Spin - Why Do Dudes Act Like Consent is a Complicated Thing?

[newarkhiphop]

Ok let's say in your little uber driver fantasy you meet a chick and smash she tries to call you back you ghost and she claims you took advantage of her.Do you have the resources to adequately defend yourself against those charges or are you just hoping it will all work out Consent isn't hard to judge don't think I ever had to ask are we good to have sex in my life ,but this is a era of clout chasing

Uber is a job, don't sleep with women you work with.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Ok let's say in your little uber driver fantasy you meet a chick and smash she tries to call you back you ghost and she claims you took advantage of her.Do you have the resources to adequately defend yourself against those charges or are you just hoping it will all work out Consent isn't hard to judge don't think I ever had to ask are we good to have sex in my life ,but this is a era of clout chasing

it's 2020... if you ain't been texting the bytch and she hasn't been vividly telling you about the p*ssy you bout to get.... and then afterwards, pillow talking about the p*ssy you just got......... you already lost


Ain't a woman alive that could pin me up in that position. I'm going straight to AT&T for the transcripts that are already never deleted from my phone nor backup to the cloud

 

[ThaRealness]

OP is so damn naive of the world, I can tell this nikka really young or just inexperienced completely.

I take care and I take precautions. Its so easy to spot a scandalous chick man. They are not the majority. I skip over that 5% and interact with women naturally

 

[sosaa]

nikka...
I never asked for consent. either a chick is receptive to me and cool with getting close or shes uncomfortable and doesnt want to get intimate. that shyt is implied and the majority of socially retarded mfs nowadays dont kno how to read body language and discern that

 

[ThaRealness]

Consent is a privilege, not a right. It can be revoked anytime.

If a woman says "no", she's withdrawing consent.

If a woman says "stop", she's withdrawing consent.

Even a fake "no" or "stop" should be taken seriously. If you're playing your cards right, you shouldn't miss out on p*ssy by stopping.

I don't understand how dudes can't understand this. Dudes living in they momma's house worrying about getting me too'd

Exactly. I had a girl last week in my bed who wouldnt fukk. She said "no", I told her I wouldnt pressure her.
Made out with her and she started rubbing my dikk. I asked again. She said no. I listened.

She still gave me some brain. Then I walked her out of my apartment and that was it. Its really easy to not rape chicks

 

[True Blue Moon]

if a chick is feeling you and wants to get close to you, that's a privilege

don't take it for granted.

pay attenuation

don't worry about sucka shyt like having a body count or running thru hoes, learn to bask and enjoy a chick company and all that comes with it

This is some true Zen shyt. Rep

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Because nowadays if you misread a situation you could end up in the summer jam screen with a girl telling her story on Twitter with the #metoo

Yall nikkas really catching rape charges on the regular like that?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I don’t understand how it’s so hard either.

I don’t think I’ve ever been in a situation where I needed to worry about a woman reinterpreting my advances as negative.

 

[ThaRealness]

I don’t understand how it’s so hard either.

I don’t think I’ve ever been in a situation where I needed to worry about a woman reinterpreting my advances as negative.

Dudes use that "me-too" shyt as an excuse, like everything

 

[The Spirit Of Jack Trice]

I used to think that too, until I recently had a friend who described a sexual assault, but she didn't seem to understand or maybe acknowledge that it was.

I sat there and didn't speak up, because I didn't want to cause further problems. I still don't think I should tell her, without having everything in order.

Understanding consent from both ends seems to be trickier than some realize.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Dudes use that "me-too" shyt as an excuse, like everything

I just don’t see it. Not saying it doesn’t happen. It’s just I’ve never been in a situation and I don’t understand why it’d be hard to NOT get in a situation or why there’s fear of the situation happening, as if someone will just LIE on you.

I feel like that’s what guys are worried about when they complain or say this, that, and the third. They worried about lies. But not lies others will tell on them, but the lies they tell themselves too.

 

[paperbag]

Because men are rapists and discussing consent reveals that fact. I'm sure a few people will admit to rape in this very thread
It happens every time.

 

[Wiseborn]

Getting consent isn't difficult, Keeping consent after the fact is the issue. She decides on day that you pissed her off and she'll remember that drink she had before she linked with you was you taking advantage of her while drunk.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

No always means no, full stop.

Stop being thirsty and dont tolerate females playing around with "fake" NO's. Your freedom is not a game.

Also dont buy drinks, provide drugs or socialize with high or drunk females.

 

[ThaEruditious]

Because men are rapists and discussing consent reveals that fact. I'm sure a few people will admit to rape in this very thread
It happens every time.

Don't do that shyt. Bytches out here participating in rape culture just as well as much as some these hoes be fukking minors.