, you just lay it all on the floor, that's why calling has never failed me. Plus I have a powerful voice breh.

Im just saying, I try to seal the deal with chicks and if i feel itll go somewhere I get her number. So at the point I already know shes with it and I dont have to try to impress her. At that point its texts or ill call if Im meeting her up somewhere. But calling to talk seems redundant

 

[Gallo]

Im just saying, I try to seal the deal with chicks and if i feel itll go somewhere I get her number. So at the point I already know shes with it and I dont have to try to impress her. At that point its texts or ill call if Im meeting her up somewhere. But calling to talk seems redundant

Excluding the females friends I call to say whats up, I call them to convince them to come over. My goal isn't to take them out, my goal is to get them to come to my place or their place for a drink and some sex sooner rather than later. What I'm saying is that calling them has never failed me, when I use to mostly exclusively text it failed me a number of time. Calling is also for "maintenance" meaning you want them to know that you're thinking about them and it's not just a sex thing, greasing the wheels so to speak. Makes them feel special and so greases the wheels for when you want to deal with them again sexually. Maintenance is also for when you have too much going on with other girls or work. Calling them keeps the wheels greased for when you're ready to move them into the rotation or are in town for a visit(sometimes they live far).

 

[winb83]

Naw but it's pretty lame. Your goal is face to face time not talking on the phone excessively. Women will stay on the phone with you for hours if you let them.

 

[Gallo]

Naw but it's pretty lame. Your goal is face to face time not talking on the phone excessively. Women will stay on the phone with you for hours if you let them.

Then i'll be lame bro. I love women, love kicking game excessively, love the process of breaking them down with just the sh1t that comes out of my mouth. Love their company, love engaging their thoughts, love making love to them. When I want to go out for a drink, I call all my women first, not my dudes. I love women, sue me.

Also, control a conversation and you won't have to spend hours on the phone. Oops, right you didn't learn that because you didn't spend time honing that skill and getting what you want easily, sex(not face to face time).

 

[winb83]

Then i'll be lame bro. I love women, love kicking game excessively, love the process of breaking them down with just the sh1t that comes out of my mouth. Love their company, love engaging their thoughts, love making love to them. When I want to go out for a drink, I call all my women first, not my dudes. I love women, sue me.

Also, control a conversation and you won't have to spend hours on the phone. Oops, right you didn't learn that because you didn't spend time honing that skill and getting what you want easily, sex(not face to face time).

I have no skill or game and I desire neither. I know who I am and I'll always be true to myself and that guides me. A woman can take me or leave me and I'm indifferent to the outcome.

What people call game and skill is basically just manipulation. Saying things for to get the desired effect. Game and skill are unnecessary. All you really need is honesty, integrity, and indifference aka being real.

I hate talking on the phone. It's like giving someone half your attention. If a chick doesn't have physical time to be around me it was nice to know her but I gotta move on. She can sit on the phone with her girlfriends.

 

[Art Barr]

Then i'll be lame bro. I love women, love kicking game excessively, love the process of breaking them down with just the sh1t that comes out of my mouth. Love their company, love engaging their thoughts, love making love to them. When I want to go out for a drink, I call all my women first, not my dudes. I love women, sue me.

Also, control a conversation and you won't have to spend hours on the phone. Oops, right you didn't learn that because you didn't spend time honing that skill and getting what you want easily, sex(not face to face time).

You do not have to talk to women past getting a number.
Then making a phone call to fall throught to fukk.
So, you are playing and over-extending yourself.
by Doing so much talking and using your so-called mouthpiece.
You do not have to sway women to get shyt from them.
Women will give you shyt for being real, and not saying nuffin.
Faster than you doing all that talking and emasculating yourself.


Art Barr

*posting from house given to him by past lover who knew not a dman thing about me, whatsoever.

 

[Gallo]

I have no skill or game and I desire neither. I know who I am and I'll always be true to myself and that guides me. A woman can take me or leave me and I'm indifferent to the outcome.

What people call game and skill is basically just manipulation. Saying things for to get the desired effect. Game and skill are unnecessary. All you really need is honesty, integrity, and indifference aka being real.

I hate talking on the phone. It's like giving someone half your attention. If a chick doesn't have physical time to be around me it was nice to know her but I gotta move on. She can sit on the phone with her girlfriends.

