yo dumb ass sayin the same thing as me
nah
yo dumb ass sayin the same thing as me

You are what you believe yourself to be.
Try not to let too many people know about your plans, you don't know their true intentions and/or insecurities they may have that will skew their opinion of your goal.....that goes for family too
you can't sit on your ass and smoke a blunt and depend soley on "the secret" to do all the work....![]()
this is real shyt. Only let someone know if they can somehow help with what you're trying to do
Reality altering sentences? fukk outta here...
There are some things its completely fine not to disclose. You dont have to be a blabber mouth about your entire life. But whats wrong with sharing what you really want to be or do with your life...Granted depending whos asking I might just say "I dont know" just to get them to stop talking - usually my body language is congruent and gives off a demeanor like "I dont want to talk to you" but it's not like its my secret.I rather just do what i want to do than talk to ppl about it first unless im looking for constructive feedback. But the word is powerful and should be used wisely.
Its all about having a positive mindset and resilience. Its like if your were always told you were smart, growing up your parents, friends, teachers, coworkers said your smart and someone calls you dumb....its not going to affect you because your positioning is positive and even if you do something dumb or something that isnt smart, its not ordinary, so you'll snap back. If youve grown up and been told your stupid, by parents, family, friends, teachers and someone on the street calls you a fukking idiot...well your going to feel like shyt.This is so real. It's a double edged sword though because can also make the negative happen as well based upon your thoughts. And when people reply with the most negative scenarios when you tell them your plans it permeates your subconscious as well. My parents are real bad at this.
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no its not. there are so many forms of motivation, and so many that are external. Obviously you cant say "I want a million dollars!" and talk that into existence. Much like its not necessary to say "Im thirsty" or "I am going to get a drink of water" before proceeding to do so.This speaking things into existence concept is complete bullshyt.
People dont realize how powerful their words or thoughts are. Especially when settings goals. A lot of people will say "I think I can...." or "I hope\believe I can do that...." and its like wait...do you 'think' you can or do you 'hope' you can do this or can you actually do it. Setting a goal or achieving an object isnt thought or faith based, it either is or it isnt, its a deliberate action or non action. You either will or you wont. Its very common in counseling that people need to give themselves permission to do something. Like if you decided you wanted to have some cookies, you might just have some cookies. Some people have a different thought process where they have to think to themselves "I am allowed to have some cookies" the funny thing is it goes both ways!!! People talk themselves out of stuff or speak things out of existence all the time. Its like if you go to a bar and get fukked up and tell your people "Im not going to drive home drunk" you may conciously do whats needed to do to not drive home, call a cab, hop in a friends whip, go sleep on a couch...or someone may intervene and take your keys. As silly as it sounds you may tell yourself or someone else your not going to go to a certain mall because footlocker is right next to cinnabon and your trying to lay off sweets or whatever.YOUR WORDS CARRY A LOT OF POWER. YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO PHYSICALLY SPEAK THINGS INTO EXISTENCE BUT WHEN YOU TALK A CERTAIN WAY IT DOES EFFECT OUTCOMES IN ANINDIRECT MANNER.


there are cowards, liars, hypocrites....that just says something about that person if their word is shyt.@nikkahs B. Wildin
and what about people who say "I'm not going to drive home drunk" or "I'm gonna stop messing with hoes" or "I'm gonna stop smoking" and continue to do so again and again? I know plenty of these people. Their words don't work?![]()
there are cowards, liars, hypocrites....that just says something about that person if their word is shyt.
your still not shyt if you dont amount to anything and dont tell people about it or tell people your gonna be something/do something and dont do it
verbalizing goals/even writing goals down is a powerful tool that you can use to hold yourself accountable and if your someone who needs affirmation or daps from others you can verbalize or write to them your goals/aspirations and they can hold it over your head.
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