sometimes I hate when these females get to attached

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Funny how I went all out just to get her number and smash

Now the table has turned and I'm sitting on the driving seat :king:

I don't know dawg about all this being in the driver's seat braggadocio.... sounds like you trying to dump her on the sly by avoiding her calls but she's actually doing the dumping in black 'n' white, or via text msg..... chicks don't give up that easily if a fella put in that work and snatched a soul.

"I'll take it as a no and stop bothering you"

translation ... the smashing wasn't all that and she can take it or leave it

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Why yes, I have been led on and tossed aside. :beli:

I have been in long term relationships and tossed aside.:to:

I have been told the truth and tossed aside. :damn:

The sad part is that Black men as a whole culture take pride in such sadistic behavior. The more sadistic the more their "manhood" is applauded. For someone to take pleasure in the "pump and dump" process and gloat about it, is straight soulless.
Your actions have an impact on people. That stuff isn't all jokes.

*patiently waiting for the we are all grown and she knew what she was getting out of it responses*.....

The fact that sexual relationships are consensual does not change the fact that you have an impact on the next man or woman.

That's all men, stop trying to single out black men you wench.
 

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That's true....but why is it laughable to disregard someone's feelings and make them feel like shyt?
Not saying you are doing it:whoa:
When a person looks back at a situation they can see how easily they are being played but sometimes it's not easy to see while it's happening.
true but most times they look back and blame the dude for playing them instead of taking responsibility for playing themselves. they basically wanted to have their cake and eat it too. I think people are laughing at the hypocrisy some of these women display. if women don't want to get "used" for sex there is a very simple solution. don't have sex before marriage. once you choose to sleep with someone, they don't owe you a relationship. and even if a dude says "ok we are in a relationship" or "i love you after 2 days of knowing the chick, then they sleep together, he doesn't have to stay with you afterwards. he could break up right after. anyway we try tp cut it, a dude doesn't owe a chick anything after they slept together just like a chick doesn't owe a dude p*ssy cause they went on a date. if i choose to go on a date with a chick, i accept the risk i may never see her after and never get my money back. she doesn't owe me. if a chick chooses to sleep with a guy without a relationship, he doesn't owe her. the reason im harsh is that as long as the woman doesn't take responsibility, she won't learn. why would she change if "she did nothing wrong"?
 

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Why yes, I have been led on and tossed aside. :beli:

I have been in long term relationships and tossed aside.:to:

I have been told the truth and tossed aside. :damn:

The sad part is that Black men as a whole culture take pride in such sadistic behavior. The more sadistic the more their "manhood" is applauded. For someone to take pleasure in the "pump and dump" process and gloat about it, is straight soulless.
Your actions have an impact on people. That stuff isn't all jokes.

*patiently waiting for the we are all grown and she knew what she was getting out of it responses*.....

The fact that sexual relationships are consensual does not change the fact that you have an impact on the next man or woman.

Real ass post....
 

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Ladies, yall better start laughing at this shyt.:lolbron:

Stop letting them draw yall out.

The more you battle, the worse it will get.

the "battle" is over celebrating and encouraging this behavior... You can chime in and be buddy buddy with users if you choose

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to the women who've been hurt: i don't mean to be an @sshole but at the end of the day chances are you played yourself. actions speak louder than words. let's cut the BS once and for all. say you want a relationship. Why would you sleep with him without being in a relationship leaving yourself open to get played?

Why would men encourage sex without a relationship?

That's all men, stop trying to single out black men you wench.
I sorry, I am no one's wench... If you want to address me, address me by my name....
In regards to singling out, I only know of Black men and my Black culture and will only critique my experience with them....
 

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true but most times they look back and blame the dude for playing them instead of taking responsibility for playing themselves. they basically wanted to have their cake and eat it too. I think people are laughing at the hypocrisy some of these women display. if women don't want to get "used" for sex there is a very simple solution. don't have sex before marriage. once you choose to sleep with someone, they don't owe you a relationship. and even if a dude says "ok we are in a relationship" or "i love you after 2 days of knowing the chick, then they sleep together, he doesn't have to stay with you afterwards. he could break up right after. anyway we try tp cut it, a dude doesn't owe a chick anything after they slept together just like a chick doesn't owe a dude p*ssy cause they went on a date. if i choose to go on a date with a chick, i accept the risk i may never see her after and never get my money back. she doesn't owe me. if a chick chooses to sleep with a guy without a relationship, he doesn't owe her. the reason im harsh is that as long as the woman doesn't take responsibility, she won't learn. why would she change if "she did nothing wrong"?
You're right but I think the mentality of not owing someone shyt leads people to treat others dirty. It's like what you said about the dates. Just cause a guy pays for dates it doesn't mean a woman owes you anything....a kiss,sex, relationship etc. . So she could be the type to feels like she doesn't have to do a nice gesture back. You can use plenty other examples as well...

The real issue is people are out for themselves. If people cared about others feelings things would be totally different.
 
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