This fits into the narrative that the bad boys are the first option, meaning women will offer the best versions of themselves to them and later switch their sights to the good guys (who they didn't give a fukk about years before) who are the fallback option that they believe will automatically accept the damaged, baggage carrying of themselves since the bad boys no longer want them. How is being viewed as a consolation prize a great thing? Explain.
SPIN: The real reason why so many guys are playas, cheaters, n bad boys
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This fits into the narrative that the bad boys are the first option, meaning women will offer the best versions of themselves to them and later switch their sights to the good guys (who they didn't give a fukk about years before) who are the fallback option that they believe will automatically accept the damaged, baggage carrying of themselves since the bad boys no longer want them. How is being viewed as a consolation prize a great thing? Explain.
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8man
The fact that 50% of the women you know consciously want thug nikkas doesn't bode well for the future of our community.
I don't blame those Black men for going after white women if they don't fit into the narrow mold Black women find attractive.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Guys have this thing where they want to be a woman's first. And if they're not she's damaged goods. If a woman made a mistake pertaining to men and relationships, she must be attracted to no good nikkas until she does, even if the mistake was at age 19. When in reality, do you think a woman who has only experienced you can ever really greatly appreciate you? She has to kiss lots of frogs, stumble, and find her way. Now if a woman has brought kids, emotional bandages from the last relationship she wants you to patch back on, then she is tripping. Too bad, most young girls are attracted to bad boys, that's what the media feeds us. Like little boys being attracted to hot old cougars and sleazy teachers. Too much movies. White girls have been fukking black boys on the low for the longest but would never introduce to family, be seen I public, and for sure NOT marry him. She's gonna marry Jon, the marketing consultant at Apple when she's looking for a life partner, and we will neeeeever know. Lol. I work with old white women. I know.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Men.
Who rewards those men?
"BRO, you smashed that!?"
"yeah! I told her I loved her and would always be there!"
"You're the man bro!"
Based on this post, it pays to be a bad boy instead a good guy which proves my overall point. 9 times out of 10, the women who are now seeking good guys are doing so not because they are genuinely interested in them but because they have this expectation that the good guys are willing to play clean-up men to help soften the consequences of their questionable decisions from years before.
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InDePickWest
Im Not American
If p*ssy is all you're after, by all means, be that bad boy. But no woman will want you to be her husband, or meet her parents, or even respect you. You'll be that 50 year old cat in the club none of the young people want there. You'll be that old head ass nikka talking to the young boys about how many women you had in your hey day, no wife to love you, no kids to carry on your last name (raised by a wife who also has your last name anyways).
Bad boys win in the short run because its easy to not care about anybody but yourself. I have an uncle who was a bad boy now he lives in my aunts spare room at like 54 or something. My dad was the good twin and he had a living wife who loved him till she passed and 8 awesome kids, one med school, one law school, one graphic designer, and one bad ass bytch (me
) and some other ones.Oh and also, 9/10 of the dudes slurping down THOTS will want to marry a good woman. Do you see women complaining about getting sloppy seconds
The problem with this way of thinking is it completely lacks integrity. Do you define what it is you want or do the things you want define you? You can't be who you are because you think someone will give you something in return for it. You are who you are because well that's who you are and if you never get another piece of vagina in your life because they aren't feeling that then fukk em. You change for no one but yourself.They were once nice guys but a few chicks decided to look over them and take then for granted. So they decided that being a good dude won't get them anywhere with the ladies and they decided to be what women really want. So stop complaining about bad guys and nikkas that take you for a thot, there's plenty of good men out here but you'd rather pass her up for the thug brotha
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8man
Yeah true, and there is a person of anyone, regardless of personality. However, it's gettin to the point where puttin on that tough guy front is becoming more and more the norm for gettin attention. My thought on it its to find that balance between being your own unique self and keeping in touch with society so you can at least have that opening to show off who you really are.
