(SPIN) I've Realized I'm PICKY As Hell When It Comes To Women "NO TROLL"

Are My Expectations In The Women I Want TOO HIGH?


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It's hard trying to give the inexperienced/naive brehs game because they're so stuck in their mindset. They have this fantasy that the perfect girl is gonna fall in their lap, and he's gonna lose his virginity to her, and they'll get married and live happily ever after. It doesn't work like that bro, especially at your age. You need to focus on your bread and experience different women by dating. fukk trying to find a girlfriend until you've experienced different types of women and p*ssy. That's why dudes end up married and miserable because they never got to taste the different flavors of the rainbow. Get your job, enroll back in school, get a haircut, and date different types of women until you meet the one that comes closest to your ideal partner
 

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Many. Here's a few: I respect you for choosing to be disciplined in your life. I'm sorry you've had to carry the emotional and physical load of taking care of your mom. You remind me of Peter Pan in a way, it's refreshing.

Your ideal type is one a mature man would choose, but the romantic side of you is child like and that's my favorite part.

I wish I could find the perfect girl for you. I'm not going to blow out the candles before you get to. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

You're going to learn a lot about yourself and you're going to change.

One day you'll love someone so much the thought of living without them makes you feel like God punched you in the chest. Don't think about it. Go for it.

Don't do online dating. Your girl is a real life girl. I'll give you some tips on netting her. You gotta know who you are. Present yourself well consistently. Listen to them. And do whatever you say you're going to do.

I'm not going to post pictures of my girls, but trust me when I say I know a little bit about real life high level girls. IG type girls aren't high level, those are boppers.
Thanks breh for this advice. I don't really like IG girls either. I like the brainiac chicks like Ana Kaspirian off the Young Turks. Also, I hate online dating and it's regressive to me. When I volunteered three weeks ago it felt nice. Was meeting and greeting people. You can't do that online dating. Plus it's dangerous. That one dude in Florida that had a 5 y/o got clapped up. I don't trust people online very well.

I appreciate the honest critiquing.
 

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It's hard trying to give the inexperienced/naive brehs game because they're so stuck in their mindset. They have this fantasy that the perfect girl is gonna fall in their lap, and he's gonna lose his virginity to her, and they'll get married and live happily ever after. It doesn't work like that bro, especially at your age. You need to focus on your bread and experience different women by dating. fukk trying to find a girlfriend until you've experienced different types of women and p*ssy. That's why dudes end up married and miserable because they never got to taste the different flavors of the rainbow. Get your job, enroll back in school, get a haircut, and date different types of women until you meet the one that comes closest to your ideal partner
I already got a fresh cut. However, thee other advice I can use (like going back to school and etc). Thanks breh for the honesty.
 

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True about the college campus part (I have plans to go back to get my AA in Human Services). Still plan to take a skillset trade. However, politics is a huge part of my life. Mainly because I want to run for congress or state rep down the line.
The girl you settle down with may not be your exact type. You have to be prepared to accept that. Actually, you can put a girl on to politics. I thought they were boring until a couple elections ago myself.
 

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More black men need to raise their standards. You're entitled to have yours. It's YOUR life at the end of the day.
I'm gonna be honest, I've always had high standards like this. TBH, I'm very conservative women it comes to dating. I want my future women to dress with honor and decency. Still, I'm gonna take the brehs advice and just work on myself. Because like I told others, no one will respect you if you don't respect yourself.
 

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The girl you settle down with may not be your exact type. You have to be prepared to accept that. Actually, you can put a girl on to politics. I thought they were boring until a couple elections ago myself.
Hmm, I never thought of that breh (no sarcasm).
 

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It's hard trying to give the inexperienced/naive brehs game because they're so stuck in their mindset. They have this fantasy that the perfect girl is gonna fall in their lap, and he's gonna lose his virginity to her, and they'll get married and live happily ever after. It doesn't work like that bro, especially at your age. You need to focus on your bread and experience different women by dating. fukk trying to find a girlfriend until you've experienced different types of women and p*ssy. That's why dudes end up married and miserable because they never got to taste the different flavors of the rainbow. Get your job, enroll back in school, get a haircut, and date different types of women until you meet the one that comes closest to your ideal partner
This. As I said in an earlier post, the woman you settle down with may not be exactly your type. 95% of the people I know didn't settle with the perfect mate in their minds, but they turned out to be perfect for them.
 

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I'm gonna be honest, I've always had high standards like this. TBH, I'm very conservative women it comes to dating. I want my future women to dress with honor and decency. Still, I'm gonna take the brehs advice and just work on myself. Because like I told others, no one will respect you if you don't respect yourself.

That's a good idea just focus on you, and yes nothing wrong with wanting that type of woman. Loser ass men, and basic ass females want you settle because they did. fukk that! Be the best! Go for the best.
 

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Listen guys, if you can't post something that's productive just leave. I want grown adults in here only. How would yall like it if I trolled you? Even though that's not my style.

Cuz go get some fresh air stop looking for advice on the web these nikkac00ns don't give a damn bout you...you just asking to get roasted if you want a dime then go chase her
 
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