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history here on this earth :wow:



This is for the homie @Eazy-E , don't do it bruh :wow:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-hrlp-me-not-make-the-worst-decision-of-my-recent.277276/

I messed around and fukked the wrong co-worker yall :mjcry:

Long story short I've been working at this company for a while now. I've already smashed 2 chicks already, and everything's still gravy. Matter of fact neither of them even work there anymore, but even when they did everything was sitll cool. They both were adults about it during each of their respective times with me.

BUT. There's been this one who's been wanting me, and vice versa (kinda).
I knew to stay away, and I did, for months.
Then she emailed me the other day and numbers got exchanged.
This is what ensued :mjcry:

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*insert 3-4 more mssgs of small talk, then about an hour after I'd gotten off (i was still at work all this time, she wasnt).......











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So, in that last pic, about a half hr went by after those 'ok's instead of the 15 mins like I said ..I was taking forever to get over there(admittedly, I was unaware she had to work at 6a lol)

She then tried to slay me for the night, but as you can see I didn't even reply to that 'see you another night', and instead got to her crib about 3 mins later.. :lolbron:

Went thru two mags on that ass right there on her living room couch.
p*ssy was :ohlawd:
Afterwards I just rolled up a blunt, sat there for a few more mins then we parted.



I'll fill in the rest tomorrow yall. The "good" shyt aka the DRAMA :wow:

Way too tired tonight..
 
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And this is when the red flags started going off in my head.

She began texting me the very next day, while we were both AT WORK.

This, after all that proclaiming to "just want to fukk" and "not looking for anything"..yet..she's all up in my phone the next morning AT WORK :snoop:

I mean later that evening would've been acceptable..matter of fact, I probably would've called her to say watsup by then.. but to start the day off like that on the very next day ? :dahell:

Red flags went up immediately:


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Then she hits me up later that night.............


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Now, to be honest, that little "maybe I'll do something else then" had me like :dahell:

I think she realized how crazy she sounded too when I didn't reply.

I mean she hinted towards seeing me and I hadn't even said anything regarding whether I could in fact see her or not, before she automatically said that defeatist boo hoo 'woe is me' type shyt.
Sounding like a spoiled child or something.

Not normal behavior for a 28 year old woman. :patrice:

And it gets worse :snoop:
 
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Why this woman agreed to being this man's penis receptacle is beyond me... especially at work... sista if you wanted some penis, you should have just went to the club and hit up a random stranger... don't get emotions and money mixed up....

I don't know why people call it friends with benefits... A friend hangs out in the daytime... A friend doesn't put you in compromising situations...A friend is concerned about you....

:wow:....*prays* .....sista please quietly take your L
 

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So I said my goodnights, then she hit me up again the NEXT day. I was at work she was off...


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Okay now it was those mssgs that confimred for me that this was about to be a problem dealing with her and that I would NOT be smashing again.

That whole random "ok I guess Im going to find something to get into" had me confused as hell :dahell:

I don't like that subliminal shyt. Especially not from one of my peers who I'd figure were more mature and could communicate better than that :dahell:

And then when I didn't reply, she hmu a few hours later and asked "when u coming to see me?"

:dahell:

And I swear at this point I really was doing the "da hell" face looking at my phone(and I was driving too lol)

I didn't even know what to really say. I was confused. I didn't "plan" on coming to see her at any particular or specific time, so wtf was she talking about? It was just so random.

It would've made sense to me had she said something like "when are you coming to see me again" .. as in, 'I know we haven'tmade any specific plans but when will I see you again?'

That would've made more sense. But she asked as if it was something alrerady preset in stone, or like it was obligatory that I come see her, and I didn't know what to say (everyting that I could think of was mean) so all I said was "when do u mean", and she asked again... when I didn't reply for about 6 mins she replied back with "u dont have to come..." :wtf: psycho shyt.

The only reason I didn't reply at that moment was because I was driving AND trying to reply without offending her. Yet, to just come out of nowhere 6 mins later like "fukk it you dont have to come..". RED FLAG. Crazy bytch.


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Why this woman agreed to being this man's penis receptacle is beyond me... especially at work... sista if you wanted some penis, you should have just went to the club and hit up a random stranger... don't get emotions and money mixed up....

I don't know why people call it friends with benefits... A friend hangs out in the daytime... A friend doesn't put you in compromising situations...A friend is concerned about you....

:wow:....*prays* .....sista please quietly take your L

Your dumb most females are attracted to coworkers over club dudes. There's more comfort and it's ongoing.
 
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