Spin - Why Do Dudes Act Like Consent is a Complicated Thing?

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Boy, no.

Your friends hate the club environment because it's not set up for men, so they don't know how to catch in there. The club sucks, but if you know how to pull you can be in there only half an hour and leave with somebody.
And thats why its worth learning
 

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This is also a lie we get told constantly. You must have no conversation or appeal. Every & I repeat EVERY girl I fukked came to me. I'm dismissive so they didn't know if I wanted them or not until they tried. I've fukked them all without a fake no because they came after me.

Being aggressive doesn't make you masculine & this shyt isn't recent. I've been fukking women over 2 decades, never did this "law of nature"shyt.

Being aggressive can make a chick leave your table & come to mine. None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't.

I was raised around women, they don't all automatic like that shyt. If they did "Matriarch" wouldn't exist.

ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

U CLEARLY DONT HAVE MUCH EXPERIENCE
 

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ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

U CLEARLY DONT HAVE MUCH EXPERIENCE
Alright you non-reading mothafukka. I clearly said "None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't". That wasn't sarcasm. Meaning all women aren't the same, just like the blanket statement bullshyt you posted doesn't rep them all.

Then your stupid ass response says exactly what I said. :lolbron:

I have a son that's 21, plenty experience.

I'm not gonna waste time arguing with a mothafukka whose argument agrees with me & destroyed the dumb shyt they first said & responded to.:stopitslime:
 

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Alright you non-reading mothafukka. I clearly said "None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't". That wasn't sarcasm. Meaning all women aren't the same, just like the blanket statement bullshyt you posted doesn't rep them all.

Then your stupid ass response says exactly what I said. :lolbron:

I have a son that's 21, plenty experience.

I'm not gonna waste time arguing with a mothafukka whose argument agrees with me & destroyed the dumb shyt they first said & responded to.:stopitslime:


I DUNO WHAT U TRYNA PROVE, BUT IF U DONT THINK THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN WIT THE "TAKE MY PUSY" MENTALITY, THEN U HAVE NO CLUE WHAT U TALKIN BOUT

ITS NOT RAPE, BECAUSE THESE WOMEN WANT TO GET FUCCED, THEY JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE U MADE IT HAPPEN WIT THE STRONGEST WILL IMAGINABLE......

RAPE IS WHEN A WOMAN DOESN'T WANNA GET FUCCED BUT U FUCC HER ANYWAYS.

THATS WHY I SAID READING AND UNDERSTANDING PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN A LOT OF SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS.
 

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Being considerate and checking in with someone, plus "reading the moment" goes a long way. If she isn't good, I'm not good. Many men think of sex as a one way street, once they are cleared, the road is theirs, but it's an interactive experience, with both people involved.

Also, gender stuff, and communication is a big part of it, read up on low context vs high context communication, much of sex is high context, for a reason, because people are uncomfortable saying "I want to have sex with you, whats the best way we can do this"? Kissing someone's neck is much more to the point, but may not be welcome.

To be fair, men are not taught healthy approaches to sex at all, and by the time you are in you teens, it is totally toxic, from the "fukking hoes" mentality, to the music, it's all bad.
 

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I DUNO WHAT U TRYNA PROVE, BUT IF U DONT THINK THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN WIT THE "TAKE MY PUSY" MENTALITY, THEN U HAVE NO CLUE WHAT U TALKIN BOUT

ITS NOT RAPE, BECAUSE THESE WOMEN WANT TO GET FUCCED, THEY JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE U MADE IT HAPPEN WIT THE STRONGEST WILL IMAGINABLE......

RAPE IS WHEN A WOMAN DOESN'T WANNA GET FUCCED BUT U FUCC HER ANYWAYS.

THATS WHY I SAID READING AND UNDERSTANDING PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN A LOT OF SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS.
Mothafukka you said (blanket statement) women want an agressive man that knows what he wants. I said it's a lie cause I know & was raised with & fukked women that don't like it cause they're different.
Your response is women are different, exactly what I said.

I never said shyt about rape in that post. Trying to argue with a person you admitted was right by bringing up shyt that was never part of the discussion?

Keep being mad you gotta be aggressive & take p*ssy while I don't. Bring up some more shyt that has nothing to do with my point you already proved right. I'm done.
 

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Mothafukka you said (blanket statement) women want an agressive man that knows what he wants. I said it's a lie cause I know & was raised with & fukked women that don't like it cause they're different.
Your response is women are different, exactly what I said.

I never said shyt about rape in that post. Trying to argue with a person you admitted was right by bringing up shyt that was never part of the discussion?

Keep being mad you gotta be aggressive & take p*ssy while I don't. Bring up some more shyt that has nothing to do with my point you already proved right. I'm done.

OK .... NOT ALL WOMEN, OBVIOUSLY. I WAS SPEAKIN IN GENERAL TERMS.

I DONT GOTA TAKE PUSY, IVE GOTTEN IT IN NUMEROUS DIFF WAYS AND SINCE U CLAIMED U HAVENT I ASSUMED U WERE INEXPERIENCED. PERIOD.
 

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Looks like it's time to post this again:

Black Panther's Anti-Incel Guide for Success With Women
  1. Start seeing women as autonomous persons, not as objects, or as a means to an end.

    Women often have their own wants, needs, goals, and aspirations that don't involve pleasing men.

  2. Interact with more people in real life, both men and women.

  3. Stop filtering your perception of women through the internet/social media/YouTube/The Coli.

  4. Stop listening to bitter men who only describe women as "children" or capricious, gold-digging harpies.

  5. Women don't owe you anything. (Nobody does.) If women ain't checking for you, even after you're nice to them or give them attention, they're not "withholding" anything from you.

  6. Dust off some old hobbies, or pick up a new one. Work out, learn to cook, volunteer, something. Women are attracted to a passionate man.

    I've dropped many drawls just by being a f*ckin' comic book artist. :mjlol:

  7. Give women something to be interested in other than being a "nice guy". Nice guys only finish last if "nice" is all they have to offer.

  8. After building rapport, be upfront with your intentions. (The "building rapport" part is important).

    The best way to escape the "friendzone" is to take the "friend" option off the table. :panthersafe:

    If you're wanting something else but she's not wanting to be anything other than platonic friends, move on. There are better uses of your time.

  9. If you trying to smash, be chill about it. She'll send you signals.

  10. Taoist thrust, always :bpufedup:
BONUS: If you do all the things I've listed and a women still turns you down, you should--and I can't stress this enough--MOVE ON.
Prioritize your time enough to know when it's being wasted.:panthersafe:
That doesn't mean to completely ghost her or treat her like sh*t. It actually may have nothing to do with you. Just charge it to the game :kanyebp: she missed out. :ehh:



EDIT: Updated 7/3/2019
 
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