So the tables have turned....

[International Playa]

He got 2 kids, his pay check is being taken by child support before he sees it. You can do better sister, you deserve a nikka who can spoil you once a while.

 

[International Playa]

Everybody saying she can do better like she fukkin with black Hitler...


And maybe she can't do better

Its the Coli, standards are high around here.

 

[King Jove]

this is like one of the few threads on the coli where collectively the entire forum is looking out for the OP's well being.

 

[young3000]

I like older men. 10 yrs older is the absolute max. And one kid is ok 2 is pushing it

I am over weight but no man has ever seemed like it's an issue. Plus a man having kids is not what I prefer but it's also not a deal breaker. His age is a little older than I prefer as well. I like older men as in 2-6 yrs older not really 10


thanks

But you continued to talk to him anyway



women

who goes to the movies on a first date

 

[KinksandCoils]

I clearly said pushing it meaning it's not a deal breaker. Plenty of people go to the movies for a first date @young3000

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

you made a thread just to not feel guilty for wanting to fukk him


You said you werent skinny?

 

[Ashley Banks]

You're going after a man 1 decade older than you with kids?????



You need to cut it.

@Ashley Banks come in here.

36?

 

[Colicat]

Everybody saying she can do better like she fukkin with black Hitler...


And maybe she can't do better

She's 26 with a p*ssy... she can do better

 

[KinksandCoils]

I said we connected well didn't I? He appears to be nice and I like nice men. He's easy to talk to. But him wanting to talk all the fukking time I just woke up and he had sent me a text a lil after midnight. I was sleep. He texted me back right away. I told his ass to go to sleep and he told me to hold him I hate when grown ass men say that shyt. Y'all got me thinking this nikka don't have a job. How you work all damn day, get off around midnight but yet is never tired

Also wanted to say, we haven't heard not one positive quality about this guy..,

Nope



Betting 5 dollars on "He fine"

Probably a thug too

And no he ain't fine. He's no more than avg.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I'm bout to get rid of this nikka y'all.







Imma have to tell y'all more about my tinder shenaningans

 

[Gold]

Imma catch hell for this one



So I official understand how men feel when a woman always bugs them about not texting and not calling as much as they would like. shyt is annoying.

Needy people are annoying.

I started talking to this man I met from tinder. He is 36 with 2 kids . The conversations we had started off great. I could be myself, it was just real chill. We vibed off of liking the same shows like power and just other random stuff. And for once I finally came across a respectable man that wasn't talking sexual to me. Cool...

So we take our conversation to the phone. And every time I talk to him he starts whining when I have to go. As if Im supposed to not have shyt to do. I'm the type of person that doesn't like to talk on the phone in front of other people. So when I talk on the phone I like to be alone and free to talk (especially for new people)

So I finally met this man and we went on a movie date at one of those places that serves food while watching the movie. I had a nice time and I thanked him several times for taking me out. Every since that night which was the 26th of sept. We have texted and talked a couple times.

Now this guy keeps acting like he hasn't heard from me as if we haven't talked or texted since.



He works either 8 or 12 hr shifts where he is home around midnight

Am I tripping for not feeling like talking on the phone then?



Could this guy have a possessive trait about him.
I'm absolutely terrible at detecting RED FLAGS

Or maybe he has 2 kids that require his attention


Just thinking about children makes me want to go to sleep

 

[Youngblood Priest]

The fukk are there responses. Like yall personally know the nikka. She ain't say shyt about his life. Only he works long shifts. Who knows. nikka could be on point. nikka could be a psycho. Op haven't said enough for anyone to form an opinion on this nikkaz life. What's wrong with a 36 yo with 2 kids. I'm the same. Yet I live in a 5 bedroom and four full baths. 2 car garage. Nice land. Currently talking to a 24 yo female. The only difference is I'm not a simp. Barely let these broads see the house. Am I a bad nikka cause I'm slaying these chicks? No. I'm a god. In mind and body. Let that nikka ride. If she so worried then just kill it. Come on public forums asking for advice. No!!!!

 

[Neuromancer]

She's 26 with a p*ssy... she can do better

The entitlement.

 

[KinksandCoils]

We not anywhere close to that

you made a thread just to not feel guilty for wanting to fukk him


You said you werent skinny?

 

[Colicat]

The entitlement.

Nawl... the thirst...

There are older men with less baggage who would love to hold a young tender down... thick or not