Spending Thousands of Dollars on a Wedding Ring is Ridiculous!

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If ya girl isn't the type to be satisfied if you pull this at the altar
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Then she doesn't truly love you :camby:

The ring is just a symbol. You can't put a price on love.
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Wrong, diamonds depreciate up to 50% after you saunter out the store. I don't care how much someone appraises your ring at, them same people balk at buying your ring at that price.

I would disagree in my personal experiences, although I have never purchased one at "retail" from the typical chain stores in the malls...
 

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^^^stop using that as a way out to be cheap as shyt to your future spouse. It has nothing to do with putting a price tag on love.

Man up and give your future wife something nice to make her feel special...smh...man up...
There are many other ways to make my future wife feel special than buying a diamond ring. Im far from cheap. I'd rather take my wife around the world and show her things that most American women have never seen than buy a stupid ring. That's more memorable than a ring.
 

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Give it to the right girl. If she has any self respect she'd give it back if she gets cold feet. If you get cold fee then that's on you.
Ever guy that gets married thinks "shes the one"

You are foolish if you think you will ever get that ring back if things dont work out.
 

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I plan on having a very small wedding, If I decide to have one, so I expect my ring to be more expensive. Some of the money that he would've spent on the wedding shoud go towards my ring and the rest could go towards our honeymoon. He can keep what's left over, I guess, since it'll be our money after the wedding.
 

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Ever guy that gets married thinks "shes the one"

You are foolish if you think you will ever get that ring back if things dont work out.

And your'e foolish to think an engagement ring is not given on the condition of a marriage. That ring is not truly hers until the marriage happens.

If she doesn't give the ring back then lawyer up.

Be smart, make the right decisions. Pick the right person. It's not my fault some people have terrible judgement and are a terrible judge of character.
 

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fukk that

I have better use for that money that will benefit us both than a 10k ring lol
 
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Women would rather yall be struggling and in debt as long as she has her shiny ring she can post on fb.

Those are the ones you run from. But honestly, if marriage will put you in debt then you're not ready. Coli men are a weird brand though. They refuse to spend money on anything or anyone. Dates? Nope. birthday gifts? If it's not cheap..nope! Wedding ring? Nope. Wedding? Nope. A nice night out on the town? Nope!

And all that is fine...but damn, yall expect so much and give so little. Dime who cooks, cleans, has no kids, perfect elbows, real hair, virgin but can fukk like a champ, low expectations, with money who will support you. And nikkaz unwilling to give anything for that.

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I plan on having a very small wedding, If I decide to have one, so I expect my ring to be more expensive. Some of the money that he would've spent on the wedding shoud go towards my ring and the rest could go towards our honeymoon. He can keep what's left over, I guess, since it'll be our money after the wedding.

:scust:

So where does your money come into play. Yall notice the selfish language..

'If i decide

'I expect

'my ring

'our money after the wedding

A lot of women have to come expect men to be turned off by all this, especially in a age where its drumed into us to see women as our equal. We hear sh*t like this, along with the cons of modern marriage and were like..:childplease:

But its like girls literally still have no empathy and wont adjust accordingly....
 

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I can understand buying a ring. But the whole idea of paying for a wedding is :pacspit: to me.

I've been to several and don't see the appeal of having one myself.

I have a bigger problem with the wedding than the wedding ring. The ring is a symbol, I get it. But folk out here taking out 2nd mortgages to spend $50K on a wedding? :why:

My boy's wedding cost 6 FIGURES! His girl's parents are loaded but GOT DAYUM!
 
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