Men need to do better.
I agree she shouldn’t be dealing with someone with a child.
So the tables have turned....
- Thread starter KinksandCoils
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I agree she shouldn’t be dealing with someone with a child.
any female 26
willing to datqe a 36yr old dude with 2 kids must be fat as shyt
and desperate as fukk
This nikka right here
desjardins
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2 kids at 36 is not a big deal to me 
shyt at least he not 26 with 2 kids
Nothing wrong with dating older men, I actually think that's the best move for young black women
We talk a lot about women being in a hoe phase but young men are probably much worst and most aren't trying commit
He could still be a fukknikka but it's a lower % chance that he's still out there being immature and playing games
Dude could be so pressed because he thinks you are a good catch
If you liked the date, go on more. You have nothing to lose there. Just be frank and honest about the phone calls
you will learn something based off his reaction to that
shyt at least he not 26 with 2 kids
Nothing wrong with dating older men, I actually think that's the best move for young black women
We talk a lot about women being in a hoe phase but young men are probably much worst and most aren't trying commit
He could still be a fukknikka but it's a lower % chance that he's still out there being immature and playing games
Dude could be so pressed because he thinks you are a good catch
If you liked the date, go on more. You have nothing to lose there. Just be frank and honest about the phone calls
you will learn something based off his reaction to that
I said we connected well didn't I? He appears to be nice and I like nice men. He's easy to talk to. But him wanting to talk all the fukking timeI just woke up and he had sent me a text a lil after midnight. I was sleep. He texted me back right away. I told his ass to go to sleep and he told me to hold him
I hate when grown ass men say that shyt. Y'all got me thinking this nikka don't have a job. How you work all damn day, get off around midnight but yet is never tired
And no he ain't fine. He's no more than avg.
he mean by hold him? dude comes off hella simp-ish
Sounds like a hoe to me. I would run from the hills Forrest. Men always make time for women and vice versa if they feeling you.Long shifts is another not-shyt nikka tactic....they need blocks of time with good explanations to be away to juggle womenplease be careful girl
bordeaux
xxx
im just sayin....u could do better
Imma catch hell for this one
So I official understand how men feel when a woman always bugs them about not texting and not calling as much as they would like. shyt is annoying.
Needy people are annoying.
I started talking to this man I met from tinder. He is 36 with 2 kids . The conversations we had started off great. I could be myself, it was just real chill. We vibed off of liking the same shows like power and just other random stuff. And for once I finally came across a respectable man that wasn't talking sexual to me. Cool...
So we take our conversation to the phone. And every time I talk to him he starts whining when I have to go. As if Im supposed to not have shyt to do. I'm the type of person that doesn't like to talk on the phone in front of other people. So when I talk on the phone I like to be alone and free to talk (especially for new people)
So I finally met this man and we went on a movie date at one of those places that serves food while watching the movie. I had a nice time and I thanked him several times for taking me out. Every since that night which was the 26th of sept. We have texted and talked a couple times.
Now this guy keeps acting like he hasn't heard from me as if we haven't talked or texted since.
He works either 8 or 12 hr shifts where he is home around midnight
Am I tripping for not feeling like talking on the phone then?
Could this guy have a possessive trait about him.
I'm absolutely terrible at detecting RED FLAGS
did you tell him what was bothering you?
Elle Driver
Veteran
Would you say the same about a 36 year old woman with two kids?2 kids at 36 is not a big deal to me
shyt at least he not 26 with 2 kids
Nothing wrong with dating older men, I actually think that's the best move for young black women
We talk a lot about women being in a hoe phase but young men are probably much worst and most aren't trying commit
He could still be a fukknikka but it's a lower % chance that he's still out there being immature and playing games
Dude could be so pressed because he thinks you are a good catch
If you liked the date, go on more. You have nothing to lose there. Just be frank and honest about the phone calls
you will learn something based off his reaction to that
ChiefQueen
HBIC
Girl, stay the fukk away from him and stop all contact asap! These old ass men in their mid to late 30s with kids are crazy as hell and manipulative. I had a 38 yo with 2 kids my age (in their teens at the time) a couple of years ago macking on me talking about, 'you're so beautiful'. I replied with, 'yeah, I know'. Dude got mad as hell when he realized that I wasnt falling for his games talking about, 'you know? Wtf'? He must have thought I would have dropped to my knees and start kissing his feet. Eyeroll! This was even weirder considering this was my place of employment and he was a patient. Moral of the story, run!
