So we don’t ask women to be in a relationship anymore?

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It’s best to let these women choose on you. Choosing on a bytch typically don’t end well. If you like her a whole lot, the best thing you can do is hope she likes you more. Otherwise, it ain’t gonna work. You gonna try to be her man and she gonna be stalling on being fully committal, giving you the run around, or some other shyt. No no no brother, don’t be that guy. These hoes have to choose. You just gotta hope the ones choosing on you are the ones you like a lot. If you don’t already know for a fact in your head that a bytch is honored just to be in your presence, it ain’t gonna work when you try and choose up on her. She don’t like you like that.
 
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Hell no

I’ve never asked to be in a relationship. Im fine with just smashing then the woman hits me with the “what are we”.

If I think she’s worthy of a relationship I say okay but this is what I want xyz out of a relationship so make sure if that’s what u really want

If I think she’s good for nothing I lie & tell her “I just got outta bad situation/I need time to think” just to lead them on for more sex
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until they get tired of it and move on or I have to ghost them . Asking to be in a relationship first as a man is begging to get played by a woman whose only lukewarm about you.

There’s been like 1 girl I straight up told your never gonna be nothing but a sperm wastebin for me so don’t get comfortable, in those words. She was begging me for a relationship.She did not take that well but she stayed around for a while.

I stand firm that a man should be seeking power, money & success first; women seek relationships, stability & love. If your a man actively looking for relationships on some Disney Channel shyt your likely the type of dude to get cheated on. If you ask first, it puts you in the weaker position; and the woman in a position of power. No thanks.
 
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tunes757 said:
I’m only asking due to a couple threads in here.

so nikkas waiting for women to pop the question now? Different from the way I was taught ( parents real old school), but I can understand why in this new climate I guess.

What’s the colis opinion on this tho. I’m sure there’s more nuance than “ wait for her to bring the convo up” or “you should always ask a women to a relationship”.
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OP..

I will keep it a buck..

I honestly don’t know the proper way to start a relationship with a woman these days.

I think that the old fashioned way is a lil on the corny side, but I don’t believe in assuming that I am in one with someone either.

The way that seems more likely to happen is just date, become intimate and due to chemistry and consistency, a relationship ‘organically’ forms.

I would also think that two people would have a nice conversation and come to an understanding as to where they are with each other??

In all, everyone has their own way of going about this…
 
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