Spin: Marriage and Money

[mamba]

Are you gonna be head of household then?

Anyways, black women don't have the luxury of having the man take care of all the finances so I doubt you'd have any arguments regarding this.

Why wouldn't a man still be head of household simply because a woman is contributing financially?

 

[Elle Driver]

Why wouldn't a man still be head of household simply because a woman is contributing financially?

So if you're the head of household, take care of the household. What's the problem? She's your wife, and those your children. Most women will obviously use their earnings towards the household though.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Why wouldn't a man still be head of household simply because a woman is contributing financially?

Leaders PROVIDE and protect, no?

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Op's "underdeveloped mind" makes him food for chicks who are on that 'what's mine is mine, what's yours is mine' type game.

 

[Dwolf]

So if you're the head of household, take care of the household. What's the problem? She's your wife, and those your children. Most women will obviously use their earnings towards the household though.

Because he wants the title while pushing off responsibilities to someone else.
Everybody want to be a leader but don't nobody want to lead

 

[Rawtid]

All the money comes together and is budgeted accordingly.

 

[Elle Driver]

Because he wants the title while pushing off responsibilities to someone else.
Everybody want to be a leader but don't nobody want to lead

@mamba is hypocritical, which is what he's accusing women of.

 

[mamba]

Op's "underdeveloped mind" makes him food for chicks who are on that 'what's mine is mine, what's yours is mine' type game.

nikka please. A chick is never gettin' her hands on my cash like that.

 

[mamba]

Leaders PROVIDE and protect, no?

You can provide and protect. Doesn't mean you have to provide 100% 100% of the time, especially if she is also earning good money.

 

[mamba]

Because he wants the title while pushing off responsibilities to someone else.
Everybody want to be a leader but don't nobody want to lead

Pushing off what responsibilities? Financial contribution isn't the end and be all of leadership dumb nikka.

 

[Action Mike]

Both are money is family money

Your my partner not my child

 

[aXiom]

I ain't much for the head of the household label.. Once we marry whatever we make together is our money[herein lies the issue of getting married to someone way outside of your tax bracket].

But.. what ever I had before we met is, and will remain mine and/or my kids'. Whatever we build going forward she's entitled to half, and I say half under the assumption that she put in half the work.

 

[mamba]

Op's "underdeveloped mind" makes him food for chicks who are on that 'what's mine is mine, what's yours is mine' type game.

A woman with that mindset wouldn't even be considered marriage material in my eyes. How would I be food? You may need to go back to a bar/club and recharge, breh. You're slippin'.

 

[mamba]

I ain't much for the head of the household label.. Once we marry whatever we make together is our money[herein lies the issue of getting married to someone way outside of your tax bracket].

But.. what ever I had before we met is, and will remain mine and/or my kids'. Whatever we build going forward she's entitled to half, and I say half under the assumption that she put in half the work.

That's exactly what I've said in this post and others. My position has been consistent.

 

[Dwolf]

Pushing off what responsibilities? Financial contribution isn't the end and be all of leadership dumb nikka.

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