So there’s really men outchea who automatically disqualify high earning women

DJSmooth

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They are not :mjlol: foh. As a six figure breh , the women i date make six figures too.

Bet yall will cry when mcdonalds chick take ya for half the 401k, savings and retirement accounts.

I got a homegirl making 6 figures that said if she got married and divorced she would take her man to the cleaners.

Women are women.
 

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A high earning woman is a good thing, but its a moot point anyway since women generally do not want to be around men who are making the same amount of money or less.

If youre with a woman making 80k, if youre not making a minimum of 100k, you will have an uphill battle. For some men its just not worth the competition because she will be thinking 'if I can get a man making 100k or more, why should I settle for a man making the same or less than me'

People hate working, and a woman who is linked up with a 6 figure earner can say "ill work part time instead" or "ill go back to school to get another job" with the expectation that her man will cover the expenses.

My bro has a girlfriend he's been seeing since 2015. They bought a house together, she quit her job because of stress and wants to go back to school. So now the mortgage, bills, and most of the grocery budget falls on him. He can't quit his job so someone can take care of his bills while he finds what he's really passionate about. That is a luxury he literally cannot afford.

You see it

Coli breh: 'I'll give high earning women a chance, I make 80k too :obama:'

80k earning woman: 'fukk outta here boke boy :usure:'
 

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It just those types of men projecting their insecurities onto their image of high-earning/educated women they made up in their heads. Because none of them actually interact with these women. They just regurgitate what they’ve heard.

Oddly enough, did ya’ll know women actually tend to overcompensate in feminine gender roles in their relationships if they out-earned their husbands. Presumably to ensure that the fragile egos of their husbands wouldn’t be too bruised by the income gap.

A large study by economists at the University of Chicago, using census data from 1970 to 2000, found that marriages in which the woman earned more were less likely to form in the first place, and more likely to end in divorce. Women who outearned their husbands were more likely to seek jobs beneath their potential, they found, and to do significantly more housework and child care than their husbands — perhaps to make their husbands feel less threatened.
When Wives Earn More Than Husbands, Neither Partner Likes to Admit It (Published 2018)
 

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Speak for yourself.

Now a high earning women with attitude is disqualified. But a high earning women who's cooperative and exudes that femininity is a treasure. :wub:

A woman being high earning by itself. It means nothing.
If she ugly and the girl at mcdonalds is fine. i going with the free mcnuggets for life.
 

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I always wonder why a woman being educated and financially stable isn’t a plus with men but then they cry when they get took to the cleaners by a broke woman or the woman thinks the man should pay for everything.

Of course it’s not the only determining factor and it doesn’t replace other qualities but if she has everything else wouldn’t having her own be another positive? Y’all really wouldn’t be able to choose, with all other things equal, between a woman with money and a woman working at McDonald’s?
If everything was equal yes, but if you like the mcdonals worker more, find her more attractive. you not gonna be like well this amy schumer looking chick is a lawyer, i'm choosing her over Halle.
 

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You couldn't pay me to be with a broke chick. Done it before and alot of them don't appreciate shyt and think of you as disposible income. A chick making money understands the hard work and grind it takes. It's counter productive to the relationship.

This is true. Ideally you want a woman that makes her own money, but you gotta find the right now lol..."Ms. independent" could end up being your worst nightmare.
 

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If everything was equal yes, but if you like the mcdonals worker more, find her more attractive. you not gonna be like well this amy schumer looking chick is a lawyer, i'm choosing her over Halle.

I said all things equal, I also said that the money doesn’t replace other qualities, looks included. I mean like if you like them both equally why wouldn’t her being ambitious/successful/smart put her ahead? Because he was saying it doesn’t earn you any extra points why not? You would really be stumped choosing between McDonald’s fry cook Halle berry and doctor Halle berry?
 
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