i think context is needed...because when i usually hear this is when a woman who has been with her man for a good minute has stopped keeping herself well done but on some random occasion where she is going out without him, she decides to kick it up a notch....in that instance...i see where dude would be coming from...
outside of that i think a girl should keep that shyt up if you ask me![]()
Most men (well, those with common sense) know that some days you feel like dressing up and some days you don't. shyt, basketball shorts were made for this very reason for them LOL
When I met my husband for the first time I was wearing a t-shirt, jeans and some Js. When he sees me dressed up he's always got theface, because he appreciates the effort, never questions it.
He knows that I'm a casual/conservative dress kinda person, and I haven't really switched that up. I think what gets SOME dudes is when a chick completely flips the script on them.
Men always confuse me. *sigh*
Well you have to keep doing what you were doing when you got your partner in order to keep them. If you were always fly before it was official, you need to keep it up. If that makes sense.....Men say "why u stop keeping urself up like getting your hair done, getting ur nails and toes done, and dressing up after we got together?"
But then turn around and say "Who da fukk u trying to impress with ur hair done and them sexy clothes you got on?"
I'm confused....![]()