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Try not to let too many people know about your plans, you don't know their true intentions and/or insecurities they may have that will skew their opinion of your goal.....that goes for family too

Thats not a way to live. Have you heard the story about the squirrel who gathered his nuts (n/h) for winter time while the other squirrels fukked around then winter came the other squirrels were hungry and the one squirrel who gathered his nuts lived fine throughout the winter? Your out there gathering your nuts (n/h) and when the other squirrels (people) are inquiring what your doing, your saying "nothing....." meanwhile you may come out ahead in the end.

Theres nothing wrong with verbalizing your goals or aspirations, its actually a form of bonding contract that you make with yourself. They say word is bond. Thinking and keeping secrets in your head...their nothing more than thoughts. But actually getting that shyt out...unless your a shyt talker you have. to back that up. You'd be hardpressed to fine anybody in the world who is 'successful' who never told somen one what they wanted to do or who they wanted to be. Even to get an interview you have to tell someone your intentions......
you can't sit on your ass and smoke a blunt and depend soley on "the secret" to do all the work....:comeon:
this is real shyt. Only let someone know if they can somehow help with what you're trying to do

The verbalizing is an important part of a goal. Telling others is good because now not only do you hold yourself accountable because your 'secret' is out. (unless your completely fine with being a hypocrite/ i.e saying something and not doing it) but others will hold you accountable also. "Ay Piffler, you said you were gonna get some certs this year, how close are you to finishing?" "Hey drogo, what happened with you and getting that job doing whatever it is you wanted to do?"

Unless your just lying out of your ass, nobody can legitmately hate on you for doing what you want to do. Like I said before keeping your goals and aspirations as your 'secret' and not telling people either intentionally or just not divulging the information is silly. Its not real until you make it real.

Reality altering sentences? fukk outta here...

self fulfilling prophecy, positive thinking/positive thought processes....all very real. You can go to your favorite restaurant and order your favorite meal and continually tell yourself in your mind that "this meal sucks, this meal sucks, I dont want this, I dont want to be here right now" and genuinely have a bad time..all from your thought process. You can make a decision about how you feel about a movie that youve never seen whether you hate it or love it.

Its all about changing your perception....which is something only you can control. Nobody can change your mind or make up your thoughts and feelings. Its one of the most important things you have control over.

I rather just do what i want to do than talk to ppl about it first unless im looking for constructive feedback. But the word is powerful and should be used wisely.
There are some things its completely fine not to disclose. You dont have to be a blabber mouth about your entire life. But whats wrong with sharing what you really want to be or do with your life...Granted depending whos asking I might just say "I dont know" just to get them to stop talking - usually my body language is congruent and gives off a demeanor like "I dont want to talk to you" but it's not like its my secret.

Sometimes its actually good to blurt shyt out just to brainstorm. There was a good 5 months where people knew I was considering getting a Ducati Motorcycle....It was longer than 5 months because I didnt tell anyone for like 3 months and nothing was being done about it, it wasnt until I started to tell people that I did some heavy research on pricing, went and looked at some at the dealer, went to this place and got all the info for taking motorcycle classes and getting my license and finally decided nah, not at this time.

This is so real. It's a double edged sword though because can also make the negative happen as well based upon your thoughts. And when people reply with the most negative scenarios when you tell them your plans it permeates your subconscious as well. My parents are real bad at this.

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Its all about having a positive mindset and resilience. Its like if your were always told you were smart, growing up your parents, friends, teachers, coworkers said your smart and someone calls you dumb....its not going to affect you because your positioning is positive and even if you do something dumb or something that isnt smart, its not ordinary, so you'll snap back. If youve grown up and been told your stupid, by parents, family, friends, teachers and someone on the street calls you a fukking idiot...well your going to feel like shyt.

