So we don’t ask women to be in a relationship anymore?

[m0rninggl0ry]

It wouldn't matter if you had to ask if they are the right man. I pay attention to actions, not words. So I doubt you'll be disgusted if the right dude came along.

And why would you be disgusted anyway? Men are expected to ask you out, make plans, pay for the dates. That's 90% of the work.

I understand what you are saying. What I am saying is what you just said. If his actions show, you shouldn't have to ask at all.

 

[Action Mike]

It wouldn't matter if you had to ask if they are the right man. I pay attention to actions, not words. So I doubt you'll be disgusted if the right dude came along.

And why would you be disgusted anyway? Men are expected to ask you out, make plans, pay for the dates. That's 90% of the work.

Exactly we do all the work upfront to get what we want which is sex, after that the leverage goes and she now has to do her part to maintain this.

It balances out, and a breh can then thumbs up or down the relationship contract like Julius Caesar when she asks, just like she did with sex.

 

[Ashley Banks]

how sweet




it depends though like were you shocked; taken off guard or it were you like "ohh ok"

off guard, he was telling me something and I was like “why are you telling me this?” And he was like “because you’re my gf” and I was like “ oh okay”

 

[Ashley Banks]

Your husband assumed the sale from you.

You didn't have a choice lol. j/k I'm sure you had intentions to be with him also and didn't feel forced ?

Of course. I wouldn’t have been dating him if I didn’t want to be with him. I don’t have enough patience to deal with guys I don’t take seriously lol I just wasn’t expecting him to say it at that time.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In some regards, it's true that there's men that have never asked for a relationship. Women always dropped it on them first, told them "love you" first. I've never asked for a relationship from a woman myself.

Every individual has their ways. Some may not work for others.

Yeah but online you are only seeing one perspective depending on where you are looking. In a male locker room space, where EVERY man is simultaneously posturing about how all bytches are hoes, and trying to encourage others to treat them badly in an attempt to control them… OF COURSE, it’ll be chicken wings and fries “I don’t ask none of these bytches to be with me” “fukk feelings” and so on.
Meanwhile, in real life, results vary all the time. I know chicks who do the “what are we” but I also know plenty of dudes who broach the question first b/c they wanna lock it in.

It’s just about perspective. In female space, EVERY man is always asking and begging for relationships…which is just as silly as some exaggerations you might see here. Just saiyan. This is why you gotta take shyt with a grain of salt online where hyperbole is king.

 

[Phantum]

Live life with the least amount of regrets possible. Take the risk.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Women are way more connected to their emotion than us, some men always forget about this or try to reinvent the wheel. There's no point of asking a women for relationship if she dont bring this up. Matter of fact, never show any attachment to a woman unless she did it first. I've never had problems with women and i never wasted my time either with this mindset.

If you pump her good and she feel stimulated when she's around you, you won't even have to worry about relationship or not. Do your part and she'll do her part when times is right.

Looking needy or too quick to settle is one of the biggest mistake that kill your chance. Don't be a pimp, but act like one.

 

[Ziggiy]

I told my girl we was in a relationship

I did that once felt like THE MAN

 

[dap-man]

Hahaahaha.

 

[OliviaTwist]

If I or any woman for that matter has to ask... then


I think for the most part, in the past the men I've dated they would ask me or pretty much tell me that we are together.

It’s such a turn off. I like my men to be assertive.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

yall do and be asking about marriage in the same conversation

it's cute

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

It’s such a turn off. I like my men to be assertive.

Yes indeed. I love it when he can be straight forward.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

I told my girl we was in a relationship

Came in to say this. When you decide that's what you want, ain't no asking, just let em know what is happening. Guys ask too many questions women don't even like that shyt

 

[MajesticLion]

They chose the money. There are consequences.

I said that with no malice

Don't matter how you said it its how I interpreted it

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

21 Questions ass nikkas