sometimes I hate when these females get to attached

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Raedawn07 said:
I agree but like I said some females have to learn the hard way to do things like that. They will believe a guy and not understand a person would just lie like that. Some also have the false impression they can use sex as a means to get into a relationship.
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see i personally don't mind that as long as they accept this is a game they're getting into. that hocus pocus shyt. when it fails, putting the responsibility for their misery on the dude doesn't help them learn.
 
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Turbulent said:
see i personally don't mind that as long as they accept this is a game they're getting into. that hocus pocus shyt. when it fails, putting the responsibility for their misery on the dude doesn't help them learn.
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I agree with that too and some situations have turned into a relationship, but it is not the norm and its playing with fire. If a person isn't built for that they should set up rules for themselves and know when to walk away.
 
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mariahcooper said:
this is probably why I dont take men serious, everything most of them do is not out of kindness but because they want to screw you. Us women need to learn to accept this. When a woman has sex with a man that they really like certain hormones are released that make her attached to the person(the same hormones are released when she gives birth). Men however dont release these hormones during sex thats why its so easy for them to hit it and quit it. we're just wired differently, but if men know this they should be upfront and find a woman thats willing to be friends with benefits. why lead a girl on just to hurt her. smh..
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Look at this nikka :mjlol:
 
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Turbulent said:
small but important nuance: i asked why she slept with the guy she wasn't in a relationship with if what she wanted is a relationship first and foremost (and still no one answered).

i stand by what i said. i don't think a chick knows how the dude truly feels until after they slept together. Heck even the guys who genuinely believes he's in love doesn't know how he truly feels until after he fukked. this is a personal belief. So as far as the girl, did she fukk because she loves him or because she's trying to get to know him?

what i'm saying is, once a chick chooses (as a responsible non-retarded adult) to have consensual sex with someone, she accepts the risk that he may not be interested in more than that despite whatever he said. either she learns to separate the sex from the relationship or she chooses to only have sex after she's married.
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So if you believe this, why are you questioning anything the chick did? She could do everything "right" and still end up getting played because men don't know how to think without using their dikks, until of course they use you then they're fine.

TooLazyToMakeUp1 said:
I think it all boils down to how you view, value and use sex. Some women tend to act like it's a gift that they're giving rather than it being something that they want to. Y'all literally control every facet of it, so if a chick gives it up for any other reason than wanting it herself (like pleasing a dude or getting to know him :mjlol:), she lost . Whatever expectations she had for the "relationship" probably won't get met :yeshrug:

So yeah, some of this girls (yes, grown ass girls) are stupid and dumb when it comes to gaming. They'll give up sex to a dude and try to establish communication afterwards. Yeah, he got to know her alright, and chances are (with a few exceptions), he knows he can manipulate the situation because she's weak mentally pliable

Avoiding men is great only if you're honestly and truly content with being alone with Mr.rabbit and a value pack of Duracells. Women just have to be smarter because I swear y'all ignore OBVIOUS signs of "ain't shyt" :pachaha:
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@the bolded: I don't know if you know it but its kind of hard for women decide how they view sex since men have made it clear that..if you have sex..you're worthless (especially if you have sex without a relationship). Then they turn around say you're not "giving someone a gift" when you do have sex. THEN say women not having sex is the reason men (like Elliot Roger) go on killing rampages, then say you're not doing any favors by having sex with someone. I'm sure you can understand how some women are confused (or maybe you don't).

@ the rest, Nothing you guys are saying is new, there's no need to explain it to me. I'm just letting women know there's no reason to feel bad about being a bytch to men because they don't feel bad about anything they do to you or other women.

"Avoiding men is great only if you're honestly and truly content with being alone:

alone in a world with 7 billion people? Impossible.
 
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