Spin: Rational and Candid about the term Bedwench

[#1 pick]

From my experience cac men expect men to be interested in their women because they actually celebrate their women as being the most attractive and desirable. The cac women who do go for non cacs are usually labelled as bottom barrel.

Or are our most desirable men either financially, aesthetically or mentally. While I be agreeing with you on bedbucks, your points on bedwenching is stupid as shyt. You know about white supremacy just like everyone else. Excusing it is what the bedbucks do as well as the bedwenches. Bedwenches, ya'll can't provide and protect. Bucks, ya'll aren't feminine and ya'll aren't desirable by society is clearly white supremacist mindsets. That's what I do get about you. You blame bucks for their c00ning but make the bedwenches points as well. That's a deadly c00n in my opinion.

 

[ridedolo]

black men and women who date out are traitorous c00ns

 

[Poitier]

White men aren't marrying black women so that isn't why wenches wench.

 

[Falcozer]

The thing that annoys me is that many black men call black women a bedwench sans c00ning aspect. Just a simple picture of a black woman with a white man -no context or anything, and they slam her as a bed wench. But a black man with a white woman who clearly c00ns, bashes black women, bashes the black community- barely gets called anything. The double standard is obvious.

There is some double standard but you're exaggerating a bit here. A black man like that would surely get called a c00n and will be trashed down.

 

[miranda]

White men aren't marrying black women so that isn't why wenches wench.

why do they do it? and black men arent going to marry black women either, so...

 

[ridedolo]

That's a big problem too. That's why Asian men hate cacs even tho cacs let them do business here because no matter how much money the avg Asian make, he don't got white supremacy and it makes them irate. I was on reddit once and they hate cacs more than we do and we have 1000000000000000 times more reasons to hate cacs. But you can't compare the two. They are NOT comparable. Even they know that a Black woman with a WM hates herself and her people in some way. Those Asian women have self hate issues but not even close to the same degree. Same for Latinos.

this is true. my old roommate is mexican, and his girl and all their friends were chinese. they would come thru and smoke and be bashing cacs viciously. i'd be sitting there like

 

[#1 pick]

I dont disagree with all of the op's post, i just dont understand what he expects black women to do while waiting for black men to be able or even willing to provide a foundation for rebuilding the black family structure here in america. now if he's caribbean or african, i can see the disconnect, but black american men dont get married and a sizeable minority have a preference for nonblack women, so again what should black women do? sit around and die alone?

Build with him or simply just build. Common sense. You have to realize you are under attack. What are you gonna do? Run? Okay well what issues does it solve. You aren't answering the question and the problem will just manifest, the c00n's referendum. Sit? Well, there is a great chance you will be killed, this seems like the BW of today's loyalty agenda. Or think outside the box and build? This is what you do. You build. When you build, the right person will come along to build with you. That's the answer. For example read up on Colleen Payne-Nabors or Cathy Hughes. Clearly, they had grand success but if you build, even through failure, they will come. AA's do get married and everyday. You have to get where you fit in to become a master of your craft.

 

[yates]

The thing that annoys me is that many black men call black women a bedwench sans c00ning aspect. Just a simple picture of a black woman with a white man -no context or anything, and they slam her as a bed wench. But a black man with a white woman who clearly c00ns, bashes black women, bashes the black community- barely gets called anything. The double standard is obvious.

But you kind of did the same exact thing by saying a black man who has dated out is a bedbuck or dead to you lol

I agree there is a double standard, but sometimes you just have to accept people will always be biased to what they relate to Same way lots of black women will lambast black men who date out but become empathetic towards black women who do the same. Doesn't make it right, we'll never be able to change it, but it is what it is. That's why I try to be as objective as possible in all things I do.

 

[Poitier]

why do they do it? and black men arent going to marry black women either, so...

The amount of bm giving be commitment dwarfs the minuscule amount of BW-WM unions

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

So @absalom's whats your take on black men who date out? Men have more resources and more influence but are giving resources to said "opposing side" by giving it to their women. Should black men be labeled aharsh word and seen as tainted? What sense does it make to compete against white men , asian, and latino by marrying into their communities and bulking up their influence? Its counter-productive isnt it? But i find black men are far more tolerant of multi-millionaire black men giving their wealth to white women (ie. The mild responses in the Jamie foxx thread, basketball players, rappers, corporate black men, actors, heck even average guys of decent income) but are upset at broke college black women marrying out.

Dont fukking flip the script, if u want to talk about male c00ns then make a thread for it. Period

 

[#1 pick]

But you kind of did the same exact thing by saying a black man who has dated out is a bedbuck or dead to you lol

I agree there is a double standard, but sometimes you just have to accept people will always be biased to what they relate to Same way lots of black women will lambast black men who date out but become empathetic towards black women who do the same. Doesn't make it right, we'll never be able to change it, but it is what it is. That's why I try to be as objective as possible in all things I do.

I don't expect BM to be as mad as BW when BM buck as vice versa for wenching for BW for BM. Because one directly effects us and the excuses always makes some type of sense. Like BM can't provide or protect is true. BW who don't control the media as well as BM hear well they aren't as attractive and they lack womanly manners(attitude) is more truth by white supremacy standards than it's not because the condition sistas are currently in as well as brothas. Both are unfair and both are true to some degree which is why the c00n doesn't get the same hate from their own as they do from the opposite sex.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

can't we just all get along?

 

[Will Ross]

It's no such thing as a bed buck. Any black man using this term is basically placing himself in a role of a female. No other group of men do this

 

[Will Ross]

black men and women who date out are traitorous c00ns

Only a woman can sellout her group.

 

[#1 pick]

Only a woman can sellout her group.