Spin: Rational and Candid about the term Bedwench

[#1 pick]

"This dude (the boyfriend) is apparently a professional baseball player, he's a successful dude, part of an elite group. Listen to what she says to his face; if you don't behave negro I'll replace you with Brett. Can you imagine women from other groups saying this so casually to their own men? Can you imagine any other group of men putting up with this? just grin and dismiss it? Especially since the Bretts she used to date were most likely not on his level?"

Asian women do it to Asian guys all the time. For the same Brett too. Its even more prevalent there than in the blacc community

The Asian women is fully accepted into the White community and unlike their men, they aren't truly attacked by white supremacy like BM/BW are. For a BM/BW to c00n, it takes a lot more self hatred than it does for an Asian women. So this comparison is null void.

 

[Poitier]

I've dated BW who have dated WM. Stay far away. The self hate is palpable. The same goes for bed bucks

 

[Falcozer]

I've dated BW who have dated WM. Stay far away. The self hate is palpable. The same goes for bed bucks

These BW gave you vibes ?

 

[LadySimone]

White, asian, hispanic men generally say they don't want to touch one of their women if they dated another race. It's a common behavior among men but somehow if you're a black male and you act like this you are labeled as " insecure " .

Those men actually show up for their women. You can't make demands on women you aren't providing for or protecting.

Since black women as women need protecting and providing and our own men aren't doing it or tell us we too average and not dimes so they can't be bothered then what you expect?

 

[yates]

no, i realized a lot of men here are not AA, just wondering about op @absalom's ??



what if she went on dates with some of them but decided it wasnt going to work?

Yeah id be cool with that I guess. Its just the thought of seriously being with a black woman that's had sex with a white dude that just doesn't sit right with me lolDont know why, maybe history or whatever but that's how I feel .

. You just said bedwenches should be avoided. So why should i tolerate bedbucks?

Lol honestly, I think the term bedwench and bedbuck is used far too loosely on here. A black man or woman who dates out is not any of those things unless there is c00ning attached to it.

And I don't "avoid" black women who date white men like id still be friends with her, hang out, (slang dikk in her ), I just would not develop a serious relationship with her.

And I see nothing wrong with your preference as long as you aren't one of those hypocrites whose been with a white dude but wanna have issues with black men who date white women. If not, do your thing ma

 

[LadySimone]

they do that out of insecurity of black mens percieved hypermasculinity

I always thought turning into a crybaby weirdo because other races of men being interested in your women was cac shyt

From my experience cac men expect men to be interested in their women because they actually celebrate their women as being the most attractive and desirable. The cac women who do go for non cacs are usually labelled as bottom barrel

Now this is In stark contrast to black men saying cacs get dime black women and black men rubbing in our faces that the rest or the majority of us aren't desireable enough for cacs.

 

[RoyalQ]

Asian women do it to Asian guys all the time. For the same Brett too. Its even more prevalent there than in the blacc community.

I was just about to say that. Asian women be shytting on their men soo hard it's not even funny. They have no problem saying that they would drop their boyfriend for a white man. They compare height, wealth, and influence and make sure Asian men know they are inferior. I be feeling bad for the little chink brehs

 

[Poitier]

These BW gave you vibes ?

Nah but she was African

 

[#1 pick]

Those men actually show up for their women. You can't make demands on women you aren't providing for or protecting.

Since black women as women need protecting and providing and our own men aren't doing it or tell us we too average and not dimes so they can't be bothered then what you expect?

Why do you hate BM so much but claim to love us?

 

[#1 pick]

I was just about to say that. Asian women be shytting on their men soo hard it's not even funny. They have no problem saying that they would drop their boyfriend for a white man. They compare height, wealth, and influence and make sure Asian men know they are inferior. I be feeling bad for the little chink brehs

That's a big problem too. That's why Asian men hate cacs even tho cacs let them do business here because no matter how much money the avg Asian make, he don't got white supremacy and it makes them irate. I was on reddit once and they hate cacs more than we do and we have 1000000000000000 times more reasons to hate cacs. But you can't compare the two. They are NOT comparable. Even they know that a Black woman with a WM hates herself and her people in some way. Those Asian women have self hate issues but not even close to the same degree. Same for Latinos.

 

[yates]

they do that out of insecurity of black mens percieved hypermasculinity

I always thought turning into a crybaby weirdo because other races of men being interested in your women was cac shyt

Yeah im not sure why black womens interracial marriage rates are lower than other women, but nikkas that make out black women to be some undesirable women are some clowns for real. There may be a lot of reason for black womens low interracial marriage rate, but non black men being too good for them will never in million years be one of them

I cant blame any man for finding black women attractive since they're my preference as well, but I think the low self self esteem of many black women, coupled with the entitlement issues of a lot the white men they date just results in questionable shyt in those relationships. Same could be said about bm/ww.

 

[Falcozer]

Those men actually show up for their women. You can't make demands on women you aren't providing for or protecting.

Since black women as women need protecting and providing and our own men aren't doing it or tell us we too average and not dimes so they can't be bothered then what you expect?

Well, knowing your stance on black men I think it's better if we just stay here. No pointless discussion .

 

[miranda]

Breh might be right. Black women don't understand that bedwenching like a lot of sexual encounters fukks up your mindset. You don't gotta say it, the actions of previous women prove it to us loud and clear.

I dont disagree with all of the op's post, i just dont understand what he expects black women to do while waiting for black men to be able or even willing to provide a foundation for rebuilding the black family structure here in america. now if he's caribbean or african, i can see the disconnect, but black american men dont get married and a sizeable minority have a preference for nonblack women, so again what should black women do? sit around and die alone?

 

[RoyalQ]

Yeah id be cool with that I guess. Its just the thought of seriously being with a black woman that's had sex with a white dude that just doesn't sit right with me lolDont know why, maybe history or whatever but that's how I feel .



Lol honestly, I think the term bedwench and bedbuck is used far too loosely on here. A black man or woman who dates out is not any of those things unless there is c00ning attached to it.

And I don't "avoid" black women who date white men like id still be friends with her, hang out, (slang dikk in her ), I just would not develop a serious relationship with her.

And I see nothing wrong with your preference as long as you aren't one of those hypocrites whose been with a white dude but wanna have issues with black men who date women. If not, do your thing ma

The thing that annoys me is that many black men call black women a bedwench sans c00ning aspect. Just a simple picture of a black woman with a white man -no context or anything, and they slam her as a bed wench. But a black man with a white woman who clearly c00ns, bashes black women, bashes the black community- barely gets called anything. The double standard is obvious.

 

[LadySimone]

I was just about to say that. Asian women be shytting on their men soo hard it's not even funny. They have no problem saying that they would drop their boyfriend for a white man. They compare height, wealth, and influence and make sure Asian men know they are inferior. I be feeling bad for the little chink brehs

Black men do parallel Asian women in their distaste for their natural mates.

Except black men promote their distaste in their media music and language ie dark butt, etc.