basically you are saying that you have to go thru hoops to get a black woman than non black woman...
No that's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is American Black Culture is the most copied ON EARTH. You can go to 99% of the world and find some non american, non black person, displaying and using our culture. Whether it's the white guy using our slang, the rap music in the rock and roll movie, our style of dress in asian countries, our way of dancing in southern american countries, hell, even women are trying surgically get what's genetically natural to our women... The world loves to steal from our culture. They envy it.
Not our power. Not our togetherness. Not our financials.. Our culture. They are fascinated by it. They "need" to be down with us for some odd reason. For the most part. Even if they hate us, something they do is taken from our culture, somewhere in their lives.. That's very important to my point...
Now who on this earth wouldn't EVER be like that towards us?? Black women.. The same way you not overly excited to meet a black woman and touch her hair and eat her soul food... She ain't overly excited cause you know about Illmatic, speak with a hood slang, and act like Tupac in a business suit. The white, Indian, Asian, Latina... No matter how "down" she thinks she is, will never be as authentic as the black woman.. So you'll never get the added bonus of being black, from a black woman.
So again.. Nah you don't have to jump through any hoops. You're just not going to get any extra credit just for being black. Meanwhile if a white man was an 8 and a black man was an 8... A white woman might see that black man as a 9 cause "he's just so stylish" or some shyt. The black woman would see he ain't really any more stylish than any other black man, and therefore he just a regular 8... But oooh that white boy got "style"... But he got on the same shyt as the black man...
It's like when black women see a white boy in a frat... Or with a fade.. They go absolutely nuts.. But say nothing bout the other 5 nikkas in the line with him