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Sometimes I Really Do Feel I'm Hiding Who I Really Am
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SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
It's normal for people your age to feel this way. Thing is, most people feel the same way. Escapism my guy. You probably know more about it than me, you're smart.and it sucks
Wish I could just do and be me without pleasing others. It's like I'm stuck in a fukking prison.
Little brother, peep game, the longer you wait to live the feeling the feeling the longer it's going to take to live another feeling. I know it sounds crazy as fukk but being broke and having nothing but hopes and dreams is the best stage of life. Everything is new to you. No matter what you'll end up with more than what you have, which is nothing.
Nobody likes you anyway so you might as well do what makes you happy. Your parents will be proud of you no matter what.
Starts with saying yes a lot and no a lot less. Shot clock is on though, being broke and 30 aint cute. You can't be trying to find yourself in 30s. Trust me that shyt is lame especially for men.
Your 20s should be a series of mistakes, selfies, the stories you'll tell for the rest of your life, and the secrets you'll keep for the rest of the life.
Don't worry about money too much now. It'll come. School matters very little because you're smart so what is school offering you other than a profession?
The power of broke is magical my guy. Anything is possible. Don't focus on what you don't have and focus on what you do have which is hella information. I bet you could talk about anything and will talk about anything.
90% of people don't want to talk, don't know shyt, and can't carry a conversation.
expose yourself brehs
Even though I'm definitely wasting my time I will answer you because my instincts are telling me you're not trolling(just this instance). Continue to look for more jobs, but celebrate everything you do, celebrate what you are. You stop procrastinating about something... well, congrats you got that shyt done. You don't even think about how long it took because you got it done.
Furthermore maybe you're not expressing yourself because you fear backlash, of so, then learn how to make comebacks. Sit down make a list of 10 comebacks and memorize them.
And if that doesn't help then
Yet I already know I'm wasting my time.
u never got ur culo blasted u fakkit?
are on you topic?
I should ask some others in the thread. I thought the topic was about hiding who you really are, not making the most or more or about money.
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OP be y ourself. It takes courage to be yourself, because you risk being outcasted but it's better to be free than in prison.
Fillerguy
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Been there. The worst thing you can do is live to please others. What you need now is learn how to be selfish, incredibly selfish. It worked for meand it sucks
Wish I could just do and be me without pleasing others. It's like I'm stuck in a fukking prison.
Live like what you say and do to others have no consequences.It how I got my new job. It's how I convince people to do things for me. Its how I get women above me weight class to hang with me. Never been happier in my life.
That's the point, I want to be more likable. I was never as hated as I am now. Never. In HS and college I always had associates and friends.
I was never loud on jobs, but I was always honest, trustworthy, and outspoken. My last job was my first time getting fired (temp agency) and I got fired by a young black woman in her early 30's. I've never been fired before in my life and that hurt my confidence.
SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
Do you like yourself? fukk everybody else my guy. What do you like about yourself? You are likable, motherfukkers are just haters.
Bill Gates said, the world doesn't care about your self esteem until you accomplish something. What he's saying is that people will shyt on you until you do something they respect. But to accomplish anything you have to believe in yourself even while everyone thinks you're being arrogant or delusional. After you do something they respect they'll agree with you.
Breh you don't even know who you are. That's not a diss. That feeling you have that you can't shake is your spirit crying out for you to get know yourself. You can't love yourself until you know yourself. It's really just the age you are. It's normal too.
Try everything you feel is interesting until you find the things you really enjoy and can sustain you. Your friends will be made on this journey. Mentors, enemies, rivals, etc.
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Like most everyone in here suggested, you should do you and stop sacrificing your happiness for other people's satisfaction. Best believe most folk ain't out there doing the same in regards to how they operate around you, breh. That's one of the things that keeps you in that constant depression you be in, not being able to flex like you'd want to because you're too worried about who wouldn't like it. You gonna be stuck in no man's land keeping up with that shyt, breh.