Spin: Rational and Candid about the term Bedwench

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:mjlol: The thought of a black woman I'm dating saying some shyt like that to me. That nikka's self esteem gotta be low as hell to be dealing with a black woman like that.

I hate to say it, but with the mentality a lot of blacks have, you have to be just as cautious dating a black woman as you would any other group of women. A woman simply being black doesn't mean mean anything to me anymore.

Focus on finding the legit black women and you'll be fine though breh :myman:
 

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:mjlol: The thought of a black woman I'm dating saying some shyt like that to me. That nikka's self esteem gotta be low as hell to be dealing with a black woman like that.

I hate to say it, but with the mentality a lot of blacks have, you have to be just as cautious dating a black woman as you would any other group of women. A woman simply being black doesn't mean mean anything to me anymore.

Focus on finding the legit black women and you'll be fine though breh :myman:
She has the look he want because she sure don't got the rest. She would go White right now if she could pull and KEEP the quality she want.
 

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Maybe she was just joking about the Brett shyt? Also the west is female dominated and it doesn't affect just black men.

As for bedwenches, I agree with you. I avoid contact with them if I can help it. I also agree about black men simping too much and giving these females especially ugly fat non black women too much attention. Nothing makes my blood boil than some fat ugly white woman thinking I'm about to holla. And she feels like that because black men have been simping her in the past and she thinks I'm about to do the same.
 

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Maybe she was just joking about the Brett shyt? Also the west is female dominated and it doesn't affect just black men.

As for bedwenches, I agree with you. I avoid contact with them if I can help it. I also agree about black men simping too much and giving these females especially ugly fat non black women too much attention. Nothing makes my blood boil than some fat ugly white woman thinking I'm about to holla. And she feels like that because black men have been simping her in the past and she thinks I'm about to do the same.
White ppl think in general for the most part. If one nikka hit it from HS or college, they could be 25 and come on to you tryna hit. :camby:
 

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Men have so much invested in their own women
As do women in their own men.

The main role of the bedwench label is not necessarily to shame women, it is instead to warn other black men; it says avoid if possible, she is tainted, do not under any circumstances wife or bestow your resources on her, she is good for no more than a fukk/smut session.
What is the black male equivalent to the term "bed wench?" And should black women avoid black men who date/fukk/marry white women? Should they view them as tainted? Is a black man who marries/dates/fukks a white woman good for nothing more than a fukk/smut session from black women? The percentage of black men who marry out is double that of black women, so when are you going to make a post about that? But thats not what this post is really about is it?
 

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Men have so much invested in their own women (emotionally and in providing for them) that it is unacceptable for them that said women engage, in significant numbers, in relations with other men, especially if the interaction between the two male groups is hostile. The main role of the bedwench label is not necessarily to shame women, it is instead to warn other black men; it says avoid if possible, she is tainted, do not under any circumstances wife or bestow your resources on her, she is good for no more than a fukk/smut session. It's not about being insecure (the more alpha the men, the more unwilling they are to put up with this behaviour) or hating and disrespecting women; it's about self preservation and having standards.

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