A high earning woman is a good thing, but its a moot point anyway since women generally do not want to be around men who are making the same amount of money or less.
If youre with a woman making 80k, if youre not making a minimum of 100k, you will have an uphill battle. For some men its just not worth the competition because she will be thinking 'if I can get a man making 100k or more, why should I settle for a man making the same or less than me'
People hate working, and a woman who is linked up with a 6 figure earner can say "ill work part time instead" or "ill go back to school to get another job" with the expectation that her man will cover the expenses.
My bro has a girlfriend he's been seeing since 2015. They bought a house together, she quit her job because of stress and wants to go back to school. So now the mortgage, bills, and most of the grocery budget falls on him. He can't quit his job so someone can take care of his bills while he finds what he's really passionate about. That is a luxury he literally cannot afford.