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Elle Driver
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True story. Especially if you're early 20s, that's who they go after. Dude has two kids and should focus on them. Nasty fukk.
So the ladies in this thread won't talk shyt next time a breh doesn't want a single mother I hope.
he is acting that way because he wants to have sex with you and you haven't given it yet.
Imma catch hell for this one
So I official understand how men feel when a woman always bugs them about not texting and not calling as much as they would like. shyt is annoying.
Needy people are annoying.
I started talking to this man I met from tinder. He is 36 with 2 kids . The conversations we had started off great. I could be myself, it was just real chill. We vibed off of liking the same shows like power and just other random stuff. And for once I finally came across a respectable man that wasn't talking sexual to me. Cool...
So we take our conversation to the phone. And every time I talk to him he starts whining when I have to go. As if Im supposed to not have shyt to do. I'm the type of person that doesn't like to talk on the phone in front of other people. So when I talk on the phone I like to be alone and free to talk (especially for new people)
So I finally met this man and we went on a movie date at one of those places that serves food while watching the movie. I had a nice time and I thanked him several times for taking me out. Every since that night which was the 26th of sept. We have texted and talked a couple times.
Now this guy keeps acting like he hasn't heard from me as if we haven't talked or texted since.
He works either 8 or 12 hr shifts where he is home around midnight
Am I tripping for not feeling like talking on the phone then?
Could this guy have a possessive trait about him.
I'm absolutely terrible at detecting RED FLAGS
#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
Op that's the simp you been looking for. If you wanted something real u would be fukking a nikka your age. You wanted an old ass simp, That's what u got
What the hell you thought was gon happen dating a nikka that old?
Old nikkas pull a chick a decade younger,they gon try to lock her down,if they feel like it might be they last hoorah
...or if he feel like he hit the lottery dating a young chick,bcuz he hasnt dated a chick as young as you since he was young
Im pretty sure women date old nikkas knowing how hard they simp,feeling like they hit the lottery....are women naive,or do they know exactly what they doin
Understand you risk kidnapping,stalking,being murdered,being trapped by a hole in the condom,ive heard and seen it all....this goes for any women dating nikkas that probaly feel you are out of the league.
im not one of those "give the little guy a chance
" spokesmen that exist on thecoli...the little guy will kill a bytch he feels he got lucky with,and probaly cant pull a equivelent of her ever again.
on the other hand,"a been there done that" type of guy gon treat you as expendable just cuz or like a flip....women got it hard in the dating world folks...be glad you was born into the right gender brehs
?Old nikkas pull a chick a decade younger,they gon try to lock her down,if they feel like it might be they last hoorah
...or if he feel like he hit the lottery dating a young chick,bcuz he hasnt dated a chick as young as you since he was youngIm pretty sure women date old nikkas knowing how hard they simp,feeling like they hit the lottery....are women naive,or do they know exactly what they doin
Understand you risk kidnapping,stalking,being murdered,being trapped by a hole in the condom,ive heard and seen it all....this goes for any women dating nikkas that probaly feel you are out of the league.
im not one of those "give the little guy a chance
" spokesmen that exist on thecoli...the little guy will kill a bytch he feels he got lucky with,and probaly cant pull a equivelent of her ever again.on the other hand,"a been there done that" type of guy gon treat you as expendable just cuz or like a flip....women got it hard in the dating world folks
...be glad you was born into the right gender brehs