Spin: Rational and Candid about the term Bedwench

[ridedolo]

Only a woman can sellout her group.

 

[Warren Moon]

. Nothing makes my blood boil than some fat ugly white woman thinking I'm about to holla. And she feels like that because black men have been simping her in the past and she thinks I'm about to do the same.

The audacity is fukking ridiculous

They mentally fukked up. My best friend is a buck. If they ever come back home which they do at times, they treat Black women still less than they treated a white woman. Some sistas still find it to be better treatment than they received from a playing games Black man but a BM should treat his woman like a queen in his own way. He must do so. I've went into so much detail about the BM c00n and their selfish mindset in the past.

Go into detail man. Let's hear it

 

[flo]

I thought this thread was going to be about not calling consensual relationships the term for raped slaves.

 

[#1 pick]

The audacity is fukking ridiculous



Go into detail man. Let's hear it

I will later on tonight. I gotta get ready to leave

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Disclaimer:This is my first thread and I had hoped it would've been about something else, as this is rather low in the priority list. I joined the Coli because I thought (still think) that it was a black male dominated space and hopefully also a barometer for how black men felt about a number of issues. Perhaps, we'll get to address some of those issues at some point and not just irrelevant fukkery. In the meantime PaPa Absalom here is going to try and direct some of you lost chirren towards the light. I'll start with this oh so nasty a word that you sissified... sorry... naive brehs feel such an aberration for and contextualize it for you - explain why and what for it exists.

The practice of bedwenching is not a crime, it's not even morally reprehensible. Bedwenches have freewill and may do whatever they want with their vaginas. It's a personal choice and one that does not directly hurt you or myself. In this aspect they are blameless. However, this is not to say that this practice should be tolerated, much less celebrated. We do not live in a fairy tale egalitarian world, never have, never will. In the real world, either you subdue Nature or it conquers you; you either dominate or are dominated. Men are in perpetual competition for everything: power, living space (land), resources, mates. And it is a merciless, bloody, and lethal competition. This did not changed the moment the United Nations wrote their silly Declaration of Human Rights. We should not aim for peaceful coexistence with those who are ill to us, a threat to us, and impose restrictions on our quality of live; we should strive for dominance as all men do. The term bedwench is needed. It is one of a vast number of related terms, here's a few examples: coalburner, mudshark, night-rider (all white), petrolera (mexican), yellow cab (japanese/asian), sarong party girl (malaysian) et cetera. They are all derogatory names given by men to describe women who engage in relationships with groups of men outside their own. If you notice, a substantial amount of these is given to women who engage in relations with black males as this is especially base and offensive to their own men.

Men have so much invested in their own women (emotionally and in providing for them) that it is unacceptable for them that said women engage, in significant numbers, in relations with other men, especially if the interaction between the two male groups is hostile. The main role of the bedwench label is not necessarily to shame women, it is instead to warn other black men; it says avoid if possible, she is tainted, do not under any circumstances wife or bestow your resources on her, she is good for no more than a fukk/smut session. It's not about being insecure (the more alpha the men, the more unwilling they are to put up with this behaviour) or hating and disrespecting women; it's about self preservation and having standards.

It's especially needed for black men because unfortunately black men simp at higher rates than the average man (I don't have data on this, it's just based on observation/opinion). Things that other groups of men don't tolerate from their own women, black men put up with. The reason for this is simple: black men do not have the upperhand in this relationship (and the qeenz know it), so they cannot make demands; everything that is needed and dear to black women is provided by other groups of men, at least in the West - black women are not dependent on black men to the extent that other women are dependent on their own, if at all.

I'll give you an example:


2:15 to 2:50

This dude (the boyfriend) is apparently a professional baseball player, he's a successful dude, part of an elite group. Listen to what she says to his face; if you don't behave negro I'll replace you with Brett. Can you imagine women from other groups saying this so casually to their own men? Can you imagine any other group of men putting up with this? just grin and dismiss it? Especially since the Bretts she used to date were most likely not on his level?

Even if you set your natural instinct aside, bedwenches should be avoided because many of them exhibit contempt for black men, blackness, and other detrimental barriers to productive relationships.

Edit: there is no need to talk further about this topic and I'll try not to myself. It's just a honest perspective for the sake of any brehs that may fell conflicted about the term.

I cant believe the man took her back after that remark. That has to be the most disrespectful thing a bw can say to a black nan, even more so then belittling his manhood and the wost thing of all, SHE KNOWS IT TOO. That nikka was most likely raised by a single mother. Raised to respect all women. fukk that. That bytch just want a wm. But "settled" for a black man. She got a top of the line black man, and she still thinks about some cac. All she wants is a excuse, no matter now miniscule, to get what she really wants. She wont go after a average 9-5 black man. But will mess with a 9-5 cac in a heartbeat. She will never find a wm of his calibur.

No black man should be in competetion with a man who has such negative history (and present) towards her man and women. When a black woman says this, you might as well be dating a white woman real talk. Because that line should tell you everything about a WENCH like her. Snagged a top-of-the-line black male who goes out and bust his ass in front of racist cacs everyday making at leat six figures and the bytch had nerve to bring up Connor as his competition for her??

Nah b, u dont deserve a man like that and share the fruits of his labor....or any hard working black man for that matter. Because their are tons of women, black and nonblack who are ready to to be subservent to a professional athlete. bytch is acting like shes the catch.

She could be EASILY replaced. Focus on a afro-centric blacklivesmatter chick. fukk this wench. Bushes status.

 

[Blackout]

Black men do parallel Asian women in their distaste for their natural mates.

Except black men promote their distaste in their media music and language ie dark butt, etc.

That media music is white media who purposely put the worst kind of black men on display.

 

[Absalom's Thought]

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[Will Ross]

When it comes to dating only women can sellout out.
And that applies to women of all races.

 

[miranda]

It's no such thing as a bed buck. Any black man using this term is basically placing himself in a role of a female. No other group of men do this

if you mean men dont believe they are physically giving anything up during sex, then i agree but

Only a woman can sellout her group.

spending all of your emotional and financial resource on nonblack woman and her children is selling out.

That media music is white media who purposely put the worst kind of black men on display.

sorry but no, good hair, red, yella are not terms pushed by the white media.

I belong to a specific group

are you AA, black american or what

 

[Absalom's Thought]

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[Arishok]

I've dated a white guy and now I'm dating a black guy and he has no problem with my past

 

[Blackout]

sorry but no, good hair, red, yella are not terms pushed by the white media.

I underlined the words "media music" in her post to address that its white media who pushes the worst black men.

White media picks the worst black men and pushes them and their ways on the masses.

 

[Canon]

That's a big problem too. That's why Asian men hate cacs even tho cacs let them do business here because no matter how much money the avg Asian make, he don't got white supremacy and it makes them irate. I was on reddit once and they hate cacs more than we do and we have 1000000000000000 times more reasons to hate cacs. But you can't compare the two. They are NOT comparable. Even they know that a Black woman with a WM hates herself and her people in some way. Those Asian women have self hate issues but not even close to the same degree. Same for Latinos.

your broken once they get your women

 

[Canon]

I've dated a white guy and now I'm dating a black guy and he has no problem with my past

yeah but your not

i don't have much of an issue with it either depending on the circumstances

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]