Spanking doesn’t improve a child’s behavior or social competence -- it can make behavior worse.

[Rawtid]

Hitting is not discipline, it's punishment. Physical punishment is sometimes necessary for extreme behaviors that require severe correction but if kids have discipline instilled in them don't need physical punishment on a regular basis and if that's your go-to form of discipline or punishment then you're a shytty parent.

This. If spankings are your go to, you’ve done something wrong. You don’t actually have to lay hands in order for people to fear you’d lay hands, thats discipline.

A lot of us haven’t been spanked in years or ever, but we still fear our parents enough to know it COULD happen if we got out of pocket.

 

[Broad Street Bully]

All that shyt subjective and situational. I say that as a man with 2 young boys. Sometimes it calls for it and sometimes it doesn’t and all you need to do is talk to them. But when you keep talking and talking and saying the same shyt and it’s not registering thru their head, that’s when you gotta whoop some ass and make them understand. Again, I ain’t saying this shyt on the outside looking in like most mothafukkas do. Me as the father just gotta know when the situation calls for it and when it does call for it, not to go overboard but don’t be a pushover either.

Especially as a father. Can’t be the first resort to whoop some ass but at the same time the last thing imma do is keep repeating myself and telling to stop doing shyt you know you not supposed to be doing. I’m talking 5, 6, 7 times of “stop son! Don’t do that son” yadda yadda. And best believe my kids don’t “resent” me or fear me on the level where they’re scared to be near me and won’t come to me because they fear an ass whopping. Be firm.

 

[the bossman]

No it doesn’t. Idk why people keep spewing this when it’s far from fact.

children were getting spanked centuries before we were born and it had nothing to do with slavery

Everytime this topic comes up you'll get the slavery excuse or the "you wouldn't spank an adult so why would you hit a child"

"you're a bad parent who doesn't know how to express themselves using any other way than violence and fear"

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

But the threat of a asswhoopin can be a helluva deterrent.

Some people use it as a first resort and it loses its affect

I can count how many times I got clapped up as a kid and I still remember why each one happened

 

[Genos]

False.

I was a rebellious and defiant child...Its just in my blood.... I dont even wanna work for somebody because I refuse to answer to anybody... thats why I was thinkin bout starting businesses since high school.... I've always had a rebellious sprit since a child and sometimes it must be handled with force.

Part of the reason why I respect older black men is because my father laid the discipline game down very heavily.

Also each child is different.... my younger sisters never got touched because theyre very easy-going & obedient.

I've always had an attitude of doing what the fukk I wanna do...... my father did a good job in toning me down....I thank him.

Black people have always believed in forceful discipline for thousands of years.... it has nothing to do with white people or slavery.

I never understand logic like this, you admit yourself that you were a rebellious and defiant child even though your father was whoopin you, which sounds like he may have been doing it regularly. That means the whoopins weren't working.

Its like when charlamagne talks about how he got whoopins and it worked for him. But that nikka went to jail and used to sell drugs, clearly the whoopins didn't work. Not every former drug dealer is going to be fukking charlamagne

 

[bnew]

Who says so…white people whose sons and daughters go across the global raping and pillaging?

Next question…

‘If spanking isn’t effective why is that their method of behavior correction as a society. What do the cops do when you don’t follow the society’s rules?

I'd bet the vast majority of prison inmates were beaten as children.

 

[Chip Skylark]

Everytime this topic comes up you'll get the slavery excuse or the "you wouldn't spank an adult so why would you hit a child"

"you're a bad parent who doesn't know how to express themselves using any other way than violence and fear"

Every time

 

[Wildhundreds]

So slaves in AmeriKKKa were studying ancient Egypt huh?

Some probably were the descendants of ancient Egyptians..

 

[Chip Skylark]

Where did black parents in America learn it? From studying some ancient culture?

There has always been a form of spanking in every culture before Africans were brought to the west.

A quick google search will show you that.

slaves weren’t getting spanked!!! They were getting whipped til their backs were bloodied and scarred.

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Some probably were the descendants of ancient Egyptians..

There has always been a form of spanking in every culture before Africans were brought to the west.

A quick google search will show you that.

slaves weren’t getting spanked!!! They were getting whipped til their backs were bloodied and scarred.

Even if they were

that wasn’t how they treated their KIDS. Black mothers in AmeriKKKa whupped their kids to straighten them out before massa did because massa would REALLY get in that ass.

But spanking/whipping was the preferred form of punishment on plantations in AmeriKKKa. These people were stripped of all of their culture, language, names, religion, everything. They learned soaking from slave masters.

 

[Monsanto]

I always saw whoopings as a consequence for foul behaviour so when I got them it made sense.

Still remember when I got a whooping for being an accomplice to stealing and not speaking up. I was raised better than that so I had to be corrected.

When I actually stole something my mom made me return it and apologize. Keep my hands to myself and the line between theirs and mine has been ever strong. Felt like I was going to die that day.

Different means of punishment work. No need to abuse it.

 

[Nymbus]

barely remember whoopings but l can tell you all about after a bad report card coming home to no controllers, no psp no cell

 

[Wildhundreds]

Even if they were

that wasn’t how they treated their KIDS. Black mothers in AmeriKKKa whupped their kids to straighten them out before massa did because massa would REALLY get in that ass.

But spanking/whipping was the preferred form of punishment on plantations in AmeriKKKa. These people were stripped of all of their culture, language, names, religion, everything. They learned soaking from slave masters.

If parents beat their kids for the same silly reasons as slave masters, then they don't need to have any children..

Besides, the window of opportunity for effective spankings is so small.. If the kid isn't on the right track by 8 years old, then it's going to be a hard battle..

 

[Wildhundreds]

barely remember whoopings but l can tell you all about after a bad report card coming home to no controllers, no psp no cell

Did that work?

 

[Diondon]

Thank you cacs for your great wisdom