Theres no such things as too much preparation. If you fail to plan then plan to fail. You have to think out as much as you can therefore when you envision yourself doing whatever it is your going to do, theres nothing that can be said (hypothetically) or done (realistically) to throw you off course. Its very hard to think about what you havent thought about, but subconsciously you have checks and balances in your mind for things that could possibly occur. Like if you were to think that you were going to go to the gas station to fill up your tank then return home. If you ran out of gas you probably know who your going to call first based on availability, likeliness to assist etc. If you got a flat, you likely are secure in thought that you know how to change a tire, that your jack and such is in place safely in your trunk, or that your AAA card is in your wallet etc.

Life definitely happens, but people have a lot more control of their life then they like to admit, (aka be accountable or hold themselves responsible for)

This speaking things into existence concept is complete bullshyt.
no its not. there are so many forms of motivation, and so many that are external. Obviously you cant say "I want a million dollars!" and talk that into existence. Much like its not necessary to say "Im thirsty" or "I am going to get a drink of water" before proceeding to do so.

YOUR WORDS CARRY A LOT OF POWER. YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO PHYSICALLY SPEAK THINGS INTO EXISTENCE BUT WHEN YOU TALK A CERTAIN WAY IT DOES EFFECT OUTCOMES IN AN INDIRECT MANNER.
People dont realize how powerful their words or thoughts are. Especially when settings goals. A lot of people will say "I think I can...." or "I hope\believe I can do that...." and its like wait...do you 'think' you can or do you 'hope' you can do this or can you actually do it. Setting a goal or achieving an object isnt thought or faith based, it either is or it isnt, its a deliberate action or non action. You either will or you wont. Its very common in counseling that people need to give themselves permission to do something. Like if you decided you wanted to have some cookies, you might just have some cookies. Some people have a different thought process where they have to think to themselves "I am allowed to have some cookies" the funny thing is it goes both ways!!! People talk themselves out of stuff or speak things out of existence all the time. Its like if you go to a bar and get fukked up and tell your people "Im not going to drive home drunk" you may conciously do whats needed to do to not drive home, call a cab, hop in a friends whip, go sleep on a couch...or someone may intervene and take your keys. As silly as it sounds you may tell yourself or someone else your not going to go to a certain mall because footlocker is right next to cinnabon and your trying to lay off sweets or whatever.
 

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@nikkahs B. Wildin

and what about people who say "I'm not going to drive home drunk" or "I'm gonna stop messing with hoes" or "I'm gonna stop smoking" and continue to do so again and again? I know plenty of these people. Their words don't work? :comeon:

"I think I can.." ... that's just the way how some people talk. :comeon:
 

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@nikkahs B. Wildin

and what about people who say "I'm not going to drive home drunk" or "I'm gonna stop messing with hoes" or "I'm gonna stop smoking" and continue to do so again and again? I know plenty of these people. Their words don't work? :comeon:
there are cowards, liars, hypocrites....that just says something about that person if their word is shyt.

your still not shyt if you dont amount to anything and dont tell people about it or tell people your gonna be something/do something and dont do it

verbalizing goals/even writing goals down is a powerful tool that you can use to hold yourself accountable and if your someone who needs affirmation or daps from others you can verbalize or write to them your goals/aspirations and they can hold it over your head.
 

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there are cowards, liars, hypocrites....that just says something about that person if their word is shyt.

your still not shyt if you dont amount to anything and dont tell people about it or tell people your gonna be something/do something and dont do it

verbalizing goals/even writing goals down is a powerful tool that you can use to hold yourself accountable and if your someone who needs affirmation or daps from others you can verbalize or write to them your goals/aspirations and they can hold it over your head.

:laugh: It's too early in the morning to reply to this.
 

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I don't think they ready for this fam.
I seen a video by some dude Bashar (not going to get into it) but he said something about visualize what you what, get excited about it, but don't get too caught up on the image, let go of it and the details. The higher mind will figure it out and bring you what your ready for.

The excitment part got me. Your exciting your atoms or your aura and attracting/uncovering your manifestation.

He also said worry about the timing, not the time limits.

Its all about changing your inner world and preparing yourself so things can synchronistically come to you.

But the first step is to get out the 9-5 box and surrender, give yourself fully, to discovering your purpose and carrying out your mission.

Carry on my brother :salute:
 
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