SPIN: Made the worst decision of my recent...

[rahji]

OP is a loser! Coworker is a loser!


You smashed some slore who told. You she wanted to fukk before she even knew your hobbies lol. You fukked a coworker. You talked to her like it was a real relationship. She went crazy off One night of sex. Then OP talking all that rah rah shyt to the crazy bytch at work. Here comes the rape allegation. For someone 30-ish you wild dumb!!!!

 

[DrunkenNovice]

You both blew things out of proportion.

She seems soo scared of rejection. That's why she sends those weird ass "oh I guess I'll do something else" texts I think.... Btw what does that exactly mean? That she's gonna get her D somewhere else?

I'm on 50pp So I didn't read the whole thread,

But these two posts pretty much sum up what happened.

She was basically begging you to initiate the next hook up, either you purposely ignored it or were just clueless to what she was doing.

I've dealt with a few chicks like her...she feels like if she asks you directly she "putting herself out there".

I remember this lady at work gave me her number (on a sheet of paper), and I honestly lost it. She came to me a few days later asking why I never called or text and I reply "Yeah about that.." she immediately says "nevermind if you had something else you shoulda told me" ....I looked at her like, and walked away. We still talk, but I aint got time to be rebuilding a hoe self esteem.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

She said she's hoping to do you...and if you want some more (sex) and that she likes to have fun.

Then you called her "babe" lol

Not sure how you got that she's trying to lock you down from that...she's pretty upfront.

that "babe" was a no-no.
make it seem like he gone catch feelings soon over some ass

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

How the fukk i come off as a dikk?
Nahh breh I really want to know cus you not the only person in here saying that shyt and im wondering now if Im reading the same conversation as everyone else or not

Cus in the conversation IM reading, I told a 28 yr old woman what I wanted and she agreed it was what she wanted too.AFTER I warned her that we might be at 2 different spectrums of expectation What the hell more could I have told her

It must've been something more because like I said you not the only person in here calling me a borderline asswipe...and I dont get it...I didn't lead her on or nothing.. Asswipe for what, not feeding into her clinginess which wouldve mislead her

You know when I read the texts my first impression was you suffer from Asperger's syndrome and lack the ability to respond to subtle nuances in conversations. I personally felt like you coulda steered the convo in such a way that she stayed in fukk buddy zone. Or you coulda deaded her in a better way. Or you could have ignored her. Instead you came across with this mechanical directness, like a computer program spitting out an answer. Maybe I'm wrong, but the whole thing seemed weird and mildly autistic

 

[Playeroni]

Tried to end a half novel long emotional tirade with "and i-i-i don't care about daps.."

Haha you got me bruh. Im emotional and im jealous of coli dudes. that one post about you kissing and telling got you furious its cool though im glad you got some friends to agree with you.

 

[Playeroni]

You know when I read the texts my first impression was you suffer from Asperger's syndrome and lack the ability to respond to subtle nuances in conversations. I personally felt like you coulda steered the convo in such a way that she stayed in fukk buddy zone. Or you coulda deaded her in a better way. Or you could have ignored her. Instead you came across with this mechanical directness, like a computer program spitting out an answer. Maybe I'm wrong, but the whole thing seemed weird and mildly autistic

Easy bruh. You dont wanna come off as emotional for letting dude kniw he sounded weak as hell in them texts.

 

[vicioustalk]

Rofl when she said u need to be honest hahah wow u were honest from the jump... Oh boy.... But don't get shyt twisted.... Some of yall men be like that too.. Met me a fine as personal trainer all I wanted to do was fukk him... So I lay a few something in his ear... Exchanged numbers... And it was on..... We agreed to try n make this a regular thing... Nxt think I kno he's blowing up my phone constantly while I'm at work that we need to fukk now.... I had to lay that nikka to rest..... Op I think the fact that she was almost getting married and they called it off I think she was hoping to get hubby material out if u... See she said it's been two months since they called it off... That was ur FIRST mistake.... Never play with a girl that was supposed to get married..... Well lesson learned.. Right?

 

[Gus Money]

She definitely seemed annoying and immature so I understand your frustration completely... but you should have kept your cool when responding to her craziness, breh. I've been there before though so I know it's easier said than done.

Unfortunately I doubt that this is the end of it. She will be back. They always come back.

 

[Big Daddy]

you came across with this mechanical directness, like a computer program spitting out an answer.

that's exactly how I talk. Very direct and clear cut. Hence my impatience with all her indirect "nuances", as you called them.

I knew what she wanted. I purposely didn't entertain it. That's not what I signed up for and I made that clear to her, repeatedly, before anybody's draws came off.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You was calling her babe though..

 

[Big Dixon]

If I hear somebody scream world star Im just going to start swinging

hahahahaha right!

That Worldstar shout out is the new "GUNSHOT BEFORE A TRACK MEET" LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[Big Daddy]

She said she's hoping to do you...and if you want some more (sex) and that she likes to have fun.

Then you called her "babe" lol

Not sure how you got that she's trying to lock you down from that...she's pretty upfront.

But I call every female babe or boo, and I'm dead serious

And every female calls me "hun" or "boo" It's the south !

She's a gotdamn psycho to, at her age, be the only one out of every female I'm dealing with/have dealt with, to ingest that "babe" shyt and take it to heart

And I had no problem with her wanting more sex, I had a problem with her not even giving me a full 4 mins to reply to it before getting on her self-pity soap box. At 28 years old. THAT was my issue.

I had a problem with her flipping out 6 mins after she texted me the word 'ok', about me "not wanting to hold conversations with her", ONE DAY after our first sexual encounter, and ONE day after saying she's okay with fukking me with no strings attached

And I just thought of something.. how the hell can you be texting somebody, hit 'em with a one word reply like "ok" (which i didnt mind and was still about to reply), and then turn around and say THEY don't want to hold a conversation with YOU

I thought those one-word "ok's" were the epitome of "i dont want to talk"

Just another one of the psycho behaviors she pulled.

Everything she did was psycho, and there's no excuse for it at her age.

 

[Big Daddy]

Word. It's clear that she wanted more dikk, because maybe she hasn't been getting good consistent dikk for awhile and in her state of deprivation she found him to be a good candidate. Then his faulty "drama alarm" went off and he went and created drama, fukking up the situation, because he read WAAAAY too much into a text the next day.

SMH.

Had no problem with her wanting more dikk.

Had a problem with her telling me how often I needed to be texting her.

I know from experience to nip that shyt in the bud asap, and you will learn the hard way buddy

 

[Big Daddy]

You was calling her babe though..

I call my cashier that I get my cigars from babe, everyday!

My lil chick that spent a night with me the other night, I call her all kinds of babes and boos and sweeties. She dont give a damn because she knows we're just fukking.

My tall nurse chick (the youngest on my squad) gets called every pet name I can think of. She gives no fukks.

There's a difference between a sane woman and an insane woman.

This thread is about avoiding the insane women.

 

[Big Daddy]

If she wanted to spin this to make you look crazy it wouldn't even be that hard

It would be very hard, because the first thing someone would say to her is why are you bugging your fukk buddy, the very next morning, at work

And that was just the beginning of her violations