SPIN: Made the worst decision of my recent...

[Colicat]

Your dumb most females are attracted to coworkers over club dudes. There's more comfort and it's ongoing.

at the way you addressed me... I'm am in a good mood right now...Happy Holidays

Attraction, comfort, and ongoing encounters lead to emotional connections and relationships...

Why agree to be sex buddies when you want comfort and emotional connections?

Convenient and appropriate are two different things...

 

[Taadow]

My cuzz imma tell you where you fucced up...askin' all these peripheral questions.

You started off godd tolmbat you just wanna "fk", but then almost immediately you asked her
what she likes to do when she ain't at work. NO...that makes it sound like you wanna do chit with her besides cut.

...and then, you musta DUG HER OUT if she was on you the next day - because at first she said she
wanted to wait before being "fucc buddy" status. Don't be givin' jumpoff DA WHOLE DICC, yo.

...and THEN, you talmbat work chit with her and alla that. NO!!
Don't be bonding with this broad if you just trying to cut!!
Real talk - jumpoffs shouldn't even know your last name!!




DO NOT FUCC WITH FOLKS AT WORK, MAYNES/LADIES!!!
IT ONLY GOES BAD!!






IT ONLY GOES BAD!!

 

[DIMES]

So I said my goodnights, then she hit me up again the NEXT day. I was at work she was off...

Okay now it was those mssgs that confimred for me that this was about to be a problem dealing with her and that I would NOT be smashing again.

That whole random "ok I guess Im going to find something to get into" had me confused as hell

I don't like that subliminal shyt. Especially not from one of my peers who I'd figure were more mature and could communicate better than that

And then when I didn't reply, she hmu a few hours later and asked "when u coming to see me?"



And I swear at this point I really was doing the "da hell" face looking at my phone(and I was driving too lol)

I didn't even know what to really say. I was confused. I didn't "plan" on coming to see her at any particular or specific time, so wtf was she talking about? It was just so random.

It would've made sense to me had she said something like "when are you coming to see me again" .. as in, 'I know we haven'tmade any specific plans but when will I see you again?'

That would've made more sense. But she asked as if it was something alrerady preset in stone, or like it was obligatory that I come see her, and I didn't know what to say (everyting that I could think of was mean) so all I said was "when do u mean", and she asked again... when I didn't reply for about 6 mins she replied back with "u dont have to come..." psycho shyt.

The only reason I didn't reply at that moment was because I was driving AND trying to reply without offending her. Yet, to just come out of nowhere 6 mins later like "fukk it you dont have to come..". RED FLAG. Crazy bytch.

She seems soo scared of rejection. That's why she sends those weird ass "oh I guess I'll do something else" texts I think.... Btw what does that exactly mean? That she's gonna get her D somewhere else?

 

[Blackout]

I'm am in a good mood right now.

Inb4adudehitsupherpms

 

[Opie]

judging by the texts I can only imagine this needy bytch be looking like

 

[Opie]

anyway this thread all seems like normal hook-up stuff... i don't really get it is this the first time a girl has been interested in being more than friends when you're trying to casually fukk? pretty commonplace.

 

[Taadow]

at the way you addressed me... I'm am in a good mood right now...Happy Holidays

Attraction, comfort, and ongoing leads to emotional connections and relationships...

Why agree to be sex buddies when you want comfort and emotional connections?

Convenient and appropriate are two different things...

THIS
THIS
THIS!

THE WHOLE POINT of having a "sex buddy" is to have sex without any of them feels on it.
Why stoke them emotional connections if you don't want that?

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

im happy you had sex breh but i dont think this is threadworthy

 

[DIMES]

at the way you addressed me... I'm am in a good mood right now...Happy Holidays

Attraction, comfort, and ongoing encounters lead to emotional connections and relationships...

Why agree to be sex buddies when you want comfort and emotional connections?

Convenient and appropriate are two different things...

She's a female she doesn't know what she want she wants. They say that shyt and sooner or later the truth comes out and they want more. It's only nature. fukk buddies never last forever feelings will come from the female sooner or later

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Delete

 

[aXiom]

Here go another muhhfukka that don't understand the concept of putting money first boy

I'll admit it, I'll admit it, you too worried bout the bytches

 

[Colicat]

THIS
THIS
THIS!

THE WHOLE POINT of having a "sex buddy" is to have sex without any of them feels on it.
Why stoke them emotional connections if you don't want that?

Yeah the text with the "how are you today" made me question if he wanted a straight jump off or the GFE...

And homegirl took that and ran with it..

 

[Docaveli]

I don't see nothing wrong with fukking a girl u like at work, however you have to be willing to carry that cross or crucifix when the time comes alone. Majority of the time if shyt hit the fan, you as the man will be blamed for it.

I'm not passing judgment cus I understand the urge but I'll leave u the quote from the wire "you cannot lose if you do not play"

 

[Momentum]

Buying my first house here in SC. I love the house but, the more I travel, the less I want my home-base to be in South Carolina

You lost if you aren't in Rock Hill area

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

'Lete