Spin - Why Do Dudes Act Like Consent is a Complicated Thing?

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great post.

I heard somebody say something like this years ago on some random podcast and it needs to be talked about. SOME people will be out here experimenting with stuff thats new to them, then decide they didn't like it and will say it was some form of rape. When the reality is they were on board the entire way and just didn't like it or how it made them feel afterwards.

And especially for a man, you have to kind of navigate your way around these people. There are people well into their 30s that don't know what the fukk they like and dislike about sex and think the shyt all kinds of demonic or whatever.

Hell a lot of it ain’t even experimenting. They want attention and will go to great lengths to get it.

Attention is an addiction. Part of the reason why u have to delineate between actual rape victims and people crying rape for rep, is b/c there are loser perverts out there who want to claim that rape is just so super complicated so we should just say fukk it to consent. And the attention addicts who wanna attach themselves to trauma to give themselves a more epic dramatic life helps the actual perverts trivialize sexual assault on some “See! They don’t know what they want!” Type shyt.

The crazies want the chaos.

But for most normal people, it ain’t that difficult. I don’t know a lot of females crying rape for rep, just like I don’t know a bunch of men just rubbing they hands together waiting for the rape wagon to come thru.

But I do know a few. I’ve spoken at length about one chivk I used to know who was a walking breathing rape case waiting to happen. She puts herself in very precarious sketchy sexual situations and then talks about how much she regrets them afterwards.

To be clear, no means no. Consent isn’t difficult. But when u getting pass out drunk with dudes and you consented to sex, but u feel bad afterwards, that’s not rape. When you start, then stop, then the guy tries to leave, then you beg him to come back, then when he gets it in, you tell him to stop—

Bottom line is these loony tunes not in a mental or emotional place to be fukked. Same with the dudes. If u keep pressing and the chick trying to get away, or clearly not feeling it, you don’t need to be anywhere near the opposite sex.

Just watch out for yourself. One of my male friends is notorious for curving drunk chicks. The shyt ain’t worth it.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah there was another thread on here where a breh lost his whole career off that. All you did was kick her out too? Smh.

Yes. Think about it if someone told you they were arrested for rape what would you think about them?

 

[Wiseborn]

Hell a lot of it ain’t even experimenting. They want attention and will go to great lengths to get it.

Attention is an addiction. Part of the reason why u have to delineate between actual rape victims and people crying rape for rep, is b/c there are loser perverts out there who want to claim that rape is just so super complicated so we should just say fukk it to consent. And the attention addicts who wanna attach themselves to trauma to give themselves a more epic dramatic life helps the actual perverts trivialize sexual assault on some “See! They don’t know what they want!” Type shyt.

The crazies want the chaos.

But for most normal people, it ain’t that difficult. I don’t know a lot of females crying rape for rep, just like I don’t know a bunch of men just rubbing they hands together waiting for the rape wagon to come thru.

But I do know a few. I’ve spoken at length about one chivk I used to know who was a walking breathing rape case waiting to happen. She puts herself in very precarious sketchy sexual situations and then talks about how much she regrets them afterwards.

To be clear, no means no. Consent isn’t difficult. But when u getting pass out drunk with dudes and you consented to sex, but u feel bad afterwards, that’s not rape. When you start, then stop, then the guy tries to leave, then you beg him to come back, then when he gets it in, you tell him to stop—

Bottom line is these loony tunes not in a mental or emotional place to be fukked. Same with the dudes. If u keep pressing and the chick trying to get away, or clearly not feeling it, you don’t need to be anywhere near the opposite sex.

Just watch out for yourself. One of my male friends is notorious for curving drunk chicks. The shyt ain’t worth it.

Even before I got caught up I thought this was wierd, I don't understand why chicks are so comfortable getting blackout drunk and expecting nothing to happen? Again I never did shyt to a drunk chick but I remember one time this white chick was in the army got shytfaced in a foreign country where she was ordered not to drink (she was in the military) and local soldiers brought her back to the base. This wasn't in europe anything could've happened to her

 

[Oatmeal]

Even if you think it's a fake no, it still means no, even if she secretly means yes. Anything that isn't a clear yes is a gamble with your freedom.

Exactly. I had a girl last week in my bed who wouldnt fukk. She said "no", I told her I wouldnt pressure her.
Made out with her and she started rubbing my dikk. I asked again. She said no. I listened.

She still gave me some brain. Then I walked her out of my apartment and that was it. Its really easy to not rape chicks

I always figured if they say no it's cause they're on their period and I ain't on that type of action

When I first was messin with my old girl we was about to get it in but she stopped and was like "I can't do this" I was likeno problem I dont need it THAT bad. Got it a week later and I put 1 and 1 together. But I guess some brehs really be on that Genghis Kahn action

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Even before I got caught up I thought this was wierd, I don't understand why chicks are so comfortable getting blackout drunk and expecting nothing to happen? Again I never did shyt to a drunk chick but I remember one time this white chick was in the army got shytfaced in a foreign country where she was ordered not to drink (she was in the military) and local soldiers brought her back to the base. This wasn't in europe anything could've happened to her

I mean at the most basic level it’s because nothing IS supposed to happen.

BUT we all know how well that works. Biggie wasn’t supposed to get shot.
Trump wasn’t supposed to be our president either.


