Spin: Marriage and Money

[Action Mike]

Pushing off what responsibilities? Financial contribution isn't the end and be all of leadership dumb nikka.

But they aint hearing that

Number 2 only applies with a stay at home mum

You dont need a man, but when you get one your totally dependent on him?

 

[mamba]

But they aint hearing that

Number 2 only applies with a stay at home mum

You dont need a man, but when you get one your totally dependent on him?

Exactly. For a stay-at-home mom, it's totally understandable.

 

[bcrusaderw]

You can provide and protect. Doesn't mean you have to provide 100% 100% of the time, especially if she is also earning good money.

So are you cleaning, cooking, and childrearing a proportionate amount of the time that you aren't fully providing?

 

[Action Mike]

 

[No_bammer_weed]

A woman with that mindset wouldn't even be considered marriage material in my eyes. How would I be food? You may need to go back to a bar/club and recharge, breh. You're slippin'.

Another response to my post? Lol Damn. I struck a nerve. Why so defensive? You seem eager to try to convince me of something. I think your "underdeveloped mind" put you in a relationship where you got got, bruh, and now you're pouting about it.

If not an underdeveloped mind, then what was it? Why would you or any other man jump into a relationship of such financial inequity and imbalance? Desperation?

 

[AtomicUse]

I can respect that. But, are you still footing most of the bills?

I pay all my own bills, and she pays all her own bills.

We're pretty much two independent people that are happy being together.

Her mother said we're like a Twix bar.

 

[MadameMoreaux]

Doesn't make sense when both people are working and making a similar amount of money.
Makes sense when the man makes more money, or the wife stays at home. It's really not that complex.

 

[2-Digit]

All the money comes together and is budgeted accordingly.

It really doesn't get any simpler than this. Your woman is supposed to be building WITH you. If you're married and your lady doesn't take any interest in the family expenses

 

[mamba]

Another response to my post? Lol Damn. I struck a nerve. Why so defensive? You seem eager to try to convince me of something. I think your "underdeveloped mind" put you in a relationship where you got got, bruh, and now you're pouting about it.

If not an underdeveloped mind, then what was it? Why would you or any other man jump into a relationship of such financial inequity and imbalance? Desperation?

Got got? I'm not married and I've never been. All of my relationships have been balanced. I'll never accept less than that. I don't do charity relationships.

 

[mamba]

It really doesn't get any simpler than this. Your woman is supposed to be building WITH you. If you're married and your lady doesn't take any interest in the family expenses

Exactly. Not sure why people are making this shyt so complicated.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Anyways, black women don't have the luxury of having the man take care of all the finances so I doubt you'd have any arguments regarding this.

:hhhscust:

 

[Doomsday]

I wonder how many dukes actually make the kind of money that justifies their paranoia.

 

[agnosticlady]

The money belongs to the family. I understand wanting money to do little things for yourself (get your nails done, hair done, facials, and etc) but the money belongs to the family. If I got married I would want us to live off of one salary and put the other salary into a family savings for investing to bring in a residual income. It's greedy to spend your mans money thinking you shouldn't have to give any financial input yourself. My uncles and his wife both works. He brings in a bigger paycheck and pats most of the bills. She pays the little bills, but most of her money goes into investing and savings for the family.

 

[Remote]

You gotta set the rules in the beginning.

These hoes wanna be kept but they don't wanna be kept.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Ask single broke virgins about finances and marriage brehs.