Flay Mayweather
Superstar
Since the two of y'all know each other I dont understand why you couldn't keep the convo going
social anxiety brehs..
- Thread starter Jack
- Start date
exactly how hard is it to bring up the annoying fat bytch at work or something
DrunkenNovice
Superstar
The hell?
Its funny but I know exactly what he means. It happens to me when I get pissed off but have to bite my tounge
I even tried to steer the conversation towards music but then she draws a blank and couldn't tell me any music she likes
She was real guarded about it.. shyt was the damndest thing
I tell her i like hip hop, she's like "oh, i like Run DMC"
bytch, everyone likes Run DMC
She was real guarded about it.. shyt was the damndest thing
I tell her i like hip hop, she's like "oh, i like Run DMC"
bytch, everyone likes Run DMC
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
forreal bruh.
@Jack I understand you have social anxiety and what not but don't use that as an excuse to enjoy yourself.
Just because you know you have social anxiety doesn't mean you need to act like you do.
You're with the girl, talk about the girl.
Get to know her, talk about the place y'all at, ask her to dance, etc etc
man, y'all was at a bar drinking...take shots with her, loosen her up a little.
If you ended up dong some dumb shyt, blame the alcohol,and if say some dumb shyt blame the alcohol
shyt after awhile you'll start believing its the alcohol talking.
She probably felt uncomfortable knowing you was uncomfortable, females can read awkwardness.
I'm Billy FUCO!!
Banned
focus your attention outward instead of inward
ie playfully tease her or talk about something you enjoy talking about or look for ways to have fun
instead of worrying about all the internal shyt you were worried about
shift your focus
and repeat about 100 times / dates / outings
ie playfully tease her or talk about something you enjoy talking about or look for ways to have fun
instead of worrying about all the internal shyt you were worried about
shift your focus
and repeat about 100 times / dates / outings
Best advice I can give as far as making sure conversations don't die and make room for awkwardness.....
Ask A LOT of questions. Women love to hear themselves talk, especially about themselves. Whenever u feel an awkward silence rearing it's ugly head, ask her where she bought her shoes.
Ask A LOT of questions. Women love to hear themselves talk, especially about themselves. Whenever u feel an awkward silence rearing it's ugly head, ask her where she bought her shoes.
Honestly, the few times I've smoked and gone out on dates have gone extremely well. Not recommending it if you're a newbie but......
My best dates usually end with us smoking, not to say its always been a full proof opening to gettin the draws.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
You gotta start practicing talking with everyone.
Believe it or not...strip clubs clubs are great for this purpose.
Believe it or not...strip clubs clubs are great for this purpose.
