So Women Really Think There Entitled To Marriage After....

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Loooool. Man, there are a lot of ways I can easily just break down this nonsensical post but I won’t waste my energy. A lot of assumptions and lack reading comprehension your part. I’ll let you cook though.

I am truly questioning if you’re a
woman posing as Male font though. This isn’t the first time either.

You could have proposed to the woman or come to an agreement. Especially if ain’t shyt else wrong?



nikkas don’t like when I speak because I don’t play sides, I’m talking to you as I would anyone, man or woman...

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Black community has the least amount of resources, yet doesn’t get that a partnership of building and maintaining has an impact on the community.

Everyone else seems to get that but us.

On top of that, folks will have children out of wedlock, which is an even bigger commitment, yet marriage isn’t necessary.

I’m not going to be in a relationship with a woman I can’t see marrying.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I would have shown her where the door is. The same way I did when she complained I wasn’t spending time with her. I’ve never held a woman at ransom in any relationship. I’m very blunt and honest.

No woman is irreplaceable to me.

Then what is the point of being in a relationship if you don’t spend time with her? Just have friends with benefits. Isn’t that the role of the woman you smash, but don’t want to commit to or spend time with?

 

[ChatGPT-5]

was in a 2 year. and after 2 years she pretty much said, so where is this going, I said, I like how it is, she said she wanted more, I said not right now, and it was over. No entitlement on either parts and we parted ways. No harm no foul. Have no idea where she is, but from what I know through friends of friends she's still not married nor am I. This was 7 years ago. What's funny is we could easily have still been in a relationship right now. What does a piece of paper have to do with our bond and enjoying to be together? Who said you can't be together for 30 years without that paper? Why kill off a wonderful thing due to societal pressures? makes no sense. People seem to think that piece of paper is a 'lock' but it's not, you could be married, break up just like a bf/gf and leave the house that same day, and sign papers to unlock it all. Its really that easy. if you don't want to be with someone anymore, no paper will ever prevent that.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Men and women, especially young people have no idea what they are doing when it comes to dating due to so many broken homes and single parenthood homes that have no example of what a successful marriage/family looks like.

I keep telling folks when these threads come up that boyfriend/girlfriend means absolutely nothing when it comes to a long term relationship. It’s just 2 immature unready people having sex, wasting each others time and sullying someone else’s future husband/wife.


People are out here just having sex and excitement and once that is gone then they want to start asking and dealing with the tough questions and realities that a legitimate (marriage) long term relationship entails.

The first question every man and woman needs to ask each other from day 1 is, “What are you looking for, is it a friendship/courtship leading to marriage or someone to help you get a nut off and keep you company from time to time?”

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Well what causes some of you to get in exclusive relationships instead of just dating(especially if your gmb)? And for those of you that end up in long term relationships yet you don’t intend to marry that woman, or haven’t thought about it—what prevents you from wanting to marry that woman?

@Bryan Danielson step in here sir. You know why. Inquiring minds want to know:

If you’re over 25 and have been in a serious long term relationship with a woman, what prevents you from wanting to marry her? Is it that you never intended on getting married to anyone at all, you love her but don’t see her as wife material, etc.?

 

[JQ Legend]

This thread proves what I been saying

A lot of women care about the marriage itself more than the actual man they're marrying

That comes from societal conditioning that makes women believe they need a man to validate them thru marriage. Which is what makes yall pressure men into it. It's not out of Love or even stability, it's about validation.

Once you get that validation you end up bored which is why 70-80% of divorces are filed by women.

How u gone say u Love someone but are willing to replace them if there's no marriage? Clearly the validation of marriage mattered more than the actual person themselves.

When you think about it out of all these things:

Proposal
Ring
Wedding
The man himself

Which one would the woman be quickest to ?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Then what is the point of being in a relationship if you don’t spend time with her? Just have friends with benefits. Isn’t that the role of the woman you smash, but don’t want to commit to or spend time with?

I guess she didn’t get the memo. I told her what it was from day one and she chose to stay. Does that make me the villain?

I said to her quite clearly that my life/career comes first and if she wants to stick around for the ride then so be it.

Somehow she got amnesia towards the end of the relationship, acting as if I told her I wanted to settle down.

So whose fault is it?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Women are not entitled to commitment from men just because they desire it.
You can walk away and get a simp.
Real nikkas owe you nothing.

I can’t respect simps; they don’t know how to respect themselves. I can respect a man who knows what he wants and can communicate the same, even if it may not be want I want to hear.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Men and women, especially young people have no idea what they are doing when it comes to dating due to so many broken homes and single parenthood homes that have no example of what a successful marriage/family looks like.

I keep telling folks when these threads come up that boyfriend/girlfriend means absolutely nothing when it comes to a long term relationship. It’s just 2 immature unready people having sex, wasting each others time and sullying someone else’s future husband/wife.


People are out here just having sex and excitement and once that is gone then they want to start asking and dealing with the tough questions and realities that a legitimate (marriage) long term relationship entails.

The first question every man and woman needs to ask each other from day 1 is, “What are you looking for, is it a friendship/courtship leading to marriage or someone to help you get a nut off and keep you company from time to time?”

Repped this is so true. And the bolded seems so common sense yet a lot of people never ask this from the get.

 

[Marzupial]

was in a 2 year. and after 2 years she pretty much said, so where is this going, I said, I like how it is, she said she wanted more, I said not right now, and it was over. No entitlement on either parts and we parted ways. No harm no foul. Have no idea where she is, but from what I know through friends of friends she's still not married nor am I. This was 7 years ago. What's funny is we could easily have still been in a relationship right now. What does a piece of paper have to do with our bond and enjoying to be together? Who said you can't be together for 30 years without that paper? Why kill off a wonderful thing due to societal pressures? makes no sense.

What did she meant with more?

Was she talking about kids?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I guess she didn’t get the memo. I told her what it was from day one and she chose to stay. Does that make me the villain?

I said to her quite clearly that my life/career comes first and if she wants to stick around for the ride then so be it.

Somehow she got amnesia towards the end of the relationship, acting as if I told her I wanted to settle down.

So whose fault is it?

Was she officially your girlfriend? Or did she just assume she was?

 

[Lamar Givens]

I would have shown her where the door is. The same way I did when she complained I wasn’t spending time with her. I’ve never held a woman at ransom in any relationship. I’m very blunt and honest.

No woman is irreplaceable to me.

Do you not see the hypocrisy in your position?

 

[Yinny]

Men and women, especially young people have no idea what they are doing when it comes to dating due to so many broken homes and single parenthood homes that have no example of what a successful marriage/family looks like.

I keep telling folks when these threads come up that boyfriend/girlfriend means absolutely nothing when it comes to a long term relationship. It’s just 2 immature unready people having sex, wasting each others time and sullying someone else’s future husband/wife.


People are out here just having sex and excitement and once that is gone then they want to start asking and dealing with the tough questions and realities that a legitimate (marriage) long term relationship entails.

The first question every man and woman needs to ask each other from day 1 is, “What are you looking for, is it a friendship/courtship leading to marriage or someone to help you get a nut off and keep you company from time to time?”

Exactly, would spare women a lot of bitterness or resentment or at least feeling like their time was wasted. Now how many folks will tell the truth is another bridge.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Was she officially your girlfriend? Or did she just assume she was?

We both know the answer to that.