Manipulation? Dude it takes two to tango. She knows the deal, she wants it as much as I want it. You're acting like I'm some sort of predator, most broads just want some d1ck too and they're lucky if they get mines. The question then is how fast can we make it happen and yet not make her out to be some ho. You take your time texting i'll get it done faster talking and we can enjoy each other faster whilst having great conversation. The end.

 

[Gallo]

You do not have to talk to women past getting a number.
Then making a phone call to fall throught to fukk.
So, you are playing and over-extending yourself.
by Doing so much talking and using your so-called mouthpiece.
You do not have to sway women to get shyt from them.
Women will give you shyt for being real, and not saying nuffin.
Faster than you doing all that talking and emasculating yourself.


Art Barr

*posting from house given to him by past lover who knew not a dman thing about me, whatsoever.

Restructure you sentences bro. It gives me headache reading it.

 

[Killer Instinct]

#ColiLogic

You have to take what's said here with a grain of salt, though. A lot of these guys label themselves introverts to mask the fact they're socially awkward and "hate people." They over think day-to-day conversation and feel completely out of their element when they're tasked with actually engaging someone is real-time conversation, whether that be via telephone or face-to-face.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Doing anything with women seems to be gay here. But blowing a man for money is honest and heterosexual.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Its not gay but I really stopped talking to girls on the phone longer than 30mins in college.

My thing is, if we about to have convo longer than 30mins. I rather you come over or I come over there. Anybody can say that good sh!t over the phone but I'm better at reading body language so I rather see them in person if we gonna have a lengthy convo. I still got homeboys who will sit on the phone with chicks for hours and thats cool for them.

But for me, if you calling it should be for a purpose. not to ask how my day went or to shoot the shyt. Ain't nobody got time for all that

 

[Gallo]

Its not gay but I really stopped talking to girls on the phone longer than 30mins in college.

My thing is, if we about to have convo longer than 30mins. I rather you come over or I come over there. Anybody can say that good sh!t over the phone but I'm better at reading body language so I rather see them in person if we gonna have a lengthy convo. I still got homeboys who will sit on the phone with chicks for hours and thats cool for them.

But for me, if you calling it should be for a purpose. not to ask how my day went or to shoot the shyt. Ain't nobody got time for all that

Agreed

 

[winb83]

Manipulation? Dude it takes two to tango. She knows the deal, she wants it as much as I want it. You're acting like I'm some sort of predator, most broads just want some d1ck too and they're lucky if they get mines. The question then is how fast can we make it happen and yet not make her out to be some ho. You take your time texting i'll get it done faster talking and we can enjoy each other faster whilst having great conversation. The end.

If that's the case game is useless. You just be authentic and tell it to her straight and it will be what it is. As a man you can't even execute game without coming from a place where she has the power and you're trying to get something from her. Game modifying your behavior based on her instead of just telling her what you're interested in directly and being ok with her telling you she's not looking for the same thing.

 

[Gallo]

If that's the case game is useless. You just be authentic and tell it to her straight and it will be what it is. As a man to even execute game with out coming from a place where she has the power and you're trying to get something from her. Game modifying your behavior based on her instead of just telling her what you're interested in directly and being ok with her telling you she's not looking for the same thing.

Again, I see you have low self-esteem. We're trying to get something from of each other. You do tell her what it is but game is knowing how to say it. If I am being straightforward like you want then I would tell her "come over, I want to fukk you." Having game is "come over I have a bottle of whine." That's not manipulation. She knows the deal but knowing how to say it is important to making it happen for various reasons(mostly a respect thing, some women have self-respect whatta ya know).

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

No diss. I'm just trying to get a feel for the current zeitgeist. I've been out of the loop maybe because of the type of work I do. Have things change this much in every day civilian world? Is this thinking whats hot in the streets today? Certainly not with my crew, we holla at broads on the phone all day. Are me and my boys an anamoly?

Really though, that dude thinks everything is gay. I remember he thought it was gay the way I comfortably wrote about heterosexual sex on here and had an educated tone about talking to girls or some shyt. My guess is that he's got some issues to work out on his own. He sees homosexuality in himself, so he'll project it onto others and see it in places it never is, like talking to girls on the phone to get them to come over for sex or talking about how to pick up on chicks on an online message board.



A phone is a means of communication. That's all. What matters is what you say and what your goals are.