It’s because they already in a reckless mindset. Alcohol is just a conduit for the demons they tryin to exorcise. To be honest, I actually believe there are more good people in the world than bad. God knows I’ve been in some “what the hell wrre u thinking situations” b4. We all have been and made it out unscathed. But some people chronically test their luck doing this shyt. They be going thru a self-destruct mode.

 

[Wiseborn]

I mean at the most basic level it’s because nothing IS supposed to happen.

BUT we all know how well that works. Biggie wasn’t supposed to get shot.
Trump wasn’t supposed to be our president either.


It’s because they already in a reckless mindset. Alcohol is just a conduit for the demons they tryin to exorcise. To be honest, I actually believe there are more good people in the world than bad. God knows I’ve been in some “what the hell wrre u thinking situations” b4. We all have been and made it out unscathed. But some people chronically test their luck doing this shyt. They be going thru a self-destruct mode.

You know what I feel you.It's easy to get all redpilled and say Women are incapable of taking personal responsibility but I've done reckless shyt all the time. Maybe because I'm a dude or hung around white dudes so I just don't get super drunk like that. But saying that I don't understand that chick's mindset. Technically the orders were not to drink at all and not to go out in less than groups of 4 shorty got around that by going to the afterparty for the local soldiers unit celebration, then she separated from all the americans and got so drunk that the local soldiers had to carry her out. I didn't even know she was there. This was at a club so had it been a regular civilian.... And this was in Africa it wasn't technically a warzone but there was an insurgency and a lot of crime where we were.

 

[MaxPain]

OP u must be inexperienced or not have much experience with women. There is a ALOT more gray area to it than this.

I avoid one night stands, drunk women that Im not familiar with, and always keep text threads.

Paranoid? Maybe. But it’s up to me to look out for myself.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

nikka you better that's the fukking law. Needless to say if there's any ambiguity I'm dipping immediately

its not even a law thing.... its pride and ego lmao

im sensitive

 

[Wiseborn]

its not even a law thing.... its pride and ego lmao

im sensitive

Same here, I don't want it if she don't

 

[ThaRealness]

I always figured if they say no it's cause they're on their period and I ain't on that type of action

When I first was messin with my old girl we was about to get it in but she stopped and was like "I can't do this" I was likeno problem I dont need it THAT bad. Got it a week later and I put 1 and 1 together. But I guess some brehs really be on that Genghis Kahn action

She said she was 'on her period'. I assumed she made that up

 

[ThaRealness]

Well I think the moral of this thread is just avoid clout chasing hoes. Seems like most of the problems come with athletes and the scandalous girls that want their attention. Thats some 'me-too' shyt, just on a smaller scale.

Like I said, if you on your every day shyt, and you not pulling hoes cause they see you on the grid-iron, I think you'll be fine

Spoiler

Getting all the p*ssy and then want to complain ass motherfukkers

 

[AllHolosEve]

WOMEN WANT THE MEN TO BE THE AGGRESSOR AND LOVE A DUDE WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS

ITS THE LAWS OF NATURE

ONLY RECENTLY HAS MASCULINITY BEEN SOCIETALLY ACCEPTED AS “TOXIC”

This is also a lie we get told constantly. You must have no conversation or appeal. Every & I repeat EVERY girl I fukked came to me. I'm dismissive so they didn't know if I wanted them or not until they tried. I've fukked them all without a fake no because they came after me.

Being aggressive doesn't make you masculine & this shyt isn't recent. I've been fukking women over 2 decades, never did this "law of nature"shyt.

Being aggressive can make a chick leave your table & come to mine. None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't.

I was raised around women, they don't all automatic like that shyt. If they did "Matriarch" wouldn't exist.

 

[ThaRealness]

This is also a lie we get told constantly. You must have no conversation or appeal. Every & I repeat EVERY girl I fukked came to me. I'm dismissive so they didn't know if I wanted them or not until they tried. I've fukked them all without a fake no because they came after me.

Being aggressive doesn't make you masculine & this shyt isn't recent. I've been fukking women over 2 decades, never did this "law of nature"shyt.

Being aggressive can make a chick leave your table & come to mine. None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't.

I was raised around women, they don't all automatic like that shyt. If they did "Matriarch" wouldn't exist.

Big facts. This is why I dont understand why my friends hate the club environment

We aren't going to holla at every single girl. Well I used to do that

We are going to have a regular conversation and see what comes our way.

 

[Taadow]

This is also a lie we get told constantly. You must have no conversation or appeal. Every & I repeat EVERY girl I fukked came to me. I'm dismissive so they didn't know if I wanted them or not until they tried. I've fukked them all without a fake no because they came after me.

Being aggressive doesn't make you masculine & this shyt isn't recent. I've been fukking women over 2 decades, never did this "law of nature"shyt.

Being aggressive can make a chick leave your table & come to mine. None of this shyt is the same, like all women aren't.

I was raised around women, they don't all automatic like that shyt. If they did "Matriarch" wouldn't exist.

Chuuch.

 

[Taadow]

Big facts. This is why I dont understand why my friends hate the club environment

We aren't going to holla at every single girl. Well I used to do that

We are going to have a regular conversation and see what comes our way.

Boy, no.

Your friends hate the club environment because it's not set up for men, so they don't know how to catch in there. The club sucks, but if you know how to pull you can be in there only half an hour and leave with somebody.