So there’s really men outchea who automatically disqualify high earning women

Xyrax

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This,
High earning women seem to think they not competing with homegirl working the fries at mcdonalds but they are.

No they are not.. Like no offense if for some of y'all this is it. But.... not for all of us.

No broke women.

They are not even in the conversation.
 

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I probably wouldn’t date a girl who doesn’t have a degree and a decent job

But i could care less if she makes the same amount of money i do. It’s definitely not a bonus, nor is it a disqualifier. But as @Hennessypapi said there is usually a mentality that comes with career driven, high earning women. And that issue is only exacerbated when it comes to black women who are unfortunately often raised by single mothers and thus dont know how to follow a mans lead.

All things equal, give me the high earner. But in reality give me the girl who makes 60K and is agreeable over the girl who makes 125k and is high maintenance and a rival. I could turn the 60k chick into a six figure chick anyways with my connections and guidance.
 

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This is true. Ideally you want a woman that makes her own money, but you gotta find the right now lol..."Ms. independent" could end up being your worst nightmare.

You usually find that out through by Vetting and spending time with her. I usually fukk with chicks that make they money but they frugal with there money. The Independent one's that make there money and spend alot on the designer shyt and high debt those one's I stay away from.
 

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You usually find that out through by Vetting and spending time with her. I usually fukk with chicks that make they money but they frugal with there money. The Independent one's that make there money and spend alot on the designer shyt and high debt those one's I stay away from.
Yup

But its a lot of frugal girls who expect their boyfriend to still handle everything/pay for everything if they’re in a relationship. This is especially the case with African women

what good is having a high earning woman if you’re going to be paying for everything anyways ? There is literally no difference…might as well be single and have a roster or date a broke chick

To be it’s all about the girls mentality. Give me the introverted girl who is low maintenance and wants to contribute. Otherwise i dont care if she has a great job/money
 

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They tend to bring the corporate traits that make them successful into their relationships.

This. The prevalent thought is that high-earning women are not as agreeable/willing to be led in a relationship, presumably because of the post above.

No amount of money can equal or exceed the value of a man's peace.

Also, high-earning women, I'd imagine, try to find men who earn even more than them. People drastically over-estimate the amount of worthwhile, available potential partners/spouses that are at such a financial level.
 

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I said all things equal, I also said that the money doesn’t replace other qualities, looks included. I mean like if you like them both equally why wouldn’t her being ambitious/successful/smart put her ahead? Because he was saying it doesn’t earn you any extra points why not? You would really be stumped choosing between McDonald’s fry cook Halle berry and doctor Halle berry?
Well yeah, of course. In that case yes, i'd choose the doctor. just saying the good job doesn't trump the other factors you mentioned. In factor it's one of the least influencial factors on the list, but yeah all things equal i'd go for the successful woman.
 

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Speak for yourself.

Now a high earning women with attitude is disqualified. But a high earning women who's cooperative and exudes that femininity is a treasure. :wub:

A woman being high earning by itself. It means nothing.

Developed western countries don't promote femininity or co-operation in women... Only abrasiveness and controlling behavior

If you do find one it's only a matter of time before she's corrupted by other women or let's that mask fall off after marriage.
 

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I probably wouldn’t date a girl who doesn’t have a degree and a decent job

But i could care less if she makes the same amount of money i do. It’s definitely not a bonus, nor is it a disqualifier. But as @Hennessypapi said there is usually a mentality that comes with career driven, high earning women. And that issue is only exacerbated when it comes to black women who are unfortunately often raised by single mothers and thus dont know how to follow a mans lead.

All things equal, give me the high earner. But in reality give me the girl who makes 60K and is agreeable over the girl who makes 125k and is high maintenance and a rival. I could turn the 60k chick into a six figure chick anyways with my connections and guidance.

Her degree, and net worth is cool and all, but I don't think that's enough. If I am making enough money, I don't care about that stuff, or her money. You want to look for one that is solid, comes from a good home, family value, religious.
 

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Her degree, and net worth is cool and all, but I don't think that's enough. If I am making enough money, I don't care about that stuff, or her money. You want to look for one that is solid, comes from a good home, family value, religious.
Exactly

excluding the religious part
I find religious and spiritual women sometimes lack the practicality needed to deal with real life issues.
 
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