Spin: Should women go on dates with men they aren’t romantically interested in?

[AMcV'88]

why not ? theres a chance they'll hit it off.

its very simple.

man wants to spend time with a woman. she gets a chance to get a little dressed up, gets a nice meal while giving him that time he wants.
if he can't win her over in that time together then you chalk it up and keep it moving.

 

[Rawtid]

Isn’t the point of dating to gauge romantic interest?

 

[NatiboyB]

How would you know if your interested in a person, without dating them?

you know when you meet them the first time anything else would be them somehow turning you off. Generally I’ve never went out with anyone I wasn’t attracted to.

 

[The ADD]

Base level

No

 

[Vandelay]

No. That's some dusty shyt to be honest.

 

[acri1]

No, I don't think anybody should go on a date with someone they've already decided they're not interested in. Why waste people's time and money?

 

[Action Mike]

Of course not.

Brehs most women just want something to do, if its sunny outside they'd now centre there whole day around that.

So when dealing with that, pick up the phone, talk to gage interest and cut through all this bullshyt.

 

[Manolo]

They shouldn't but most women have boring lives with very little going on outside of male attention. Most women aren't "grinding" or "building" or spending their free time working towards serious goals. So they use casual dates as entertainment and for free validation. And until men hold themselves to a higher standard they'll continue to be used

 

[acri1]

How would you know if your interested in a person, without dating them?

Most women know almost immediately after meeting a dude if they're interested or not.

And if the attraction isn't there then it's probably never going to be. So I don't see the point wasting anyone's time.

 

[Diondon]

You mean, if they're not attracted to them at all in any way, shape or form?
No lol

 

[MajesticLion]

Some thread topics will forever be winners

 

[EffYou]

Let these broke bum bytches take themselves out on dates, stop being free meals for these hoes

 

[Roid Jones]

Looking at the responses in the sex after 5 PM thread, I thought this was a less charged version of the issue.

So
1) Should women go on dates w/ men they’re not interested in? NO
2) If so, why? A date should ONLY occur where there is a romantic interest
3) At what point if any, should she have to tell the man? As soon as she decides she has no interest romantically
4) Should the man be given the opportunity to back out when he finds out? Yes, why pursue something that is fruitless

And for the sake of argument, we’re not discussing that gray area where a woman says yes to a guy she’s on the fence about. That’s a topic for a different thread.

 

[analog]

What exactly are you doing that separates eating a meal with a woman and a date?

Do you go out of your way to have meals with women you have no interest in?

If she's not a friend, relative, or colleague/business related person, then what purpose is the meal serving outside of a free and possibly entertaining dinner for her?

 

[SheWantTheD]

If they aren't interested and just want to have a fun time, then they should at least pay their own way.