I have to disagree with the OP. I grew up in the ghetto in the midst with such individuals and I know for a fact that would not only get the hoodrats but also the suburban girls. The dudes who were conduced as decent human beings (I was amongst this group) did not get shyt. So, the bottom line is being a thug/goon or just a dysfunctional man in general is highly attractive to women and being a man with decent morals is not, therefore he is considered lame automatically. It's crazy how there is denial about this.